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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend recently said to me that she needed her space and time apart from me. This i understand, but the situation itself is rather complicated. We have been talking absolutely non stop for over a year now, and then when she moved near me for uni we had a whirlwind romance, so many good times and we talked about our long futures together and the things we would do. However after the long christmas break apart, we got back and things were just as perfect as before, if not better. Then exams and things started and we were both under a lot of pressure, we weren't seeing each other much and we were arguing over stupid little things. This then culminated in me asking about some pictures of her and another boy. This was out of order on my behalf and I understand that. We met up just recently to sort things out and she said she needs time apart from me and a break because everything is getting too much for her and she wants time to see her friends at university. I understand this, she has said she doesn't want me to wait for her at all, but I can't help but doing so, I do want her back but more than anything I want her to be happy, which she said she so was when we were together. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for me on what I should do? I was considering just completely leaving her for a good while and seeing what she thinks after that but I am scared she won't have changed her feelings, thank you
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reader, taylz +, writes (1 February 2012):
My ex told me to give her space, i tried my best to but with me not being around made her not think about me as much and she moved on from me, if i was you i would speak to her and ask her exactly what she wants and whether she realistically see's anything happening between you both as its not fair for you to have to wait around for her, my advice is to start trying to move on now because its a long hard process.
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reader, califlowers +, writes (26 January 2012):
I think you should talk to her about how you feel and ask what she's thinking. If she doesn't have any plan on getting back together with you then, hard as it may be, it'd be best to move on.
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