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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Why do guys string along lots of women at once?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Hi, Why do guys string along lots of women at once? I know this middle aged guy who's about to get married (to his dying fiancé) and has kids, and he has loads of women adoring him at work and is sleeping with many women from work. He's n...

I can't block the ex because we work together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Just a week ago my boyfriend told me that his no longer interested in me and wants to move forward with another girl. I have deleted all his contacts and pictures from my laptop and cell. Worst thing is we both are working in the same company. ...

Regaining sexual confidence after wife cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

30 March 2014 (M) - I have a question on confidence lost for a man after my wife of 20 years cheated on me. Basically we had been together for 20 years, I was 17 when we met, she was 16. About 2 and a half years ago she cheated on me with an old friend of hers. ...

How do I just let these go and enjoy my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - In November last year, I had a huge fight with my boyfriend where he then went out and got drunk.. Kissed another girl and took her number. The fight had started because I snooped on him and accused him for a whole year of still having feelings for ...

If he can't stop I wtll walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. My Fiance and I have been together 5 years, we have two soon to be three beautiful children together (4, 2 soon to be 3 and our last due in june) We are getting married next month. My deliemma is that I found he posted a ...

I know if I talk to him I'll take him back ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I am with my bf for almost 4 years. We never really talked about marriage as he has some commitment issues. We had our ups and downs, but for past 2 months relationship is going downhill, he often talks about his boss (lady) with whom...

Is the problem with me or with the boys I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. ok its bit long but please do help me out. Im 28 years old. When i was 10 years old then my parents passed away and from then till to date m living with my elder brother. Im a reserve nature person...most of the time i spend alone in my ...

Condom wrapper and girl's scarf found in my boyfriend's car… I'm having trouble trusting him! Any advice?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I'm having trouble trusting my boyfriend of a year and a half . I have been burned in the past (cheated on) and am a naturally suspicious person. Here's my dilemma. 1) I found a ripped open condom wrapper in my boyfriends car. Near the drivers...

My husband has confessed but my best friend says she can't remember!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - While I was pregnant my husband and a argument and I've since found out that he went to my best friend one thing led to another and he gave her oral sex, she tried to give him it but he says it didnt happen as he couldn't get an erection, is this ...

They're getting married in nine days and I KNOW he is cheating on her!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - One of my lifelong friends is getting married to the man of her dreams in 9 days. They have been together 4 years and have a daughter who is just 6 months old. This morning I've found out that he has been having an affair. I don't just suspect, I ...

Hpv in a long term relationship. Is cheating involved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I am a 36 year old woman. I have been with my husband for four years. I have had regular Pap smears my entire life. I have been tested for hpv every single year since I was 28. My hpv tests have always come back negative. Last month, I ...

How do you confront a liar cheating wife with the facts?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

25 March 2014 (M) - . My wife does not know I know she's cheated. I have all the proof I need and it's causing me to distant my personal life from her. I see my wife stressing over me pulling away from her, she appears to not understand why I stopped showing her ...

He slept with someone else right before our wedding was scheduled

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I have been married for 9 weeks and now my husband decides to tell me that he slept with a work colleague last year but thinks because its a one off that I should be able to move on and forgive him. Our wedding had to be pushed back due to the ...

If he was really that into me would he be secretly messaging another girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for four years and I've never had a reason to not trust him. Recently things have been rough but we seem to of worked through it together and everything for the last month has been great. However we w...

Feeling conflicted about my older LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I have a problem. My boyfriend and I have been together about 3.5 years, and he is 14 years my senior (I'm 22). We got together when I was in my first year at university, and we share the same core values and ambitions. However, he has been unemploy...

I hate seeing this woman hurt and string my friend along. Is there anything I can do to help her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - I need some advice. I have a friend who I am really close to. We share a lot with each other and have the type of friendship where we can speak openly. Recently she told me that she felt she could always come to me with a problem because I was ho...

Boyfriend angry about an incident where he thought I was cheating and its destroying our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Long story as short as possible. Been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. We don't live together at the moment but have been talking about it once my lease is up. A few months ago we'd started fighting and this caused him to distance himself. We ...

My boy keeps lying to me, but insists that he loves me and only me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - Alright so before you tell me to just "dump his ass", actually think about this. Basically, the guy I'm with right now is the best guy ever. I love him to death. And he loves me. He does so much for me, as do his parents. Through his life, he has a...

This guy is a scum. Do I tell his gf?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - My ex dumped me about a year ago. We had been together for 4 years, including 2 years LDR. We planned to get married, but he broke up with me 2 months before we could finally see each other. He thought I was too clingy. He cheated on me twice before ...

My boyfriend is tired of my friend and her lying cheating boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - I don't really know who to ask about this so I thought id give this a go. I've got a close friend who has been seeing my boyfriends friend for about a year on and off. He has cheated on her and messed her around numerous times and he was expect...

How do I move on from an affair and a breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I posted before but for those who didn't read it... here is my story Late 2013 I moved abroad with my boyfriend. I had met him out there travelling and he came back with me to our home country(both from england), but we decided to move ...

I'm feeling like a fool after calling my ex again

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - I was at work Saturday past and i was thinking of my ex so i decided to call him, we talked and then he started to bring up the past so it lead to arguing and now he says that he feels good that he made me mad. My question is y do he keeps bringing ...

What kind of game is my ex playing? DId our kiss mean anything to hiim?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - So here's the story... meet my ex 4 years ago (2010), he broke up with me after 5 months (april to september) for his ex (who cheated on him before he met me) (Our relationship had everything one should have, trust, love, freedom etc) he then get...

My husband had emotional affairs and I left him! What are my rights?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - After years of marriage I found out that my husband had emotinal affairs in the skype,chating,calling,and meetings with his ""women friends.Maybe not only emotional only. He intoduced me a woman 2 years earlier,and she started sending me thank yo...

I'm good friends with both of them... do I tell her he cheated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

16 March 2014 (M) - Hi, my name is Danny and I have this best friend called Charlie (girl). Me and Charlie have been friends for-EVER! She is the closest thing I have to a sister, as i'm an only child. I have this band and i'm the lead, so I write songs and m...

My girlfriend and a friend of mine openly flirt in front of me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

14 March 2014 (M) - Ok so i have a situation where my girlfriend and a friend of mine are openly flirting in front of me. Now when i say flirting i dont mean anything so blatant where i could say to either of them come on your taking the piss but a situation where if ...

I have photo evidence of my girlfriend holding hands with another guy! Should I break things off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

12 March 2014 (M) - I am dating a girl that I dated a couple of years ago. We have been dating for almost a month, and i got a picture of her holding another guys hand. She says he was only rubbing his hand. My other friends that know her say that I should cut it o...

When I told him "no" he sent all our correspondence to my husband! Why would he do such a thing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 March 2014 (F) - He Was All I Ever Wanted.. Okay this is really long story I really need advice not commended for my actions or thus confession. It started 3 years ago I began work and myself and a colleague started to develop feelings but never acted on them. W...

I'm a wounded warrior with a broken heart. Advice, please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

11 March 2014 (M) - I been married 3yrs this September, im a wounded warrior i have some medical and mental issues. The wife and i had an argument i left at 2am to stay with my brother a week or two goes by and she claims she gonna start to see other people. Bout two ...

I want to leave her but I want my kid with me! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (M) - Me and my partner have a four year old daughter. Two years ago I found out she was setting another guy, this being bad enough, I then found out she was on a sex site posting pics of herself!!!! I confronted her, we split but I couldn't bear being ...

Will he ditch me? And is it okay to proceed with a threesome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) - hiii i hav with this guy for 2years....we ae in ldr met once in a couple of months.... basically he is possesive guy orthodox believes in "one gal for me policy" ...never let me to talk to guys ( i m ok with it ).... he takes care for my prote...

My boyfriend's friends visit massage parlors for happy endings! Should I worry he is doing the same?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

9 March 2014 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend is not asking for any physical pleasure from me lately and i found out from his friends that they are paying a visit to massage parlors for a quick and fun release from time to time in other words happy endings. I read many ...

I know he doesn't love me like I love him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

9 March 2014 (F) - So I am 24 and have two babies and another on the way and my situation is that the father doesn't think we should be together because he feels that we just can not make it work. He lives with another woman and her children but they claim they are ...

Am I just her guy on the side?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

7 March 2014 (M) - Hi, my name is Daniel. About 10 months ago i started dating this girl, i always knew her since kindergarden i just never talked to her until the very end of highschool. So we spent the whole summer together, litterally almost every day, i lost my ...

How would you cope with learning she has a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

7 March 2014 (M) - Hello Cupid What will you call a girl who leads you on for a good few months of dating until you realise she has a boyfriend already? How would you cope up with that and what will you do ? Confronting her or asking why she did it be of any ...

How do I get his attraction back before its too late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

6 March 2014 (F) - I am in desperate need of advice. I have lived with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both in our late 20's. For almost two years now, we have lived together overseas. My boyfriend got a job here and I agreed to move with him with the ...

My husband is still friends with his ex-lover who he had an affair with and nearly broke up her marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

6 March 2014 (F) - My husband is still friends with his ex-lover (I'll call her Amber). When we married 8 years ago, I knew he was good friends with a couple in our neighborhood, particularly the wife (Amber) with whom he shared an common interest in golf. Once...

My wife would rather talk to guys on webcam sites than come to bed with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

6 March 2014 (M) - I have been married for 16 years and while our sex life hasn't always been great in the last 18 months my wife would rather talk to guys on a webcam site than come to bed with me. I try to talk to her about it but she just says it's a bit of fun a...

Should I try to make our marriage work or just end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

6 March 2014 (M) - I am torn on what I should do. Here is some background information first. I am active duty military, my wife and I are both 24, we have been together for 8 years and married for 4. We don't have any kids and I am currently deployed. Recently my wife ...

He dumped my in a cruel & demeaning way and now I pathetically stalk his instagram account!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

6 March 2014 (F) - I was enjoying a healthy single life for years after a bad teenage relationship when I met this guy who swept me off my feet in as little as a couple months. It started as friendship where we talked all day long, only to turn into a fling very soon, ...

Have I lost Mr Right???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

5 March 2014 (F) - Have I lost Mr Right?? Years ago I fell out with him and his family As he never told them the truth. Recently we have been meeting up and having intercourse and floor play. It's just as and when needed. He gets married next year. ...

I know I don't deserve my gf's love after what I did but I want to at least make sure she knows how much I regret my actions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

5 March 2014 (M) - My gf and I had been dating for a year and had known each other for 9 months prior to dating. Six months ago a "friend" of mine made a move on my gf and when she turned him down, he poisoned me against her. Taking advantage of my trust in him from a ...

I can't keep the past in the past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

4 March 2014 (F) - So ive been with my boyfriend for 6 almost 7 months total, and he couldnt be more amazing. But there is a problem, and its me. I love him more than anything in the world but Im afraid because of my actions I will push him away. We argue a lot...

I am livid at his actions and beset with Insecurity and Jealousy!! Need some advice please!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

3 March 2014 (F) - Okay - I don't really even know where to start. My boyfriend and I are both in our early-mid 30s and have been together almost 3 1/2 years. Overall things have been well but we've had some rough spots here and there. Anyway, for most of ou...

How can he change his mind like that? And how can he say he loves me while he's having sex with other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

3 March 2014 (F) - Ok idk if my boyfriend loves me. If he does when did he start idk and i think he is with me only cause i love him not sure. How can i be sure when he left 3 times. He says ii came back. But the last 2 breakups was evil mean very badbad. I wonder if ...

Should I tell his wife her husband is sleeping with my wife??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

3 March 2014 (M) - My wife cheated on me a few times then suddenly moved out leaving me with my 2 daughters who are still in school. The anger was eating at me so bad that I went to a counselor to keep myself under control, I wanted to make my wife's life as miserabl...

My man wants to sleep with the traveling chick we picked up in MY van...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

3 March 2014 (F) - So me (24) and my boyfriend (42) pick up a traveling girl, we helped her break up with her boyfriend. Well my BF had been talking about bringing another girl into the bedroom with us... I'm not really into sharing and I warned him I might hurt her ...

He said he's met someone else ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

2 March 2014 (F) - I'm sorry. I cant write all the details of this at the moment as I am so upset.My boyfriend has told me that he has met someone else. I cant understand it. He still seemed like he was in love with me when I last saw him on Tuesday. He went to his ...

I'm falling for one of my boyfriend's friends and can't avoid him because they hang out together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

2 March 2014 (F) - Hello! I have been with my boyfriend now for 3 years, and usually we have been really happy with each other and get along well. We are not engaged, but we have lived together for about 2 years, so our relationship is pretty serious. Over the past...

Will he cheat on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

2 March 2014 (F) - please need advice ok I have a best friend and at the time he is with some one else so we got together and then it happened. well he still with her and wanting to leave her for me. is this going to happen to me? I am worried. I don't want to lose ...