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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello friends I need the helpI just dnt know how to get this guy out of my mindI know we have no futurewe never datedwe were not even good friendsbut the thing is I constantly keep thinking about him I try to divert my mind but fail to I get dream of our marriageour affair our fightsThis guy seems to be badly stuck up in my mind I want to get over him please please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2014): hi dear,
sometimes in our life we think of a person or a situation that our mind has conceived and we want it to happen . subconsciously when we meet someone we assume this person to be the one that we have portrayed in our mind.
The best thing would be to stay away from the place this guy and you share in common.
Make new friends and develop new hobbies, read self help books coz they help you a lot.
meditated for few mins in the morning to focus on the goals of your life.
the more you think about him, the more you will hurt yourself.
trust that there is someone made for you.
spend time with your family coz there is nothing more supportive than a family.
spend time on grooming yourself coz it will increase your level of confidence
once you engage yourself in this you will find there is more to life than this.
slowly start practicing these things and things will fall in line.
take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2014): Well let me help you with that. You should and must forget because of the ff. Reasons below;1. He isn't thinking of you.2. He don't like you.3. His busy with other women thats why he doesn't have the time to play an active role in your life but just with your imagination.4. If a man wants you he will chase you nothing will keep him away. The only reason why his not with you because its exactly what he wanted. 5. He don't want to be with you.6. Accept the truth. Stop making excuses. Get real.Think about all the brutal truth i told you and accept it because honey i shall say nothing but the truth. So why would you torture yourself thinking about someone who does not even thought of you. Remember if a man wants a woman, nothing can keep him away from you. NOT HIS MOM, EVEN HIS WIFE, NEITHER HIS GF NOR THE DISTANCE BETWEEN THE 2 of u. If his not with you because again he does not want to be with you. So stop agonizing, thinking and hoping and expecting.
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