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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Why is it that the only type of guys I'm interested in are guys I have previousy been with but are now in other relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I've recently discovered that the only type of guys I'm interested in are ones that I have previousy been with and are now in other relationships and I don't know what to do about it. I've been talking lately to my ex who is now living in London b...

How can I get over this paranoia I can't help having? About him and other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - So I was seeing someone a few months ago and it went really well. I've never known anyone to make me feel so good about myself and happy. Anyway long story short, he got really hurt in his last relationship and so decided he isn't ready for a new ...

My ex has an eating disorder and I am uncertain as to how I can help her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - I was dating a girl for over a year. While dating her she developed an eating disorder. The issue is complicated by the fact that we both run for a college cross country and track team. She experienced great success as the eating disorder got worse. ...

He left his wife for me but misses his children

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I fell in love with a married man. We are right for each other. He left his wife and children and moved in with me, but told his wife it was a trial separationn and she has no clue what he has been doing. Now a few months in, he has become depre...

How do I completely forget about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - right so this is gunna be very long i think hahaha but here goes! so basicly i get deppression (not very often at all) and i can feal down about anything petty and im on a bit of a downer at the moment, a girl i had a bit of a crush on (i thin...

It felt like things were getting back to normal ... but they weren't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Hello Everybody, Don't know if this is the right place for this, but here goes... I am now 33 years of age and I was with my long term partner for 9 years. Our relationship, I thought, was good. It had its ups and downs like any relation...

He broke up with me but I know he loves me deeply ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I don't understand. I fell in love with a man 6 years younger than me. He said he was in love with me. Everyone said we seemed happy together - and yet he started to treat me like I was 2nd best and when I asked if he wanted a future with me - he ...

I got a friend to test him and now he has shut me out!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - i feel really bad, my on off partner of 18 years and i were in the process of what i thought trying to work things out. he has always been there for me until i messed up, i played a silly trick on him and now its kind of back fired and he refuses to ...

Do I keep trying, or forget and move on? He treats our relationship like it's a chore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4558 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore. We never really see each and if we do it may be only be once a week. He doesnt call or text me that often (like once or twice a week) and he always wants to hang out with his friends but never mi...

He broke up with me after 5 years, so now we are roomies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - ** This is a very long, detailed story** Less than a week ago, my boyfriend of 5 years ended our relationship. We had a good relationship and seldom argued. We enjoy most of the same things and overall we get along great. Saturday, we w...

I lied to her but I never cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - After over 2 years together we hit the biggest of all speedbumps. I was caught texting a girl I used to hook up with. The messages were never out of line, on her birthday and mine we talked a bit. Than my now ex was going to send her a nasty ...

No contact now for nine days -- is it really over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - My ex and I broke up the beginning of May of this year because ofnmajor trust issues. I found out that he had not fully gotten over his Ex about 4 months into our relationship. I found out that he would go running back to her every time we had a ...

I am in a LDR and I am frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I am not happy that my once good normal loving relationship of over 2 years has turned into a long distance one (about 6 hours apart - my boyfriend moved for work because he had to transfer or lose his job in a downsize). I don't really want to ...

How do I save my marriage after all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I have been with my husband for 2 years.We have only been married for 5 months. We have seperated about 4 times for about two weeks each time during our two years together.This last time we seperated I honestly thought it was the end I even asked ...

My boyfriend has become so controlling it's a problem but I can't break up with him because I love him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been in a serious committed relationship for almost a year. At first I wasn't very expressive and romantic towards him cuz I was just getting to know him and I am a very shy person.. He was very patient and kind ...

How do I get my online LDR girlfriend back? She broke up with me because she said being gay was against her faith.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - i'm lesbian and two weeks ago my girlfrind broke up with me after nearly three months. Its a long distance relationship. At first our relationship was great but there were issues. She'd tell me i upset her or made her angry because i didn't a...

I feel like she just wants a boy to chase her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - I'm utterly heartbroken here. I met this girl who I wasn't that attracted to at first and we became really good friends very quickly. She showed a lot of interest in me and she eventually started hanging out with me at the movies and my house. This ...

Guilty of leaving my wife and son for my mistress! What should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - This is a tough one. I been separated from my wife of 10 years for 9 months now. We have a loving 2 year old boy. The reason for the separation is because I fell in love with my mistress. I been living with her now and we now have a relationship ...

He is a good man but his constant money issues have eroded our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - I was or am involved with a man with 2 children and we were very compatible and enjoyed our times together, but he has a lot of problems with his ex and demands for extra money (divorced 5 years, he pays his maintenance on time and always gives ...

Should I wait and hope he breaks up with his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Hey, I have known this guy for a couple of years now and we always have got along and flirt lots etc but he now has a girlfriend and he still flirts with me all the time and his friends always hint that he likes me. the other day one of his friends ...

Everything I do seems to be yet another painful reminder.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - So here is my situation: I got dumped exactly one month ago, by my girlfriend of two years, who I dated throughout high school and into university. It was completely unexpected,I had no idea what was coming up, she simply stated that she didn't ...

My boyfriend of five years has just left me and I feel like I just lost a huge part of me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Hello. My serious boyfriend of five years has just left me. Its hard to believe in true love, soul mates and fate, since I thought he was my knight in shining armor. I don't know. I feel so betrayed. He gave up. He let us die without so much of...

Why would he go away so far, with a woman 24 years younger? And leave his devoted loving wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - so i know this is out there a lot but my husband left me for a younger girl 24 years younger. they are living together oh and she has a 2 year old. Anyway just wanted to know if anyone could shed light on why he would leave a good wife that woul...

Dating an older man, I don't want to stop but what's the point if it won't progress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid I am 21years old and I am currently dating a 33 year old man.I know that is a big age difference but age is nothing but a number right? We have been dating for almost two months and I really like him. I have never met a man like him ...

Too soon to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I was with a guy for over a year. Without going too much into that relationship- we got engaged at the very end and were only engaged for a few weeks. Being engaged to him made me realize that something was not right between us. I didn't want to ...

I want to end this with him walking away calmly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - how do i end a relationship with my boyfriend who last time got angry and said im stupid to give him up. he does control me and get jealous and i want out of this relationship without him getting angry or sending angry texts etc. how do i keep him ...

He ended what I thought was a great relationship, what happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hello everyone I have a problem which i would like to see if anyone could shed some light on. I met a guy 8 months ago and we stayed in contact with each other for 8 months, he lived 4 hours away at the time but recently moved 1 hour away, so fr...

He dumps me with no reason but normally comes back, but this time it is different. How can I make everything normal again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - he always dumps me but with no reason and after some time he always comes back, but now he does not want to talk to me and he is saying that he has to go outside for his studies thats why, but this reason he has told me before also what to do to ...

How do I help my bipolar husband realize he loves and misses me and his family?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - My husband is bipolar and has left his family including me (his wife) 3 children from me and 2 from his first marriage. He has taken off to another province to go to a friends. He says he is not coming back and he can't be with me anymore. He has a ...

Why would he date me and hold hands, hold me, and that kind of thing if he didn't want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - Met this guy online through a dating site. We chatted for a few weeks and then decided to meet up after we texted each other for a while. Things were going good, we connected very well, laughed a lot, etc. But here's the thing, he said very early on ...

Should he stop communicating with a girl he almost went on a date with during our brief breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - Please MEN (and ladies) help answer this: My BF broke up with me in Nov said he was "talking" to a girl havent met up yet or anything...2 ks later begs to come back to the relationship w me exclusively says the breakup was NEVER related to another ...

Should I just give up on this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently split up over my jealousy issues over his relationships with his female friends. When we were together he told me he loved me and was only interested in me. We even talked about marriage and I moved in with him after only ...

I know the relationship is over, but not knowing what I did wrong is killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - I m a gay guy in Toronto, who is still quite discreet in my relationships. I m not totally out. Sometime in February, a guy contacted me and we met at a coffee shop for our first meeting. We chatted for a long time and then decided to meet ...

We haven't spoken for 3 days since our argument. Is it over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I always argue because he's not good at scheduling. He's often late or leaves early on our dates because of his friends. I find it disrespectful that he "ditches" me because of his friends even though we already had plans. Because ...

After all this time, and after so many starts, could he be my soulmate? I can't stop thinking of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I'm not sure what you ar egoing too think. Well long story short i met this guy when I was 19 we clicked straight away and stayed with each other till the end of the night and exchanged numbers he called straight away next day and we dated for ove...

How do I get him back, I know he likes me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - I want to get back together with this guy. We've been seeing each other for four months - last Wednesday I asked him what our relationship was. He was all okay with it and as soon as we left the restaurant he talked about splitting up with me. We ...

I found out g/f had been cyber cheating for months and she thinks its no big deal

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

24 June 2012 (M) - Hello, I'd like to start this off first of all by saying thank you to anyone who reads and replies to this lengthy message - I'm really in need of an outside opinion here and it would mean a lot to me. I have been with my girlfriend now f...

I love her and I know I shouldn't lie, I'm trying to give her space but I'm so afraid of losing her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 June 2012 (M) - Another day another problem. My gf, well current ex and i have a child together. Weve been together for 2 years and fight all the time. In the past its a few days and me being childish and blocking her and things like that. Each time i sit home an c...

Was it right to leave like that? Did I react right? or was I too harsh on her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 June 2012 (M) - First off I'd like to say I really, really appreciate that you are reading this lengthy story/question. *question at end I promise!* Me and this girl had a thing together and I told her how I felt and she said she couldn't date me because I w...

Everything about my boyfriend gets on my nerves but he's depressed and I'm afraid to break things off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid, I seem to be having quite an issue with my boyfriend. He is the nicest guy in the world, super caring, nice, smart, going to school to become a doctor. My problem is i don't know how to feel about him. He suffers from depression,...

Will my ex go back to his ex wife? Can marriages work after such a long separation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - I wrote before about my boyfriend being reluctant to divorce his wife that hes been seperate from for two and a half years. He was involved with me for the last ten months and she was involved and living with a guy for the whole duration of the ...

My boyfriend is jealous when I dance salsa....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - So...7 months ago I started a long distance relationship with a man I met online. We talked on the phone for a month before meeting in person. We have a lot in common and he's very attractive. The problem is his jealousy. When we first started ...

This break up seems different, nothing I've done in the past to get her back is working! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

22 June 2012 (M) - I have been dating the same girl since my senior year and we have now been together 5 years. We have broken up 2 serious times, once after a few months and once about 2 years ago and we both talked to other people but nothing really serious and ...

My boyfriend and I are being forced to break up for a while... any advice on how to help the heart break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - Okay so here is what's happening. My boyfriend got mad at my mom because she likes getting under our skin and doesn't want us together and posted a status on facebook about it and that set her off. Well I am 15 and he is 18 and by alabama law we ...

I realized I desperately love my ex and want him back in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - Hi friends. . . I am in a relationship with a guy. Before that, I was committed to my ex boyfriend. He loved me very much and was loyal. But I had only one problem with him. He was too busy in his buisness and didnt give much time to me. While my b...

If I leave him alone for a couple of weeks, will he realise he loves me and come back? Or are his feelings truly gone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - So, my boyfriend and I split just over 2 weeks ago after a 7 month relationship. We were very in love but it ended due to a very bad fight. After the split, he and I have had small contact every day leading to today except one. We had a conversation ...

So please tell me, what could my ex be thinking based on his behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago (he said he couldnt commit to a relationship right now what with ridiculous work hours and other commitments) which was understandable- the break up happened after we had an argument about these issues ...

Should I just consider her gone from my life forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

22 June 2012 (M) - My ex now broke up with me like 3 months ago and is now with someone else but still think about here every day and i'm not sure if is hould contact her because before when i emailed her she didn't reply and she delated me from facebook. and has ...

My Ex asked to have lunch then after that she ignored me. Did I get played for a laugh?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

21 June 2012 (M) - I'm a little confused about this situation and need some advice. My Ex-Girlfriend from about 1 1/2 years ago moved back into town a few months ago. She added me on skype and wanted to be friends again, well I wasn't sure about this at first beca...

Do you think he really only wants to be my friend, or could he want me to go out with him again, or do you think he might just be after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Do you think my ex still likes me ?. I heard from one of his friends that he told them that he regretted that we broke up last year, and that he thinks a lot of me. He called me out of the blue last weekend, as he had seen me out in a pub with my ...