Advice for what to do with a cheater

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so my first girlfriend, I met through Facebook last summer. After a couple of months, she suddenly stopped texting and calling me. I thought either she was grounded or dumped me. Weekend following Christmas, she calls me up and says that she's sorry for not having called, but she had an accident and severely injured her back, and apparently her parents also grounded her from talkin to me @ the same time. (I believe her). Then she says "I've got a boyfriend now." It broke my heart, I tried to reason with her, before I gave up. But her new boyfriend took her phone and started hate mailing me. Anyways, I moved on and am with a great girl now. Thing of it, within the past few days, my ex started texting me that she's sorry and stuff and wants to be friends. I assume she's wanting me to take back but she's just not saying it. Anyways, I don't know really what to do with her, It's not like my feelings for her went away. I need to move on and not cheat on my new Girlfriend. But should I shut my ex out to prevent myself from falling into cheating. Advice?

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