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I don't know if she's gay; I don't even know if I'm gay

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Question - (22 May 2014) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 May 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hey, so lately I have been having these strong feelings for my friend Caitlin whom I don't no is gay or not, Infact I'm not sure that I'm even gay. All I do know is that every time I'm near her all I want to do is kiss her and hold her close and that wen she last hugged me I felt asthough the whole world around me had stopped. I have no idea wat to do, please help!

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (22 May 2014):

YouWish agony auntLove is love. You have feelings for Caitlin. You don't need a label to feel attraction. She could have been your first attraction towards another woman, and you are of the age where things are all new and amazing.

As for how she feels about you, I couldn't say what could happen. That is truly uncharted territory no aunt could advise over, except that if you admit your feelings toward her, whether she responds in kind or whether she doesn't feel the same way, your friendship will be altered forever. Are you prepared for this?

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