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26-29,
anonymous
writes:On December 2010 I got dumped by my boyfriend. We'd been really good friends a few years before we started dating and then I feel like when we started dating we moved way too fast. Then on Christmas I got him a present and he said he didn't like it, and then the next day told me that we should break up.I cried and was sad for many months, and I think I only really got over it mid-2011. Now I realize that he was an a^^^^le and dating him and crying over him was a mistake.It was only in late 2011 that my male friend (who was in my ex's phys ed class) started telling me that in the change rooms my ex would start talking to him about how sometimes he misses me and asks how I'm doing. And when I would hear this I'd just be annoyed and forget about it.I'm a graphic designer and I have an art blog and it has this thing that tells me who's visited my blog. And this recent my ex has suddenly been visiting my art blog A LOT. It didn't really bother me the first time but it's starting to get on my nerves now.I obviously detest every fibre of his being now so the last thing I want is him coming up to me trying to get back with me. What's he doing? It makes me uncomfortable that he's creeping my blog, so what should I do about it? Should I block him or is that too bitchy? I've acted like I don't know he's creeping my blogs but it just makes him come back 'cause he thinks I don't know. Should I do nothing about it and hope it passes?Thanks so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2012): block him.the next time he tries to visit that would partly pay back for the jerk he was with you.lol loser
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2012): Block him.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (28 January 2012):
 Block him, especially if his creeping around your blog makes you feel uncomfotable.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 January 2012):
 Block him, who cares what he thinks! If it helps you avoid this dumbass, then do it!Maybe he will take that as a hint to leave you alone. And you are right, he wasn't worth the tears.
Guess he figured out what he lost, now you can be the one who got away .
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