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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupids,I just got this girls nnumber last week. I waited a day and then texted her. A day later she responded while I was out with some friends. Probably should of told her I was busy. I ended up starting to text her back after a couple of hrs. We started getting a good conversation going and my phone died. The next day I charged it up and sent her a message of what happened and that I was going to six flags today. After six flags I didnt respond till late that night to her but now its been a couple of days since she's responded to me. Granted neither one of us was really asking questions. Im wondering if I blew my chance because I didn't keep having a conversation with her or what. Typically I dont have these problems but with the holiday weekend I just had alot going on. I didnt want to be walking around a park or hanging out with my friends responding to her or feeling guilty that I wasnt saying anything. Should I start up a conversation with her again or is this a sign.. im for sure im over thinking it but it just feels like the perfect storm. She is probably just as busy as me.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 May 2014):
 I'm with honeypie... Pick up the phone and CALL HER and say "hey wanna go get coffee on Sunday afternoon?"
see what she says.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (28 May 2014):
 Listen to Honeypie.... She's giving you a great suggestion. WHAT is the MATTER with phones and TALKING to one-another??????
Good luck....
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 May 2014):
 Why not *gasp* just pick up the phone and CALL her? If you want to TALK to her call. And maybe... ASK her out?
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reader, wise-guy  +, writes (28 May 2014):
I don't think you've quite blown it yet - I mean she seemed happy enough talking before, right? As you say she's probably just been busy like you.If you like her just send her a casual text but something she can respond to, ask a couple of questions that she can answer, y'know - hey how's it going? Been up to anything interesting recently? Etc etc - if she likes you and wants to carry on talking she'll answer sooner or later If she doesn't answer straight away, that's cool, just don't keep pestering her until she finally picks her phone up. That will just come across as needy and too full on.Also, if you like this girl try to avoid the dreaded friend zone! Don't come across as overly friendly, be a little jokey and flirty if the chance crops up - don't just do it randomly.
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