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I've never felt an instant attraction before!

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Question - (18 May 2014) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Why did I feel that way about that guy? I've never felt like that before.?

So yesterday I went to my sister's party and I saw this gorgeous guy and the attraction was instant. I was so shy couldn't wait to get out off his sight.

He found out my name and came to ask me for a drink and one of his friend say he took off his blazer as soon as he saw me.

He said he'd like to see me again so how are we going to do that and I said he should get my number from his colleague (sis husband) give me a call and take me out and he said okay he'll do that.

So I told my brother in law about him and he said sure and he'll watch him for me.

OMG!! When we were talking I swallowed a little fly or something. I was in daze. He was so hot! I wanted to cough but I didn't cause I didn't want to embrass myself in front of him. Hehe

He's been on my mind all day. I've never felt such an instant attraction before;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2014):

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I didn't have my phone on me, it was in my sis bedroom & the guy was already on his way to his car. & I don't know my number off heart. (Is a new number)

I told him to ask my sis husband for it. I don't know if he did. Now I'm anxiously waiting for his call/text. Cause I can't get him out my head:( But I don't want to seem pushy & desperate by asking my sis husband if he gave his friend my number.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (20 May 2014):

So_Very_Confused agony auntah limerence is lovely ... it's that instant pheromone attraction to someone.

IT does not mean he's your one.

It does not mean he's right for you

It does NOT mean you should sleep with him.

it means you found him interesting and intriguing and it may come of something.

when he said he'd like to see you again... why didn't you just give him your number then?

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A female reader, NikkieBoo  United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2014):

Sounds like you can not wait to meet again however i know the feeling of excitment and butterflys is welling up in your stomach show that your interested but play hard to get.... give it a month or soo of dating if you both want to continue seeing eachother getting to know eachother and have a laugh together what ever you do dont take it anyfurther before a month or two is up then a kiss and hug/holding hands after 2/3rd date just show that your not easy and he has to prove to you and earn your trust before you can think about getting together and going any further i really hope this goes well for you and that you have fun while dating him i done this and two years this may and engaged still happy together goodluck xx

Yours Truly,

NikkieBoo xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2014):

You're lucky he liked u back alot of people don't get that far.

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