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Does he not observe personal space, or was it something else?

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Question - (18 May 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2014)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is going to sound really stupid.It is.

For the first time in a long time,got attracted to someone who everybody else thinks is gay.

He is moving to another state that is so far away.It doesn't matter.But he always seemed uncomfortable and nervous around me.There was a moment in which both of us were alone and he moved so close to me.It actually felt like we were hugging.He was so close I could see the pupils of his eyes.

My question is do gay men don't realize when they are standing that close to a woman.Doesn't their personal space exist with women?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2014):

Thank you so much for the answer.I really appreciate it.

The thing is I saw him at the graduation ceremony today.I wanted to say hi but he is from a different department.He didn't say hi either.I am extremely shy with someone I like.So...yeah that is it I guess.He moves on to another state and there ends all the lovely feelings.

But thanks for the answer all the same.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 May 2014):

So_Very_Confused agony auntOf course it does... just because a person's sexual orientation is homosexual vs. heterosexual does not mean that social clues are foreign to them.

this guy in general may not have a clue or personal space boundaries.

and you said "everyone thinks he's gay" that doesn't mean he is gay. Lots of folks thought my husband was gay for the longest time... (before he met me)

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