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writes:My guestion is...about for years ago when my hubby and I first got together he was working with this girl that loved to get into the pants of guy that where takin. He has told me that they would flert alot and that he would help her out whenever she asked but he also told me that she would show him her thong and ask what color he thought she had on. and they would talk about there sex lifes, like things that we would do and the things that her and her boyfriend would do. I thought that there was a little bit more to it then just that...so about a month ago it came up because she told our room mate that he had a chance to be with a really hot blonde when we first got togeter, so I asked him if he had done anything and he said no, but the next night it came up again and he told me that they had danced and that he had grabed her ass and that they had kissed(but it was only a little kiss) but it took me about three hours to get that out of him. He also told me that when we where in bed together that he would think that it was her that he was doing and that he really wanted to do her. I just want to know if I should trust him that it was just a little kiss and some talk or if it would have been more...cause he was still acting different, pluse when this was happening half the time he did not want to have sex with me or do anything we me :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): there is much more to this story. your hubby is only telling you half the truth. your gut is on the mark and you should not ignore it. your hubby has a lot to answer. but get some straight talking from him. NOW.
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reader, binks +, writes (27 June 2009):
binks is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys...i really need to talk to other people about this
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reader, binks +, writes (27 June 2009):
binks is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondo you think that ass grabbing and drity dancing and kissing would lead to more...when he went into it thinking that he was going to get some?
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reader, binks +, writes (26 June 2009):
binks is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys very much, My gut tells me that there is more to this then what he is telling me....There has to be for him to take four years to tell me, And I had to get that out of him. The thing that really gets to me is that we have had two little ones in the last three years...wow this is all a big slap in the face!!!!
Just wish that I could get him to tell me everything so that I could know, I know that it will hurt but at least I could start to get on with my life...
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 What does your gut tell you?
If you ask me no man grabs a girls ass while dancing with her ( and being drunk) and give her a little peck on the mouth.. I don't think I would trust a single thing out of his mouth.
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reader, iloveyhoo  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 honestly and no offense i really don't think you deserve him! he sounds like such a player! i think he is probably lying and there is more to this! honestly what sort of guy does that and he is supposed to love you not tell you he prefers the other one or thinks you as her!You deserve way more!
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