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Archived questions from: 10 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I want to ask her out but have never been on a date before. Advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - Sometime before Christmas (11th December)I attened an informal meal and get together hosted by one of my friends. Anyway, I started talking to this girl while I was there. She left quite early, but in the time we did talk we got along ok. So I t...

Any tips about asking her out after I refused her invitation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - the girl i fancy asked me to a party on saturday. i said no because i thought she was jokin and did'nt want to gatecrash someone else's party but i'm regretting it we are both 17 and only see each other at work once a week and have began gett...

I discovered the man I date does porn for a living! Should I confront him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I have a really big delma that i can only ask you guys about. Ok, so I've been dating this guy for 5 months and i just learned from searching him up on google, that he does porn for a living. I he's really nice around me and consideret i mean he ...

He acts like he is embarrased to be seen in public with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Ok so Iam just so lost and confused I am in love with a man 10 yrs my senior. he has a very stessful job and refuses to talk to me about anything he refuses to go anywhere or do anything but sit in the house and play on his commputer. He knows th...

My crush of 3 years likes my twin, should I tell her I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Hey, ive never been on here before a bit of a new bee :) Well i have a big dilema, ive just found out my crush of 3 years is in love with my twin sister. My twin has come to me for advice as i know the boy more, but she doesn't know about my fe...

My birthday surprise didn't exactly work out, help?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - it's my birthday tomorrow, and i don't really see my boyfriend a right much anymore after a few complications, we're still the same just not always with each other like we used to be. Anyways, he told me yesterday that i could see him today but then ...

Why do I never seem to meet single people who have no hang ups and that are honest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - I am a divorced man and have been single for well over a year. Since my divorce i have been quite active on the dating scene but have got to the point where i am so tired of being let down, or having my fingers burned from dating unavailable people ...

Why is he texting me so often when he's living with someone else???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Me and boyfriend finished at christmas after he met someone else, we were together for 11 years he moved in with her straight away. I have received 12 texts since last Tuesday, firstly saying why did I not say hello when I saw him at football, then ...

I'm just confused because she has been extremely open sexually, and I don't understand this sudden hang-up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I live several hours apart, and so we only get to see each other a few days every two weeks. We have had sex and both have been extremely open and honest to each other about everything. Recently we got on the topic of masturb...

We won't let each other go but we're with different people!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Well I see a few people on here have already commented on this topic but mines is slightly different so here's the story. When I was about 18 I met this guy who I ended up dating for nearly 2 years. We were completely in love (or so I thought) we...

I am having a lesbian affair even though I'm not gay. What is wrong with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid. I am in a loving relationship with a guy who i am intending to spend the rest of my life with. And i think i am about to start a serious affair with a GIRL from work. I know what i am doing is wrong and immoral and do feel guilty. How...

How can I get my girlfriend to feel more relaxed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - I'm 33 and have a 26 year old gf that is a virgin. She was extremely shy when first dating and is still very quiet on sharing feelings but getting better. It has been hard to get her to express herself and often meets me on level of shared feelings ...

What is causing me to have this "brewers droop?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - Ok, bit of a long winded question but I really need help so here we go... Up until summer last year, my sex drive was perfectly normal and I frequently had erections without even thinking about it. Until that point I hadn't had much experience ...

I would love to settle down but I don't know if my boyfriend is right for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I am 28 years old and looking to settle down and have kids. I get on really well with my boyfriend, we are both sociable and he makes me happy. However, I worried that perhaps he is not right for me if I am looking to settle down. He has little ...

First time sex leads to a hurt ego and erection problem.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - Ok so I tried to have sex with a girl. We were in the club and making out and I was hard like rock hard. We decided to go to the beach (it was winter but Cyprus is not that cold in winter.. but still) and started making out there, I was still ...

I'm lonely and think I'm going to get crazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Since i broke up from a 10 year relationship in 2005 it has been very hard for me to find a stable relationship. My relationships only last for about 3-4 months, if i don't dump the guy, he dumps me. Sometimes i think i'm too wild in bed, then ...

Do these boots make my butt look big and the lies we tell.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4469 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - LIES! All of us tell lies from time to time. Sometimes small innocent lies, sometimes big giant lies. Some lies save us from being yelled at by our partners and others make our partners scream at us. Why do we do it? Can we not just get by not ...

Sometimes his negativity is hard to deal with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little past 2 months and I'm definite I'm satisfied. Sometimes though his negativity is hard to deal with since he always claims that I am "too good" for him which I don't believe and I constantly mention ...

What does he mean by "dress up nice"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

10 February 2009 (?) - What does it mean when a guy says to dress up nice? What should I wear? ALSO I need sights with easy but nice looking hairstyles to wear out that aren't too hard.. Preferably a sight with step by step instruction and curled hair. But whatever. ...

Am I being played like a fiddle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - Okay, so heres the deal. I met this guy last month and then he goes away on business out of state, now we would talk every night or every other night and everything seemed fine. He would tell me he missed me and wanted something serious and he was ...

My best friend wants more than friendship, I don't feel the same, how do I let him know definitively?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - ok so i have a very big issue my best friend jordan is in love with me and has been since 7th grade. we've tried it out a couple times to just talk but we for some reason would argue about little things. And i guess it doesnt help that im not ...

Could I have gotten pregnant after having unprotected sex, the first time we had sex??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i am 16 yrs old i had sex about a month ago..my bf took of the condom i remember him stoping several times inside me with out a condom..it was my first time..2 days after i did it i stared an early period it only last about4 or 5 days then i just ...

I like him a little too much to just forget about him, but I need to, please give me suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with my last boyfriend. He constantly called me fat and treated me like crap. I was scared to break up with him because he had horrible anger problems; and since he knew where i lived i thought he'd hurt ...

Could someone please tell me what is up with my relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Question: I had 2 flings the past year that i was crazy about. So heres the pattern: 1.They chase hard 2. they get me 3. I fall for them ...eventually it becomes sexual 4. I think of them and want to get a lil serious 5. they get distant...

Could I possibly win her back, inspite of our problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend (26) broke up with me (28) about a month ago. We had been dating for six months and connected perfectly on very many levels. We were both very attracted to each other, had the same goals, interests, and simply loved spending time with ...

My long distance relationship is in slight crisis mode, help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is having trouble in college. She's trying to make friends, however, she made none. Everyone calls her name and looks down on her as stupid or a weirdo. I can't do anything to help her right now because she lives in Rhode Island while ...

Afraid of making the wrong choice!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - Torn between two men and I can't decide. One is patient, kind, buys me lots of nice things and treats me well. But I'm not really attracted to him. He is very quiet, and I don't feel close to him; I don't feel lik I really know him even after many ...

How do I become more secure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - i am a jealous person, but i feel like there are rational explanations for it. i do trust my bf, but i'm just iffy about a lot of girls he hangs out with. like, my first impressions of them would not be the greatest, even before i knew they were ...

I have so many feelings for him but am afraid to open up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 7 weeks now. We've know each other for 2 years but didn't want to ruin our good friendship. We spend every weekend together. I know how I feel for him just un sure if our feelings are mutual. He always calls or texts ...

He says he got her pregnant before we got together! Should I believe him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - My question is, you see I'm with this guy almost three months now, now he's going to come and tell me that another woman is pregnant for him, he said it happened before we got together, my question is should I stay with this guy or should I move on ...

I'm dating my ex's friend but I still love my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

10 February 2009 (M) - I started dating my ex almost 2 years ago now... we were together for about 10 months when due to issues outside of our control we split up mutually... there were no hard feelings and we remained friends. However shortly after that (about 1 month) m...