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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I need help overcoming my addiction to prostitutes

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - Hi I've been seeing prostitutes for 15 years. It started off out of boredom. I have always had a strong sexual appetite, I started masturbating from a young age. Every time I use a prostitute I beat myself up about it. At first I had protecte...

How can I get over the guilt and open wound from a year ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - A year ago, I was going through a rough time in life. I had lost my job, which put a strain on our relationship. I/we were not talking much about our feelings and our self-worth. The relationship was strained. I had a lot of low times and did ...

My boyfriend was caught chatting up another girl over facebook. Do I dump him, or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months now. So far are three months up to now had been perfect, no argueing, no fights, no huge issues, everything had been smooth and lovely. I was ...

I'm so scared we made a mistake. Yes we married. But was I his "last resort" choice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I met a man two years ago during a year long course. For the year he would follow me out for breaks, chat, flirt. I gave him my number and he called and invited me out. First night he told me about his drinking, drugs, problems with his dad, ch...

Is this relationship salvageable or should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I have had a bad marriage the last 2 years. We've been married 14 years. He turned into a workaholic and I was lonely. I started hanging out with friends. A few were guys. He avoided me by working all the time. I developed an add...

Did I taint my husband's image? He is cross that I confronted the married woman who's been sending him love texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I received love texts in my hubby's phone which were replies to a married woman's txts. The last one states that 'soon we shall be together darling' When i asked him he denied and said he has no affair with this particular woman. We decided to bl...

Married friend is mad at me because I told him I won't get messed up with a married guy.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I will make a long story short. I am friends with a married guy. We work together. We are attracted to each other but have not crossed the line. Recently I opened up to him that I was involved with a guy who was married once and...

Is my girlfriend having second thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - I have only been with this girl for a few weeks. she recently broke up with her boyfriend of two years after they were constantly arguing and she felt that they needed to call it quits. she has been with me since then and then she broke up with me ...

If partner is using dating site do they always keep on carrying on until you dump them permanently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am noticing there seems to be a growing number of questions here relating to repetitive cheating on dating sites by their partner. I have had to go through this with my partner who never admits it or thinks he is not doing anything wrong by way o...

How can I tell if my BF is telling the truth or not? What lengths will some men go to, to tell lies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - How can you tell if your boyfriend is tellin the truth whether a "friend" is just a friend orwhether he has slept with her. He denies anything happened that hey were just friends. I somehow believe him, just want to know to what lenths will you ...

I'm broken hearted and confused over boyfriend's cheating. Can anyone explain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - so I had dated a guy for 2 years. he had kissed a girl i had been friends with in high school last year. i was kept in the dark for so long, she still partied with him and talked, he even asked me for her number. i didnt have any idea, i thought ...

Two guys..don't know which one to pick?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I'm in between two men,I'm 30 one is 53 years old and the other one is 35. The 53 year old is set up in life and we have o much fun together. he is black and I'm latina and we have such great chemistry and he loves my son and also my son loves him. ...

Is it cheating? I feel horrible and do not know what to do next!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am 22 and gay from Germany and its pretty late in the evening but my consience does not let me to go to the bed. I have a boyfriend more than a month now and everything was going perfect. I truely love him and he loves me too. He...

My boyfriend disrespected me by walking away with another girl after a party infront of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have been a relationship for 4yrs, we have had some rough patches such as last year I attended his birthday party and he disappeared then i learned he disappeared with another woman. This year,he held another party and the woman was there, d...

We are friends, dated, now we are living together and are FWB, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3851 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok so me and this guy have known each other for like 11 years our family went to high school together. anyway we tried dating like 3 years ago and well i had my head up my ass and i just stopped talking to him and he got in contact with me and he ...

I am her best friend, but I also know she cheats.How can I be her friend without having to keep her secrets?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone. I am a romantic. I believe in love and everything it entails. However, my best friend know I have known for eleven years, is a cheater. I know it isn't my life and it's hers. I also know that it is her decision and hers al...

I'm confused, disappointed and insecure since I found he's been having sexy talks with an ex. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have been engaged to my fiance since December, but we have been dating for a year. My first husband and I were married for five years and he had a heart attack and passed away a year before I met my current fiance. My fiance had been in a ro...

Relationship ending due to cheating but stuck in an apartment together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - hi Im really hard a time thinking about this me and my ex gf of almost 4 years broke up with me she said she couldn't love me anymore because she cheated on me she says she doesnt want me to get hurt anymore, i did forgive her for the cheating, i ...

Will he ever believe me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hi my bf and I have been together for 10 months. From the beginning hes had control, jealousy,.and trust issues. They seem to be getting worse. He had my fb and hotmail passwords and yes he gave me his I looked maybe twice he was on my lots daily...

Should I leave my cheating husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - i love my husband very much and recently i found out he did cheated ..should i stay with him or leave?...

My married lover won't leave his wife for me. Its not fair!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

23 February 2013 (?) - I am deeply in love with a married man that doesn't love me back. Why do all of these lucky bitc*es get their married boyfriend to love them. Let me guess its all about looks?? Only beautiful and attractive women can get the man to fall for them. ...

Sneaky girlfriend, should I dump her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

23 February 2013 (M) - Greetings, im just going to be straight about this. Ok, so this is what happend: i've been with this person (girl) for almost a year now, infact we will be making a year next week friday! She bookd herself in a hotel for the weekend, so we could sp...

Should I leave my boyfriend because of his addiction to cyber sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Hello Dear Cupids I discovered my boyfriend had been emailing female contacts he has on yahoo and also paltalk, to talk about sex. I discovered after I checked his computer after he had repeatedly clicked off the screen quickly when I came in t...

Should my ex-sister in law and I start a real relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - My wife and I split up a few years ago. We are still friends, there is no relationship. Recently after her mom passed away, I went to her mom's house to help ready the house for sale. Her brother and his wife showed up to help. The brother'...

Is it really true? Once a cheater always a cheater?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Can people be truly sorry for cheating and never go on to do it again? Or is it a case of once a cheater always a cheater? I've cheated in the past knew it was wrong and never done it again. My boyfriend of four years cheated in the b...

How can I ever believe anything my partner tells me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Ive been with my partner for 10 years. He is 12 years older than me, and we have two children together 5 and 6yrs old. 6 years ago he told me he didnt love me. By this time we had a 5 month old baby and another on the way. We seperated. After the ...

Girlfriend on site to cheat with married man. Is it time to end things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - I have found out my girlfriend of 2 years went onto a site that is designed for married people to cheat on each other. Her friend told me. I am surprised she told her anyway. She wrote that she is single and looking for an uncomplicated no strings ...

I'm supposed to be getting married in May. My fiance has been again been caught talking sexual on dating sites!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - I am supposed to be getting married in June. The honeymoon is even booked. After the wedding she would have been moving into my house. We have been together for over 5 years. It has been an off and on relationship for the last 3 years. Mainly d...

Do I need to worry about this? And should I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - I posted here last week ,saying that my boyfriend spent part of Valentine's Day with a male friend of his who is gay, who is transgender. The people who replied to my original post said they didnt think there was anything sinister going on, but i ...

My lover asked me to marry him but I'm already married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - HI! I’m 27years old and I'm a married woman with two kids. I'm in a relationship with a white guy, but I love my husband and love this guy so much more than my husband. This guy asked me to marry him and I said yes to him. Now I don't know what to ...

My guy is 20 and acts like he's 15. I'm pregnant and really love him but he doesn't grow up!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years on and off. Well lately, things has been going downhill. It has been like that for a while now. No matter what i do or say, he still acts like he doesnt care or treat me like i should. In the past...

I fell for him, he's with someone else. No contact but I still want him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - hi there, i am a woman of 47 and have been unlucky with relationships,my first marraige i was very young and was very abusive,it took me years to get a mental state of mind back to normal,my 2nd partner started out as a lending ear, i fell pregnant ...

I dig some digging and found out he's married. Do I tell his wife about us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - I had a rough time last year, and vowed I'd spend 6 months without men, sorting my life out. In December a man chased me out of the pub and asked for my number. We went out and although I kept my distance, I fell in love with him totally. He told me ...

Advice for what to do with a cheater

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

20 February 2013 (M) - Okay, so my first girlfriend, I met through Facebook last summer. After a couple of months, she suddenly stopped texting and calling me. I thought either she was grounded or dumped me. Weekend following Christmas, she calls me up and says that she's ...

I cheated on my boyfriend 6 months ago - what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months now, but 5 months into our relationship I kissed another guy. I feel so awful and sad that I've done something so despicable to someone that I love so much and who is so wonderful and caring. I ...

I cheated and now my boyfriend wants concrete evidence that I won't cheat or go back to the other guy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I have been in a very stable relationship with my boyfriend and we were supposed to get married end of January.I did something horrible and i cheated on him a few weeks before we got married and now he wont take me back. The truth is i love my boyfr...

How to convince a girl that she is NOT a rebound?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

19 February 2013 (M) - Hello DearCupid Family, I am in pain since several months. I should tell you that your website has helped me already a lot, reading about similar cases. I am 27, and my ex, whom I met in my grande école (its the french equivalent of university)...

After taking him back again I found out my boyfriend cheated. When confronted he never even replied back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - A week ago I found out my boyfriend cheated on me after only 4 days of getting back together. We had been off and on since November (we were bf/gf from June through November then he broke up with me in mid-November, we spent a week or so apart, then ...

Boyfriend always accuses me of having sex with other men but then gets off on it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - This might seem strange but the guy I'm currently with is extremely jealous , through out our relationship of nearly a year he has constantly accused me of havin sex with other guys. If I go out for a few hours and am late back he would take me to ...

My boyfriend cheated but he is constantly accusing me of being the cheater!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has cheated on me in ?the past and I decided to forgive and forget about all of it but since then all he does is accuse me of ?the same things he was caught doing and I can beg and plead till I'm blue in ?the face for him to believe me ...

Am I cheating? Can I have a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I Moved to a new city, a new school and really started liking this guy who is a very nice loving guy. we told each other our feelings and made out a couple of times, but i told him i don't want a relationship now as we need to study really hard. ...

Husband's phone has a name as "buddy" who turns out is a girl! Should I be worried?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - So the other day while my husband was in the shower, he asked me to find a number in his cell phone (a friend of his that we were meeting later) and call him to confirm the time. When I was doing that, his recent call history showed up, and I ...

Is it possible to forgive after spouse confesses to being unfaithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I need help and don't want to unload on family and friends, so I am turning to my dearcupid family. Does anybody believe that it is possible to forgive after spouse confesses to being unfaithful. The betrayal happened long ago, and he lied to me ...

I have proof that my boyfriend cheated but how do I get him to admit it?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - i had a suspision that my boyfriend was cheating so i set up a recorder one nite and sure enough i got my evidence but he stil denies it. How to i get him to tell the truth?...

My wife confessed that she cheated and our 4 year old daughter isn't mine. How do we proceed from here?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

18 February 2013 (M) - I'm 32, and my wife's 31; been together for 9 years now. We have a 5-year-old son and 4-year-old daughter. Last night she told me she had something to confess; I asked her what it was, and she admitted to me: "Our 4-year-old daughter isn't m...

I told a lie and now its going to come back and bite me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - Hello. I told my partner a lie and now its come back to haunt. I basically I told that I did not slept with the gu y when I di He said he believes me . The guy said he's going to tell him. Am really scared that I might lost him. Should I...

Can there be ONLY friendship between men and women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - I have a bf and he is very outgoing, talkative, and humorous... I'm attracted to him because I'm not that out-going, at times shy, so I find him very charming. But what I don't understand is, he seems to have a lot of female friends, and wou...

Why don't people like to share their feelings?? are they normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - i am getting a little crazy after spending few years with my bf who thinks it's a bad thing to tell the world what you feel, who you are... etc... it makes me think i'm wrong to tell friends about what's going on in our relationship, like when i'm ...

Am I cheating on my b/f because I'm depressed and its the one thing I can control?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - I've started cheating on my partner, not because of anything he has done, we arent having problems and i'm not bored or anything. It's to do with my past, I've had a lot of problems and depression over the last 2 years or so. (I've never cheated ...

Is he messaging me because he is bored? Or is there more to it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - J and I were friends for 2-3 years. He was moving out of town so we met up, and had a fantastic 13hrs together, unexpectedly. Unfortunately he had a gf and I had a bf and he was moving away. Soon after that I broke up with my bf, and though he was ...