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female
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writes:There's a guy I am attracted to we talk every once in a while. Last December he introduced to the very close friend who is now his girlfriend. Only last month I told him that I will be getting a divorce. Now he seems interested in me but I am scared. My birthday is soon here and has offered to take me to lunch at any restaurant of my choice. I named two of the most expensive restaurants and he said to me choose it doesn't matter. Why is he willing to spend so much money on lunch with me? He told me he and his girlfriend are having some issues now. He then asked me if I am sure I am not going to change my mind about divorcing my husband. Am I reading too much into this? I do like him, I am scared and I don't want to rush into anything right now.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 May 2014):
 he is willing to spend so much money on you because he figures a divorced woman will have "needs" that he can meet more cheaply by buying her a meal than paying a prostitute.
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reader, cca9130  +, writes (26 May 2014):
I think he is not intrested in you as you think. Let him suffer while you're single for a while...don't be the reason the reason for their break up, be strong and make him search you and follow you. Either way, finish your divorce first and then stay single for a while or mingle with other guys to find out what you're for ecactly in a relationship.
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reader, methuselah  +, writes (26 May 2014):
Hi,
Don't start anything now. Divorces can make you feel lonely and the need to be wanted. The need to be wanted can really take you into some dark places. I would get through the divorce first and wait until you can feel better within yourself before doing anything. A divorce can make you vulnerable to a lot of people that just prey on your situation. Best wishes.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (26 May 2014):
 Your thinking is correct, put off the date until your divorce is complete.
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