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female
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*nlythefriendnevertheone
writes:Ok so me and this guy have known each other for like 11 years our family went to high school together. anyway we tried dating like 3 years ago and well i had my head up my ass and i just stopped talking to him and he got in contact with me and he was with his ex-girlfriend at the time and i was with idk what you would call him we had a kid together and he lived with me. well he messaged me on facebook saying i needed to call him asap and gave me him phone number and i call to called him and needed a ride to the store so i went and got him and my baby daddy was like i dont like it, you two hanging out. and me and my baby daddy was having problems and so i told him to pack his stuff and move cause 3 years of being treated like shit i was done. well i called my friend one day to see if he wanted to run into town with me and i have a ford escort it was me him his cousin and my uncle. before i went and got him he texted me and asked me if cheryl could go and i was like no theres no room. him and his cousin got in my car and he was go! i was like you really didnt want her to go and he was like no. so we went and got antifreeze for my car and my uncle was like i need to take my computer in to have it looked at and my friend was like ok lets go back to your guys's house and get the truck. so we came back and got the truck and headed for the big city and we were at the store and his girl called and was like where you and he was like were getting her uncles computer looked at in the big city and shes like i thought you guys were just going to get antifreeze and hes like we did. she kept calling him and he was like im coming back and getting my shit and im gone. and she kept calling well we got back to his house we went and got his trailer hooked up to my uncles truck and hooked his truck up to that and his horse trailer on his truck and we get to my house and he was like i hope your grandma lets me stay and i was like she will. and she did. well later that his cousin and his family got kicked outta her house so they came to mine. well that night we were drinking and we started making out and he had to carry me to bed. he slept in my bed since he moved in. well one night at school i had one of my friends text him and ask him if he was single and he texted me and asked are we together just wondering. and i said i consider us together. so since then i guess we were together. and his family moved out and we were living in a trailer behind my grandmas house but one night when i got home from school he was like we need to talk. i knew what was coming by the sound of his voice he said we've known each other too long and thinks we should just be friends i had such mixed emotions and didnt know what to do so we had sex and i moved back into my room and his chick friend came to visit and she slept in his bed and they were drinking and now thats all i hear about is how amazing she or whatever and last night hes like well i dont have a girlfriend so we can be friends with benefits and we had sex. but every other f.w.b. ive had they just wanted me for sex they would get a girl and i would be the rebound i can call it everytime but now it feels different. so with him wanting to be f.w.b. does he still have feelings for me? Does he wanna be with me in some way? and hes not youre typical guy he likes slow sex passionate.
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reader, wise-guy  +, writes (28 April 2014):
I Have to say from what you say it seems like he is simply using you for his own easy needs. I know it must be confusing if this time it feels different to you but it really is just a FWB kinda situation I think - I mean whats with the other girl in his bed? Don't hurt yourself over this. I'm sure you are a lovely girl and you deserve much better for yourself than this situation :) Cut your losses and move on from this guy
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