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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Is he scared to lose me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been broke up for 3 weeks now. the past two weeks. he has still wanted me around, to cuddle and do sex he said he wasn't using and he didn't want to be friends with benifits. the thing is he broke up with me cause he said he ...

Am I unreasonable in thinking a marriage should be more?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I need some advice on my current marital situation... My wife and I have been married for six years. She's very religious and, as such, there was a very strict "no sex before marriage" policy - which I agreed to. The problems began after the ...

My bf gets mad and stresses me out! Should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I always quarrel,he just gets angry at me. he wants to see me everyday day but he sometimes kicks me out. I always cry, he stresses me. should I carry on with him or what? ...

Very troubled here as I don't think I want be with my bf anymore! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Sorry this is a bit long, but I wanted to put all the detail in. So I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. When we first got together I really loved him (I had liked him way before we got together). But recently I don't feel anything ...

I like her a lot, she has a girlfriend but do I have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - So I met this girl about 3 or 4 months ago through a mutual friend of ours at a bar. We talked all that night and ended up kissing at the end of the night. Later the following week, I found out that she has a girlfriend. I was really confused and ...

Did I make things worse and end up pushing her further away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - after getting into an argument with my crush because I guess I hurt and lied to her. she kind of went nasty. she said mean horrible things to me that day and said to never talk to her again. i still had feelings and tried talking and apologizing to ...

Can I get this relationship back on track? Can I change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - sun won't shine, moon won't glow. Would you ever take back a cheating ex? Would you ever take back someone who hit you? Someone who slept with you even though they had a gf/bf? Even if you were the one who cheated first? I had this ex...

I regret breaking up with my ex, but if I tell him how I feel it will look like I'm tying to stop him going away with his so called friend....what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Last year i broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years and i think ive made a mistake in doing so. the reason i broke up with him is because 1 night i was walking home with my boyfriends best friend who lives on the way after a night out. when i reached ...

How can I learn to more secure and trusting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I've posted questions here many times for help with my relationship and past... I've had some problems with my current girlfriend, and we recently took a break. I've always been suspicious of her, have issues with trust, but I realize now that I...

Too bad to stay. Too good to leave.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 year. I moved in with him 2 weeks into our relationship. We have known each other since we were 13 through mutual friends but didn’t start our relationship until we were in our 20’s. The start of our rel...

His codependency is slowly killing me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I'm in a relationship I don't see any future in and honestly I don't want to be in the relationship at all anymore. I'm 21 years old and I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years come this April. The saddest part is I have told my boyfriend this ...

Eight months pregnant with twins, but should I break up or make up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her C cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and ...

I'm tired of always being the second place girl, the rebound!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hi. I'm 18yrs old and I fell for a man who is 30 yrs old. He is dating his girlfriend for 6 yrs, and i was told he broke up with her two months before he started seeing me. but then i found out, he lied to me and her and everyone he knew about the ...

Which plans should I cancel; those with my mum or my date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - What should i do? It's my mum's birthday tomorrow, and we are supposed to be going shopping in the afternoon, and the cinema at night, but this guy i am dating said he wants to meet tomorrow too. Should i go to the cinema with my mum in the afte...

Three times I have declined my boyfriend's request for an open relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for roughly 10 months. A while ago, maybe 4 or 5 months ago, he brought up the subject of an open relationship. This isn't something that I feel comfortable with, which I expressed to him. He brought it ...

Is this relationship worth salvaging or should I just walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - I met my girlfriend 3 years ago in college and we started living together within six months of dating. I believe we moved way too fast with this relationship and thus we didn’t get to really know each other. The result of our moving too fast ...

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...

Which woman do I pick? My long term gf or the new woman, I feel sexually attracted to?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - hi im 32 im a gay woman and been with my girlfriend over a year. dont live together yet but we are engaged. thing is we had some ups and downs and i just no longer fancy her and lost my sex drive months ago. i love her so much and enjoy her company ...

He seemed interested and then did a complete 360! What happened here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I went to our employee christmas party,it was employees only so we were all sorta hanging and mingling with each other,well after a few drinks I was feeling rather comfortable with a coworker guy friend of mine. he and I actually flirted with each ...

My boyfriend's fickle-mindedness is really bothering me!

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30 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I lived together for 1 year after we met and have had a LDR for the past year because of his job. He can't seem to decide on a plan for the future so we can work towards it and it is getting really frustrating and hard for me to ta...

I want my ex to take me back again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - So I dated this girl for 4 months and I was really in love with her, we went back and forth a few times, we had our problems, we got into fights, i would get really jealous about other guys and her (turned out i had nothing to worry about atleast on ...

Exit strategy please

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - I have got involved with a woman, from my karate club, then i thougt something was going on with her and my instructor, she denied it. As time moved on i felt there was something, eventually she broke down saying there was but he had been ...

Ex and I are talking again should I assume he might like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do. My ex and I from two years ago have become closer recently we have been talking more face to face and we have also started bbming each other a bit. A few months after we broke up i had got completely over ...

How do I get my LDR boyfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - How do I get him back? I have posted on here a few times now. I was in a LD relationship with an amazing man for nearly a year. But due to my stupidity it has now ended. We have had a roller coaster ride. I was going through a divorce, my Dad ...

My past relationships are coloring the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hey guys! I need some advice, I'm having a hard time letting go, trusting people, and or finding myself to like anyone in a way that others like me. I have had quite a few relationships but not as much as I have with people I have "went out" with, ...

He's my ex and he still checks me out all the time. Why does he do this still? His Gf hates me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My ex and I share a lot of history, we were best friends for a year and liked each other for a lot, a year after we hugged for the first time and hung out as well with friends. Few months later we had our first kiss and first sex and it was very pas...

We hooked up twice and now he ignores me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hey there, so i have a slight problem, i have this friend we use to date back in the day but it didnt work out for a few reasons, but recently we have partied with each other a couple times we hooked up twice, he does have a girlfriend and i feel h...

He just can't shut up about his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i has been together for 10 months now but i dont think he's over his ex. we got together after 2 weeks of them breaking up, they were going out for almost 1 year and a half. after they broke up, she had a new boyfriend just 2 weeks ...

My boyfriend's demanding schedule leaves him little time for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - I haven't seen my boyfriend in nearly two weeks. Though he has been extremely busy with work for that time, (14-hour shifts, no days off) the least he could do is take a few seconds to send me a text here and there like he used to. I loved it when ...

G/f dumped me after she lost weight saying we aren't equals!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I really need help. my girlfriend of 4 years dumped me about a week back. this girl meant everything to me, I thought she was my soulmate. I've travelled around the country for this girl because of her job, disregarding my ambitions for hers. when ...

I had hoped that he would feel the pain of being dumped and now that he has, I feel guilty!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Please let this question go up i need some help :( Ok a stupid question but please hear me out. How can I make myself feel better for something that I didnt cause? I'll explain. On St Stephens day/Boxing day A guy i was dating for five months...

I feel I've made some awesome progress in the week we have been broken up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me saying we need to see other people because we started dating when we were 14. I am 22 now, thats 8 years and we are eachothers first relationship. but i know it has more to do with the fact i was very very immature she ...

What hope is there for this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Bit of a long story so please bare with me. Met my girlfriend at work 5 years ago, she was an Assistant Manager of 21, I was a 38 year old employee. Despite the age difference we hit it off straight away and started dating almost immediately. During ...

Should I block my ex? He broke up with me because he didn't like the present I gave him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - On December 2010 I got dumped by my boyfriend. We'd been really good friends a few years before we started dating and then I feel like when we started dating we moved way too fast. Then on Christmas I got him a present and he said he didn't l...

28, single and lost

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 28 soon and a single lady. I've never dated, have no sexual experience, nor any really. I feel quite alone in finding a partner and a bit lost. Most of the guys I've liked have been 10-15 years older, I feel comfortable and share the same ...

My ex-girlfriend and I still like one another but she has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I really need help with this situation and it would mean a lot if I can get as many responses as I can, thank you. So me and my ex been broken up for about a half a year, we broke up once which was for 4 months and then we got back together bu...

In an emotionally abusive relationship but can't let go cause I don't want to see him move on. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are on the verge of breaking up but Im still holding on because the thought of him going on dates, falling for other women and getting over me just devastate me and I have anxiety attacks. How do I get over this? Why is this ...

After being heartbroken, I finally met a wonderful woman! But I am out of shape and could ruin my chances at love again! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - it has taken me a long time to get over my ex. I have at times been very down and reached a point where i almost stopped going out. I just stayed at home ate and moped. A year later i have realized that i have become a mess. I have lost most if not ...

Is he using me or...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - I have been dating a younger man for approximately 6 months. He seems to be crazy about me and treats me like a queen around the house. His situation is as follows: he had a break-down approximately 1 year ago after he broke up with the mother ...

She broke off with me but wants me to wait....I am not sure what to do here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - Me and my girlfriend recently broke up, as she wanted more time to spend with her friends and a break from me. We had been arguing for a week or two about stupid things. She said she loves me a lot and that one day she hopes we can be together one ...

I am wondering..does my ex still have feelings for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - Me and my ex split up about a year and a half ago now. I ended the relationship for several reasons which I won't go into. When we split up, I cut all communication with him in order to move on. However, he kept trying to contact me and I just ...

I hate him and love him! please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - So of course Im in love with a guy who I hate more than anything. Yes I said it, I think I hate him more than I love him but I always stay,take him back, forgive him etc. Long story short, we met when we were teenagers (13-14 yrs old) ended up ta...

Should I stay with a mentally ill boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - Hi all. I've been with my bf for almost 3yrs. He has as few problems with anxiety and depression. He has even been on anti depressants for 3months. Anyway whenever he drinks even a little these feelings he has amplifies and the smallest thing can ...

She says she needs time, and not to wait

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend recently said to me that she needed her space and time apart from me. This i understand, but the situation itself is rather complicated. We have been talking absolutely non stop for over a year now, and then when she moved near me for ...

I loved him so much but he treated me bad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Why would you want to hurt someone that loves you so much? is something wrong with me? I loved him so much I thought he loved me too.. He was so nice so sweet, I felt for him and he told me he loved me everyday. But then he broke up with me...

While we were broken up, we both hooked up with other people. Now that we're back together, I cant bear to think of her doing something with someone else!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend of 11 months and I broke up around Halloween of last year. We were having issues, I liked her more than she liked me, and I felt I was the only one putting forth effort in the relationship. We were both obviously upset by the ...

He flirts secretly with other women on Facebook. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - my boyfriend is pretty much perfect. he always makes time for me. he trusts me. we never argue. he always tells me he loves me, and how he wants to one day get married and have a family. he always tells me he never speaks to other girls anymore, ...

Does he just not love me anymore and is afraid to tell me, or is he dating someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - me and my boyfriend has been broke up over a week now... we broke up cause he said he needed a break from the relationship cause he needs to focus on graduating high school, he works and goes to school and he said me being mad at him all the time ...

What should I do in this terrible relationship situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 January 2012 (M) - So me and my now Ex girlfriend previously were dating for 8 years. I am 22 now. Ya i know thats crazy weve been together since we were 14. we are both eachothers first real relationship and first sex partners as well. Anyways I am not trying to toot ...

Am I just another notch on his headboard? I don't feel I matter to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. During that time, we split twice. The first time was for 3 weeks, the second time was for a month. The first time we split I had assumed he got cold feet. Recently, though, I found out that his girl...