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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like ...

How do people stay away from others they know are bad for them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Help me. Besides being a bit of a Well, I cheated. I didn't enjoy sleeping with a stranger. I strongly suspect he was more attracted to my pocket book than to me. I understand now that it was not destiny, but i don't really understand what it ...

He told me he was divorced now I want him to leave his wife for me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I know your all gonna call me bad names but its so hard, i really like him and miss him loads, when i met him he told me he was divorced and i deserve a nice rich boyfriend and said he would fit that category, hes a lawyer and gets paid a fair ...

He told me he loves me but not 'in' love with me, cheating at the same time. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 yrs just told me he love me but not in love with me.we have a 3 yrs old boy and live together.what does that mean.he have been seein women behind my back.will that relationship work and lead to marriage?...

Girlfriends going away for college soon and I'm afraid that she might cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend be going to college in a few months, and as each day passes, I get more and more worried. We have been together for awhile and we love each other dearly. My girlfriend hasn't really partied since we've been together, but she has drank ...

He told me he liked me whilst going out with other girls, now he's single he only wants to 'hook up', is he just after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm 15. So theres this guy whos 16. We started off as friends. just talking. he had a girlfriend. then he said he liked me as more than a friend. but meanwhile he was still dating this other girl. he wanted to cheat on her but i didnt let him. ...

I have just found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - hello everyone, well i have just found out my boyfriend has cheated on me (kissed another girl at a nightclub). I found this out because i went on his facebook account and the girl herself told me as she thought it was my boyfriend she was talking ...

How do I tell him that I know!!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 23, i am 13 weeks pregnant and have just found out he has been cheating on me. Because of my past i have trouble trusting people. A few things made me think that he was cheating like he took my picture of his wallpape...

Any advice for a 16yr old dating a 37yr old married man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old.. and my boyfriends is around 37 years old and he has 2 kids and he is also married.... He is my coach in table tennis when i was in high school, we bond together, we go out together as friends.... yet unfortunately, as the yime...

Should I have a lesbian affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I am a married, female, 40 years old with children. I've known I was gay since college, but have always hid it and have never been with a woman before. I recently met a woman who is also in a relationship with another man. I am almost positive ...

Our sex life is nonexistent.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I've been going out with a girl for about five years now. Things are pretty good but our sex life is nonexistent. This year we've only been intimate 3 times and last year it about 10 times. I've tried to talk to her about this but I cant seem to ...

How do I summon the courage to go back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Dear all, I would quite like to get myself checked out at a clinic, as although I have not had sex since I was last checked out, I recently got drunk and woke up with a friend of a friend! The only "problem" is my mentality. The last time I went to ...

Can I ever get out of this tangled mess he created?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Hello there. I'm a 29-year-old married man with 2 kids. I've been having an affair with my father-in-law for the past month in secret. He instigated this affair, and I agreed to it - we were both drunk at the time watching a game of socce...

How should I break up with a guy that is obsessed and emotionally attached to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - okay...i'm 14 and my boyfriend is fixing to be 16. we started dating may 6th and have been dating for a while now. he was in miami for a good month and i couldnt take not seeing him...i cheated a few times but he doesnt know about it... the truth is...

Was it cheating or just acting? And should I tell my husband, or let him think that Jim was wearing underwear?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I need some advice, both to make myself feel OK, and what to tell my husband. My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years, we have 3 kids together. I have some college, but never finished (kids). My husband has an extremely good job, and...

He cheats on me but doesn't want me to move on, what must I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - my guy is so over protective towards me and this irritate me as i can't even go out with my friends. he always think that im going to some other guys. he never caught me cheating on him but he just doesn't trust me coz if he trusted me,he could not ...

He's got another girl - I truly love him and this is really hurting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - im going through hell,i dnt know whether what im going through is love or this is something else.i have been dating a guy for five months now,he didn' have a galfrnd as he told me but i just find out their still together with one of the ladies he ...

Help, I need to know... Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have found a text message on my boyfriend's mobile phone. From a woman who has cropped up many a time in our past 2 years together. it said 'i miss you, i want you, I need you'. Is he cheating? Should I confront him? Is there any way that thi...

If I told my boyfriend about me cheating... do you think he'll forgive me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Okay well I still havent told my boyfriend I have cheated because I dont want to hurt him and I dont want to destroy the great relationship I have with him now! I seriously do not think I would ever cheat on him again cause the guilt I have felt so ...

Am I living a total fantasy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Ok i really need some advice on this one. I'm currently married to a guy i've been with for 14 years, i do love him immensley and everything is fine between us but here's were my problem lies! I think i'm in love with someone else, a friend of mine...

He sends and receives dirty texts from random women and tells me this is normal behaviour!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My bf (we've been together 5 years) looks at porn on the internet a lot (which I don't mind) BUT he also checks out adult dating sites, uses adult text messaging services to send/receive dirty texts to random women (including naked pics and texts ...

She's trying to win my trust again, but this feeling is eating me alive from the inside!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I have to start by saying that i can't believe i'm doing this. But i can't sleep, so i need advices... I've been with this girl for almost a year now. And we love each other so much and want to have a future together. But as with any relation...

Haven't heard from the guy I cheated with, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a great man for 3 years. We love eachother and everything, but sex is out of the question. He is always working and I am always working so we barely have time for eachother. When we do have time I always try to get ...

What's going on in his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hello all, I am having a long distant married friend.For the last 3 years he was insisting me for sex( We had kisses and oral, when i was in his city). After talking regularly with him i aggreed to meet him. he asked me to make his flight, hotel bo...

Is it just the attention from another male that makes me feel well?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - This is going to sound horrible.. and I already feel like I know the responses I will recieve.. but here I go. Long story short, my friend and I went out drinking one nite.. met sum guys, talked for about 3 hours and the one guy and I made out for a ...

Husband's been exchanging emails and planning a holiday with another guy! I think he could be gay. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I was checking my emails this week (well, actually our emails, we have a shared email address, e.g. johnandjane at yourdomain.com) and got an email entitled "RE:Holidays" Nothing odd about that, you might say. I was expecting the content of it to...

I need your advice bad!!! My boyfriend got another girl pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Alright, well this is going to be long, but here it goes. A couple of days ago my boyfriend confessed that he indeed cheated on me with a girl and that she is claiming now that she is pregnant with his baby. The girl he cheated on me with was with ...

Tempted to lose my virginity to a married man. Do I or don't I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I am an unmarried virgin girl.For the last two years iam in friendship with a married man. He is asking me for sex and to spend 3 nights with him. He says that it will not affect my future marriage. I am tempted to have sex with him. What ...

Advice needed! I cheated on my boyfriend with my best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - First off, i am a junior in high school. My ex-boyfriend and i have been on and off for a little over a year now. (we've only been "off" for about 2 months over all) We started going out in February of this year again. We became isolated from our...

Is he the happiest man???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Hey friends, plz tell me is he the most happiest man? I came in contact with a married man. He invited me for sex but I refused. He is a very rich man. Happily married with a good wife, has a son and a daughter. He can get any girl he wants. H...

Having an affair with a married man and don't know what to do. I just want to be happy!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I am sitting here with a very heavy heart . I have fallen for a married man and don't know what to do . To be honest I'm not sure if you'd say I was " in love " with him .... but very much " in like " . We have been friends on and off for years ...

Update: Tempted to go back to my cheating husband...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Hi this is an update to a post i wrote on the 18th may please help me. I did leave my h/b and i am living in a womens refuge now for a month iam finding it very hard to stay away from my husband he promises me he will never cheat on me ever or li...

After giving my ex another chance I found that he HAD been cheating, and is still texting other girls. Advice needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - my finance left me after 4 years in march. I had been down in the dumps for awhile due to finances and job issues. he said that I was depressed to much and he will always love me but he was not in love with me anymore. He leaves that night I dont ...

I'm torn between my fiance and my best friend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I met my fiance when i was 16 (i'm 23 now), we hit it off straight away. we knew we would be good together. after 5 years of being together he asked me to marry him, i said yes. we were very happy and wanted to spend our lives together, we have now ...

A woman scorned -- is she ever gonna leave me alone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Well im in a situation, i had a married woman at work who wanted to have an affair with me. I was very attracted to her and it took alot of resisting on my part to get away. She wouldnt let go, she wouldnt stop playing "games" with me at work....

I can't trust him but do I really want to start over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - My husband had sex with a women that we were couples friends with over 20 years ago. I did not know of the one night stand at the time. She would not go on with the affair. But my husband admits that he lusted for her for another 10 years. ...

How should I end my affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I am at a cross road with this affair I've been involved in for the last seven months. He's married to a woman who lives in another country. He's with her now until he returns home next week. He's a very well known in many religious circles. I love ...

We have a baby together but I think he's cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - i think my bf is cheating on me but have a baby with him so don't know what to do... he showed no interest in our baby from the beggining and only does now when showing off to friends. i hardly ever see him and even then he only wants sex, he also ...

Why would a man be prepared to risk his marriage and family for this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I’m looking for general views and comments on my situation please. I recently had a one night stand with a married man. He has contacted me again and asked if I would consider a threesome. I assumed that he meant with him and his wife but he said ...

Should I worry she's cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I've been with my girl for 6 months now and things are great. But lately she has acting a little shady. she hides her myspace page and has been keeping her phone to herself a lot lately. she just recently confesed that her ex of 5 years has been ...

Do you think I'm going too far wanting to give the items back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - When I met the guy that I used to date, he told me he loved me more than anything in the world and he would love me as long as he was breathing. I do know that as time goes on people sometimes change. Our relatoinship was damaged due to the fact ...

Am I cheating on my real boyfriend with my online guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - hello, well i have a boyfriend in real, and i have maybe 9 guys online. i just wanted to know is it considered cheating on my real bf? and one guy i met online and know is planning to come see me!! im scared i will try to avoid it. am i che...

I feel stifled, cheated on my g/f of 10 years

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together just over 10 years. Last year I did what I shouldn't and had an affair. The affair has ended now but I still have feelings for the woman I was seeing. I am back with my girlfriend and still feel confussed. My ...

My porn use and cyber sex obsession ruined my marriage! How do I get my wife back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I have been married 19 years. For 8 yrs I watched porn and engaged in cyber sex, and even Emailed women. This became an obsession. My wife found out about it and I tried to lie my way out of it. I did stop eventually, but she left me anyway. How can ...

For the guys: If you were showing all the signs of being into one girl, would you be likely to see others too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Out of curiousity for all you men out there- If you met a girl and are seeing her for a month, and you text her everyday and you ask all your friends (that are friends with her) about her and you mention her to your close family, are you likely t...

Should I trust my husband after what he's told me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - My guestion is...about for years ago when my hubby and I first got together he was working with this girl that loved to get into the pants of guy that where takin. He has told me that they would flert alot and that he would help her out whenever she ...

How do I forget this girl he cheated with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - i have been with my bf for 2 years.6months back he cheated on me with this girl i would like to call "k".the minute i found out about them my bf told me he cant dump "k" because he loves her like he loves me,and the sad part is that he compared me ...

Who to pick? Do I split with my fiance and get with my best friend? Or do I stay with my fiance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance for just over 6 and a half years now, we got engaged a year and a half ago, my whole family love him. we went through a rough patch a few monthes ago where my mum thought i was cheating on him with my best friend, but i ...

She's really pissed off at me! Was my joke a bit harsh?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

25 June 2009 (?) - Kay my friend is going to sound like a skank but please dont trash her cause I will report you!! Well my friend decided to cheat on her boyfriend for some reason with some random guy she met at a party. They had sex without using anything. She th...

Are bachelor/bachelorette parties wrong for our situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Ok so my BF and I are thinking about getting married and the topic of the infamous bachealor/bachealorette party has come up. Something I should tell you is that my BF and I have been together for about 6 years now and we were teenagers when we ...