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writes:Hi. I am 22 years old and have only ever really liked (had a crush on) one person. Ever. I know that he is a total momma's-boy and a gigantic crybaby who thinks that the world should bow down to his gigantic ego because he could have been a doctor, but chose to go into political science. How do I get over him? Whenever I see his picture I feel again and I want to move on to someone that is mature and at least willing to support me and my choices no matter how liberal it may seem. I need some advice please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2014): Hi, it's me, the writer.
Thank you so much.
Oh, and the reason why I see his picture is that he is Facebook friends with my real friends and his overly smug face shows up whenever he has to tell someone how to run their lives. I wish Facebook would just let me block him. Maybe I will just stop Facebook...
Again, thanks for the support and advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2014): I have the natural gifts to be great at either one of those professions too, and I think your BF sounds like an egotistical little shit. Move on and don't look back.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 May 2014):
 how come you have to see his picture?
if you keep it and look at it yourself then you are just pouring salt in the wound...
stop looking a a picture and wishing the guy could be what you want and realize he is who he is and you wishing and hoping won't change him.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 May 2014):
 What do you do? You stop stalking him on social media (if you do that...) You avoid him as much as possible and whenever you think of him with rose-colored glasses REMIND yourself that he is NOT the great guy you WANTED him to be.
Accept that not everyone is a good fit, and THAT guy wasn't a good fir for you.
Go out with friends, meet new people ( I'm not say go out and date everyone, but go out and MEET new people).
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