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Archived questions from: 4 February, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I cant tell if he's asking to be nice or friendly or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Hi there. I work with a guy who is forever asking me what I am doing after work. I cannot tell if he is asking to be friendly or if he is interested. I have noticed that he seems kind and compassionate but wonder if his question is based on his k...

V-day Do guys like surprises?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Any ideas of what to get my bf for V-Day? Is clothes okay...I bought him (2) dress shirts and plan on buying him a pair of jeans to go with it. Is that too much? I'll be spending a little over $50. On V-Day it will be 3 wks. of us being togethe...

Jealous? Or thinking badly of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - I met this group of guys the other day and we partied at their house together. I kissed one of them two nights in a row and he wanted to do more, started touching me all over but I took his hands off and left. I really like him but he seems to be a ...

V-day ideas for a guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for two months now and i dont know what to get him for valentines day. i dont want anything too soppy and i have also been looking for a card that isnt soppy because we havent been together that long. we are like ...

He's giving me a promise ring - what should I get him for V-Day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - What should I give my perfect boyfriend for valentines day if he will give me a promise ring?...

What should I do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Ok i apologise if this question is a bit complicated but i'm confused about things, and need a bit of help. A few weeks ago, me and my bf (we'll call him J) split up, and i was devastated. The weekend after i dealt with things in a bad way by going ...

Can you call this a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Umm Im not really seeking advice here...Im just asking for opinions and I would really like to hear Your opinions...There's this Guy I know{He's 18}...he Lives about 6 hrs away from this girl he has fallen in love with. They met Through a friend of ...

How can I get my roommate out of my mind so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) - I recently had a girl move into my house, she is 17 years old and still in high school. I share the house with my step brother and another roommate as well. About a week ago me and a friend got pretty drunk and came home late Friday night. My ...

How do I casually ask for a guys address?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Alright here's the problem, I bought these 2 necklace's and I really want to send the guy I'm madly in love with one of the two, but I'd have to do it by mail. But I don't know his address! I want to ask him but I'm scared it will get weird, how do ...

I really want to date him but he lives three hours away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Alright, I Think I found the one. i know i'm Only 14 But i'v never Felt this Way before the only problem is he lives three hours Away and He Loves Me And i Love Him but i dont think He Believes in long distance, But i REALLY want this to work, the ...

My married man has disappeared, what's his story?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - i am a 36 year old woman and i have been in a new job for 12 months. I absolutely love it after being at home for 6 years with my children. I have been with my partner for 17 years, reasonably happy. I have met a 54 year old married man at work ...

How do I decide what (or who) is best for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - I need some advice. I am twenty eight. I have been in a relationship for two years. For the most part we have a good relationship. But I lack trust in him. I don't believe that he ever cheated, all though i caught him talking to an ex about a year ...

How can I tell her I like her without actually telling her that I like her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) - Hi there I'm 14 and have not had a proper relationship with someone yet. I really like this girl at my school but am not sure if she likes me or not. I have not told anyone and do not talk to anyone about her because I don't really have anyone. ...

Is it okay to consider sex with a single mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) - I’m single. I have been friends with a beautiful woman who is a single parent of three. We had a lot of good times together. A few months ago she moved out of the area. We kept in touch. She said that if I was interested in getting away that I s...

Am I setting myself up to get hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) - Is she really interested as I am ? Met a woman six months ago while out at lunch. Gave her my card as we really really had a nice connected coversation and upon shaking hands the eye contact and chemistry was outstanding. Six months go by and...

In love and want to take the step to forever!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - i have been with the same guy for almost a year now. we get along great. this is the same guy i almost married years ago. i have come to the conclusion that he will never stop drinking on a daily basis. i accept it. i dont approve of it but ...

He doesn't love me, should I spend Valentine's day with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months, he doesn't love me (told me a couple of months ago - after I told him I loved him) He said it was too early for him (which is fair enough, I've accepted that and have not mentioned it again). But ...

I really need to know if you think he’s just using me for sex and if I should move on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Ok well I meet this guy and he’s really sweet and the first day I meet him we went out on that same day and I think we hit it off, and then we went out 2 days in a row after that, I think I really like him but it’s so confusing because he said he ...

My b/f keeps going out & partying with her and she's crushing on him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Would you be uncomfortable if your bf was going out partying with a girl, every weekend, and sometimes even during the week, but not just any girl, a girl who has a major crush on him, a girl who has made moves on him? My bf is doing all of the...

He loves me? He loves me not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over four months now. Last night my boyfriend and I were laying in bed and I've been wanting to tell him I love him... I finally got up enough courage to do that. I said it and I got a lot of sweet kisses ...

I've had a crush on him for a year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - i have this problem.. i have a crush on someone, i have a crush on him since january 23, 2008 -- so it means that i have a crush on him for a year. and he's a graduating student while i'm in sophomore year only.. my friends told me that i'm in love ...

Things aren't getting better with my fiance, should I broke up and be with the new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Im 20 and have been with a 27 yr old for 2 years. We got engaged on my 19th birthday and things were going great. Only problem was we had sex about once a month. We got a mortgage and a house together as i thought things between us would change. We ...

From the mistress to the girlfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - I am now dating a guy that I've known for 2 and 1/2 years. We first kind of started seeing each other this summer when I was his mistress while he was living with his ex g/f who was his g/f at the time. She found out that he was cheating on him and ...

My b/f is ignoring me, calling me clingy & needy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - iv been dateing my bf for about a month now and today i go up to hm cuz he hasent talked to me for a week he hasnt called or texted m worred he dont love me any more today i went up to him he ignored me then when i asked him what wrong hes just ...

He comes in with a girl on his arm but I thought he liked me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Ok, i like this one guy and we were planning on going to this dance our school was having if we could. He ended up not being able to. But the dance thing happened last weekend. But this week he comes to school with a girlfriend on his arm. While a ...

Offline and online relationship troubles...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) - I'm 25 and once again single. I've broken up with my girlfriend of the past three months, because whenever I want to do something she always makes excuses, and always tries to do those things I want to do if there's something in it for her. She ...

Does this guy like me or am I just creating false hope for myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I would really like some advice about a guy I really like at the moment. All the body language signs that a guy shows when he likes a girl are there ie body position, feet pointing at me, fidgeting and, grooming. Anytime I'm near him he changes ...

How can you find out if your man is being honest with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - How do you find out if your man is being honest with you about things like is he still getting high? Has he gotten high since we've been together?...

I'm 24, she's 16. Can I go for it now or should I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) - I am 24 years old. There this girl that is 16 years old that I am attracted to. Part of me want to see if there is a chance to see if they is a chance at us hooking up, but part of me says we are too different. There is the age difference a...

I'm losing my V-card on V-day... LADIES, how can I make this perfect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (M) - Hey my names Connor im 16 and a bit confused. see heres the thing....im a virgin. i aint ashamed o it. im with the most amazing girl in the world. shes 15 and has had sex before. we've been talking about it alot lately and she says she wants to be ...

He's always flirting - does that mean he actually likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - I was really good friends with a guy in my class. we started hanging out all the time. so i said to myself that i like him. i told him and now he doesnt really talk to me as much as he used to. he said that im cool and pretty and he loves me but ...

Is he still interested? Or has he gone cold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - i'm 15 and heres my story..i like this guy and i know him for 2 weeks now he called me gorgeous,hot,cute. we talked on the phone and he said we should hang out and we should get to know each other..last week everydayy he would say good morning ...

In my 30's and never had sex yet...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - OK this is kinda hard to explain... I'm in my 30's and STILL a virgin. This is very embarrassing! and I have to make sure anyone I know never finds out ever! I have had boyfriends but it never goes further than kissing before I then freeze or make ...

I'm too jealous, but I love him..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my fiance got together 18 months ago and things have been great, we're getting married this year too. We've never argued before but since December last year we have done nothing but argue, we have a few good days and when it...

I'm trying to date my best friends ex, why is she acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - My best friend dumped her boyfriend. it happens that i really really love him and i told him and he said he loves me as a homie but he loves my best friend that dumped him too (but more than a homie). then he said later that hes not rejecting me but ...

What can I do to make him listen to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - My man is SUPER sick, fever and cough but he isn't taking anything and he is really getting me worried. I told him to take medicince and I've been calling him to make sure he has been drinking it, but he was been drinking something for a pain tha...