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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Co-worker found out I have a crush on him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - So I have a little problem. For about 6/7 months, I have had a crush on a co-worker, and now he knows. So it was my birthday today, and we were all at work. I was given a card from all my co-workers and waited until the end of the day to read it....

Help me win my crush!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

31 May 2014 (M) - Ok, I've just very recently started at a new, temporary job, and there's a girl there that I'm really keen on, she's 100% GF material, and I'm actually 80% sure that she's keen on me too! Problem is, messing things up with the fairer sex is my ...

I'm done with dating and want no more to do with women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

31 May 2014 (M) - I don't even know when to begin...it's like every time I try I somehow get used. My troubles started four girls ago and yet somehow I haven't learned my lesson. Let me tell you about myself; I'm twenty-three, college graduate, and living at home. I ...

Will I just be another notch on his bedpost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - [Mod note: could you please ask the question you'd like the aunts to answer? Your last comment said you need to be so desperate to be with a man like this so why are you even considering such thing with him? Thanks.] Hi dear agony aunts. Thanks f...

How do I act toward my crush? I'll be visiting his workplace soon!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - How do I act around a crush, given that I choose "accidently on purpose" to be where he works and stand the possibilty of being served by him. I don't live in that town, but I used to go there often...I really want to see if he'll chat me up...

Guy friend or more than?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3819 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - One of my closest friends is a guy I met a few months ago who I had originally been interested in, but had a hard time reading. He seemed interested, but was sending mixed signals. Eventually, I mustered up the courage to ask him where we stood, ...

I cheated on my long-term girlfriend after we became long-distance. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 24 year old male and I've dated the same girl since high school for over 7 years. Words can't describe how much I love this person and I still do. Almost 2 years ago, she moved to Europe for medical studies because she didn...

Any tips for approaching my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - I recently had a dream that I was getting married, well kinda. Well for some reason I was at my middle school ( currently in the 10th) and there was this semi long hall way to get to te front doors. Well I was walking towards the front doors and ...

How to cope with losing the girl AND watching her love someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

28 May 2014 (M) - Well, after a year of being with her as great friends, I finally confessed my feeling. She didn't feel the same. The friendship didn't last. Only a week after our friendship ended, I see her with another guy at school. They both are always in each ...

Should I start up a text conversation with her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

28 May 2014 (M) - Dear Cupids, I just got this girls nnumber last week. I waited a day and then texted her. A day later she responded while I was out with some friends. Probably should of told her I was busy. I ended up starting to text her back after a couple o...

In love with my friend's sister -- what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3821 days ago

28 May 2014 (M) - I am in love with my friends sister. I started liking her a couple of years ago and now I know I really like her a lot. I had planned to ask her to prom, but most of my friends said it wasn't a good idea. I was afraid that she was going to reject ...

What is more important: being comfortable in a relationship or having a similar level of attraction to each other?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I wanted to share my point of view on attraction in relationships. Obviously there has to be attraction for a relationship to work. But in my opinion, go for someone you're moderately attracted to over someone you're insanely attracted to. Me...

His social anxiety keeps him house bound

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I like this guy quite a lot and I really want to get to know him more, originally my parents set us up as they know his mum well. The problem is that I can't him to come out of his house, he hardly ever comes off his computer. He lost his dad at a ...

I am falling deeply for my older Boyfriend's cousin. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - I'm 19 and with a 34 year old man a year and half. Please don't comment on the age gap , I prefer older men. About 3 months ago I met his cousin who is 31 for the first time. He told me a lot about this guy how he cheated on his now wife when the...

How hard should I try to make this relationship work, even though he has a fear of commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My current boyfriend and I have a very romantic and dramatic start. Now we have around one year and a half dating. It's my second longest relationship and i'm very proud and happy since i went through a lot of frogs back in the day. The proble...

I am fit and petite but I have no boobs. He's a boob man. Is there any chance that he'll consider me attractive?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Would you find a woman with a squatting bum, defined stomach/ faint abs and slight thigh gap attractive, even if she was basically flat chested? I only ask because I'm going to a pool party with the guy i'm dating this weekend and I don't want him...

Whose move next?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - A man I like, whom I met several months ago and have bumped into a couple of times asked for my number when we randomly saw each other one evening a few weeks ago. I had a missed call 2 weeks ago and I sent a text back to say I saw the missed call ...

He seems interested since I said I was getting a divorce

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - There's a guy I am attracted to we talk every once in a while. Last December he introduced to the very close friend who is now his girlfriend. Only last month I told him that I will be getting a divorce. Now he seems interested in me but I am ...

I like my friend's ex but don't want to lose the friendship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - hi everyone so basically i think im starting to like one of my best friends ex's. they have been apart about 4/5 months now but they are both really good friends and me and her have been friends for about a year or so now. However, the oth...

He was so eager to see me. Then we had sex. Is he now fobbing me off? If yes, then why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I want an honest opinion, please don't judge me. I met a guy on a night out a month ago in a different city. We talked every single day via messaging/phone calls ect. a significant amount. We agreed on a date for him to come and see me at my pla...

New workplace for me. Guy there is married, attractive and older. What's my next move?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - hi.theres this man whos pretty elder to me but is ravishingly handsome,at my workplace. i just started working there 2 weeks ago and he makes frequent eye contacts and shows many other signs of attraction.it makes me feel really awkard to gaze back ...

I'm falling for one of my best friends ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - Been friends for a few years. Last year and a bit we've become really close. We do everything together, always hangout, close with her family. I've never had feelings for her, until a month ago. Do I tell her? I don't know if she feels the same...

Back in my day, if someone made you a mixtape, it was a signal they liked you! Should I forget him and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - Hello I've been out of the dating world for a few months, not interested in anyone but recently there is this guy I really like. He heard me playing guitar and said it sounded like the radio, and offered to make me a CD of a singer I'd like....

Is it normal for me to have these thoughts? I have an 'odd' sexuality.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - hi, I used to use this site a lot when i was in a dd/lg relationship when I was 17-19. Since then I went of to University and i'm now 21 and about to graduate. I met someone else, who wasn't 35 years older than me (just 10) and who wanted a stable ...

I think I have anxiety and depression and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

23 May 2014 (M) - hi, i think i have social anxiety and also some depression, what should i do about it? i get really anxious in certain situations, for example going into town clubbing and just generally large group events, im not so bad on the town thing anymore, i ...

Should I go after him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - Ok so yesterday was my high school graduation and after the ceremony all the schools in my town host a graduation party so at this party my guy friend "B" and I were playing ping-pong with like 3 other friends and then while we were playing he ...

I told her I liked her and pushed too hard, but I still want to sort things out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

22 May 2014 (M) - Hi, bit of a long complicated situation. So a while back I told one of my friends that I liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but told me that she didn't feel the same way. We still remained friends but I always felt I ...

I don't know if she's gay; I don't even know if I'm gay

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3828 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - hey, so lately I have been having these strong feelings for my friend Caitlin whom I don't no is gay or not, Infact I'm not sure that I'm even gay. All I do know is that every time I'm near her all I want to do is kiss her and hold her close and ...

How do I control myself around this guy? I'm older but can't seem to get a handle on my actions and feelings. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - Ok, so this is a really embarrassing and very silly problem. I am a confident woman. I date. I don't have any trouble picking up guys, but for personal reasons I am not interested in a relationship at the moment. BUT for the first time in about 10 ...

Should I tell her how I feel before she goes back home to the other side of the planet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

20 May 2014 (M) - Hi guys Basically, I met a girl who is 5 years older than me, she is 28 and I am 23. She is studying here and will leave in a few months time. I knew her from an online language exchange and I went to visit her and saw her during 3 days. During t...

We got close at a bad time . But I do still really want to be friends with him. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

20 May 2014 (F) - I'm do down I don't know what to do For the first time in 8 months my ex friend acknowledged me by saying morning and at a friends party shook my hand The problem was we got close at a bad time - he was splitting with a girl who made him miserab...

What's a subtle way of saying "I miss you", without sounding too needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

20 May 2014 (F) - About 2 months ago, I was dating someone who I really felt a connection with and was falling for him (this rarely happens) and he felt the same way too. However because he came out of a long term relationship at the end of last year, he told me...

Does it really happen that people can't keep their hands off each other?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - Can this really happen? You know in films where a couple can't keep their hands off each other and they basically attack each other. Does anyone have this? Is it real or is it just for the drama? Most the time form what I can remember the sex I've ...

Why does she not reply to my messages anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

19 May 2014 (M) - Okay so this might be a long story but here it goes! So when I was in highschool I liked this girl and we went out, but I later said somethings and she took them as if I did not like her and then she just kinda didn't want to talk to me afterwards! ...

I've never felt an instant attraction before!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - Why did I feel that way about that guy? I've never felt like that before.? So yesterday I went to my sister's party and I saw this gorgeous guy and the attraction was instant. I was so shy couldn't wait to get out off his sight. He found out...

Should I feel bad for moving on first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

18 May 2014 (M) - There's this girl that I liked at my college. We were friends for a good few months. We went out together, partied together, did crazy stuff and just all around enjoyed each other's company. We even entrusted each other with some pretty embarrassing ...

Does he not observe personal space, or was it something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - This is going to sound really stupid.It is. For the first time in a long time,got attracted to someone who everybody else thinks is gay. He is moving to another state that is so far away.It doesn't matter.But he always seemed uncomfort...

I gave my crush a note explaining my feelings and he created a big scene in front of our friends by reading it aloud and humiliating me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

17 May 2014 (F) - hey, having a bit of an issue. so, i've been friends with a guy for ages now, and recently, i developed feelings for him. so, i gave him a note explaining my feelings, because i'm not good at talking about these things face to face. a few day...

I can't get him out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

17 May 2014 (F) - Hello friends I need the help I just dnt know how to get this guy out of my mind I know we have no future we never dated we were not even good friends but the thing is I constantly keep thinking about him I try to divert my mind but fail to ...

He wanted to bottle me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - Today was the last day with one of our college tutors and so we planned to go out for pizza at one of the local bars after class. I said I'd maybe join a little later, if I didn't have too much work. I did, but came when everyone except or tutor had ...

I'm getting attention from much younger men!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - I am 45 and, after being separated for about 4 years now, I have recovered from what was a horrid and long relationship and am almost ready for a new one. The 'problem', if it is one, is that I am very confused now that I've realised I have ...

I broke off the flirtation because we're both committed to others, but how do I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

15 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been on and off in friendship zone with a married guy for over 3 yrs now. He likes me and i like him too. We are very attracted to each other but we can't do anything about it. I haven't seen him for 2 years now coz he moved...

I want to move on, to find someone who will support my choices

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - Hi. I am 22 years old and have only ever really liked (had a crush on) one person. Ever. I know that he is a total momma's-boy and a gigantic crybaby who thinks that the world should bow down to his gigantic ego because he could have been a doctor, ...

How do I reject this sweet, disabled guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - How do I respond to this?! Him: Why were you not in class today? Me: I was a little sick this morning - didn't wanna chance a 50min 4pm lecture :P Him: It's been a while hey? I really missed you. Me: I know, right? It's feel like foreve...

My crush is bi and so am I!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

13 May 2014 (F) - I have a really good friend and we've been really good friends for a couple of years now and we're really similar with loads in common. We're both bisexual, but she's the only one out of us who is 'out'. She doesn't exactly parade it around but if ...

We were friends only earlier, as I was in a relationship. How can I now let him know I'm single?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - While I was dating my old boyfriend, I became friends with a guy who I later realized was interested in me. I informed him I had a boyfriend, and our relationship remained platonic. I have since broken up with my boyfriend, but don't know how to ...

I want to move on from a girl I fell for. Is it OK to ignore her if she texts me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

12 May 2014 (M) - Last year a girl joined my college course and straight away I fell for her. We became friends and then I asked her out at the end of the year and she turned me down. After that nothing changed, we were still friends although she did move into the ...

How do I distance myself from this woman who has a fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

12 May 2014 (M) - There's a woman I've known since we were 16 (we're 24 now) and I've always found her attractive, though we've never been close friends. Always just acquaintances. She was always in a relationship while I've always been highly focused on my care...

Unrequited love! I don't know how to deal with it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

11 May 2014 (F) - im in love with my best friend, who doesn't love me back. i have to spend all day every day with him and it's so painful. what do i do?...

He said he fancies me, and he called me sexy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3837 days ago

11 May 2014 (F) - Would you be offended by someone calling you sexy, if you hardly knew them ?. Ok, I don't know what is going on with this guy I know. He is a friend of another guy who also said that he likes me. This guy sent me a text message saying that he i...