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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Is my ex still upset about us breaking up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Do you think my ex is still upset about us breaking up ?. He sent me a message a couple of weeks ago out of the blue saying " well, i hope your life is better, and that you are happy, i really do " . We've spoken again a couple of times since then, ...

Should I believe there is hope or he just lying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Okay, I have another big question. So I call him yesterday and we talked for about 14 minutes, and he tells me he still loves me. I ask him if he thought we could ever be again. He says well you'd have to straighten a lot of your crap out. Then he ...

The past is ruining our future, how can I leave the past behind me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been in a great relationship for five years with my boyfriend. I love him a lot, and most of the time things are really good between us. Unfortunately, we've had a long distance relationship because he moved back to Argentin...

Should I leave him and look for someone who puts in more effort?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend? He has great wonderful qualities, and I do love him, but I feel like he doesn't put a lot of effort into our relationship. I don't know if my expectations are too high, but are there guys out there who really ...

Huge strain on our relationship because BF still talks to his ex and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hi my name is Mila, I am in a relationship and I am not sure what to do. In January I started talking to a guy in my college, I had seen him before but did not think much of it. After the first day of talking to him he seemed like a good guy ...

Guy I like broke up with me after seeing blood from my period during sex. What can I do??

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I had a huge crush on somebody that I met 3 years ago. He was so cute and from another state. From the first time we met, we knew exactly that we were attracted to each other. He stayed at the hotel and we exchanged our cell phone numbers. The sex ...

Ex and I slept together, but I feel insecure because she's blonder, and smarter than I am

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - my ex boyfriend and I broke up about eight months ago and I still can't get over it, we dated for two years, I was twenty and he was thirty-two, first my family was against it because of the age difference, they said he was just using me but that ...

My ex told my sister she misses me but she has never called

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - I have broken up with my ex fiance about a year ago to date, it was a tough break up for me i moved to Los Angeles from Chicago to be with her and being here alone has been hard. Basically the reason she broke up with me was because of my immaturity ...

I broke up with him but he still wants me to provide him with emotional support, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up we were together for almost three years. Although both of us know it was for the best it still hurts a lot. He was very cold about it which doesn't make me feel better about anything and even brought up points that I ...

How can I trust me feelings for the guy that left me and our child high and dry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - My boyfiend can not do anything to help my son and I. I love him for no reason,but he always tell me that he is not a jerk because he left me for 18 months and come back to me now. I do not take it as worthy just for coming back to me,but he think ...

Should I let my baby's daddy back into our lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - hi everybody,please help!My boyfriend abandoned me since i was one month pregnant. Now my baby is 9 months and he does not know the baby. It's been two months since he is back in my life(not in my son's life),I have been trying to learn more from ...

GF can't make up mind where to live. Now she is moving in with this flirt who won't keep his hands off of her. Should I be done here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Are we done here? For the past couple of months my gf's living arrangements have been changing. She needs a place to live and wants to move in with me. I am not ready for this kind of commitment and I feel pressured. She has friends that I l...

She chose her husband over me and I can't deal with it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1962 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - My married girlfriend just told me that this is the end of the affair. I don't understand why would she dump me if I was there for her in time of need and always very supportive. She says she still loves me but she can not take the pressure that I ...

I can't fully get over an ex before I get involved with someone new. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - I've had 3 serious relationships in my young life. Each time these relationships have ended I have been devastated. I put a lot of effort and energy in to making relationships work and when they don't work out I feel like I've failed. But I don't ...

I don't know if I should get back with him, but I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - me and my ex boyfriend are friend because I break up with him 2 days ago because he been making me cry and making me sad even being a jerk to me. We have been txting since we break up like we did, when we was dating but I find it hard because I ...

Was he just saying that to guilt me back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I really need some help i was with my ex for almsot 2 years. I end it last night because hes always emotionaly and verbly abuse me. And i really did love him but i was tired of him hurting me he'll be good for awhile and try and change but it always ...

Will I have to pay maintenance for my fiance’s children from his previous marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Does anyone know if I will have to pay maintenance for my fiance’s children from his previous marriage (my future stepchildren) if we divorce and I have to pay him maintenance for whatever reason? The children live with their mother. My fiancé p...

He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to ...

I still remain a virgin but a part of me wishes that I could fool around with my ex again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I haven't been in many relationships - only two. Neither of them were that serious. I only fooled around a bit with my second boyfriend who I dated two years ago for three months while I was a senior in high school. We never went further than having ...

Do women give men too much leeway in relationships? And too readily take him back after break-ups?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Simple question for ladies and gentlemen....Do women tend to give men too much leeway in relationships? Do women take men back too often, too soon, too much after they have been done wrong?...

In the midst of my feelings for this girl, I ended up getting married to my ex fiancee. Now my marriage is crappy and the girl I love(d) is pregnant with her abusive BF's child..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Well, this is kind of a long story. I'll do my best to keep it brief, but many of the details are significant, so I guess we'll see.. About 3 years ago I started a new job, and consequently met a girl there. We became close, and began dating. ...

I feel I should also sleep with someone else while I'm single to get this out of my system.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Im a in a real bad moral situation that i cannot seem to make a decision on. I had a 5 year relationship with a girl who i love dearly. We started growing distant and she broke up with me on the day my dog died. It was a real heartache and i asked ...

My GF is spending time with her ex, how should I handle it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - My girlfriend met up with her ex at Glastonbury! I am having a really hard time getting my head round this and am wondering if this is the beginning of the end. My girlfriend of nearly 5 months has an ex who she finished with in Sep 10 who ...

Please helppp! should I try to save my relationship or ended?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. He is 36 years old and I'm 20. At the Beginning of our relationship everything was perfect, we used to go out to dinner, watch movies, go for walks at the park. We had our issues along in the ...

Depression has gotten worse now that my BF has broken up with me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has broken up with me, because I recently I have been stuck in a depressive episode, due to a load of family crap with my parents. Over the last 2 years I have had 2 nervous breakdowns, 8 different anti-depressants, counsell...

Dumped me because I'm poor, now she's moved on, should i?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I have seen my ex-girl friend recently and she was smiling and happy in her life, whereas I am still struggling to get over her. She dumped me 8 months back as she thought I was too poor guy financially to propose her officially as she belonged to ...

Will he take me back or is he playing mind games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Do you think my ex and i will get back together? Okay so we have been broke up for a month went 2 weeks or so no contact but we are talking again . The first week of the break up i was stupid and BEGGED for him to take me back .. He didnt . But ...

My confidence has gone after dating a man way out of my league!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so here is my dilemma. I am 33, I am ok looking, not ugly and some may say pretty, but not anything special just your average girl in the looks department. I would say a 5/6 out of 10. I have happened to meet a man who is 30 and who is drop dea...

Should I get back with my ex? She left me for her ex, but he beat her up so she wants to come back to me again!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - So my ex gf, who dumped me to get back with her ex boyfriend who hits her, wants to get back together. Im the complete opposite of her ex, hes a badboy kind of guy who doesnt do shit with his life, while i on the other hand, work two dead end jobs ...

Still living with my ex and he is acting like we are still together! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My ex broke up with me in January. We still live together due to financial reasons, and have agreed to stay in our current place until our lease is up at the end of the year. I have moved into the spare bedroom and we live as roommates now. ...

How do I break free from this married man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - hey well here goes. ive been in a bad relationship for a year now. i dont want any critisicm i dont need it i know what ive done is wrong i just have a proplem that i would like some help with. when i first met him i never knew he had a wife and i...

Guilty or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hi i am a Pakistani girl and a muslim. So here is my story. I married my first cousin (my mother's sister son) back in 2008. But now we are divorced. The problem is i am a little guilty because it was I who asked for divorce due to several reasons. ...

How to get my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Sorry this is so long, but I feel like I need to give the backstory and time progression of my last break-up. I'm really confused with my ex and his feelings towards me. Here's what happened: we broke up about 6 months ago. We were only together for ...

Am I an ass?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Honestly am I? I've realized something, I can't seem to get over my ex. She was my first serious gf. Like I really loved her. We had a good year 1/2 or 2 together. We broke up bc I found out she cheated. It took a year before we were able to be cool ...

I loved her but we broke up because I graduated our university. Am I wrong not to re-friend her on Facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - Me and my ex broke up after 5 months together just over 4 months ago, reason being I was leaving the town where we studied at university. I was finishing my degree, she was just starting hers. I loved her and I wanted the relationship to continue, ...

Do I deserve the same second chance I gave her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - I have been dating a girl for 21 months. Back in November, I found out by looking in her laptop that she had been talking inappropriately to other guys. That hurt me a lot and I forgave and forgot so we could move on after she apologized. Now, ...

What can I do to get him off my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - well I break up with my boyfriend like 2 days ago, I reazlie that I did not love him anymore so....we both did agree to break up and think it was for the best because it was not working out but I still always thinking of him and I do miss him and ...

How do I stop feeling so sad and to stop myself for feeling like it was my fault?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of two years told me yesterday that he was distancing himself from me because he hates talking to me now and he wished I never loved him because he stopped loving me and then he finally told me that he cheated on me. I took off the ...

Is the relationship completely ruined or do I have any chance of being with her again someday?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - My sweetheart (I'll call her P) and I were together for four months. It's not a lot of time but we have a really eventful story: We both came from five-year-long relationships, we were both cheated on by our partners and we both had trust issues...

I just need closure!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - how do i get closure without talking to him? i text him but he never texts back. i am still sad but not as bad as the day it happened. i was literally in so much physical pain i just couldn't do anything but sit there and cry. now i am doing better ...

BF unexpectedly dumped me. I need some support

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Hey, I'm really devastated right now and really hurt. My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. When it happened i felt as if i couldn't breathe. I mean, he just broke up with me out the blue. The day before the break up we were all fine. He sai...

BF turning out to be a real abusive jerk. Is this worth saving?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I'm in a relationship that is currently going on 7 months. My boyfriend and I met in college, and we are both 19 years old. It didn't take long, perhaps one month, before we slept together. I had been in a very serious relationship previously in ...

Why is she not giving us a chance to at least talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - Been a year since my ex fiance broke it off. We been together 14 years and we also have 4 year old son. I don't know anymore. She just don't talk to me or anything. Like she done forgot about me. She say she on. Why she not giving us a chance to at ...

He told me he fell in love with my personality. Well that doesn't help much when he ogles other men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - I am a gay male of 23 years old (almost 24) and my boyfriend is 25 (almost 26). We've been together for 3 and a half years and it's be... alright. We got into a little argument today about how my boyfriend is always commenting on how other guys o...

Broke up and now I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - So i guess i need advice? im 15 ME AND MY BOYFRIEND broke up a few weeeks ago. He might b goin to collage next fall and he said he might c me again this summer. :( i decided to stop calling and just wait untill hes ready.... We had a bad break up. I ...

After 8 years of just cleaning and never going out, I want out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - i have been living with my boyfreind for eight yrs now and i feel so unhappy we never go out together anywhere we dont do any thing together. i cook all his meals for him an clean up after him. i want him to leave but he just won't leave i have told ...

This co-worker wants a relationship with me and will not leave me alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Please Help Me! I'm trying to break off a relationship with this man. I have known him for 2 years and he seemed like a nice guy. He is 56 and I'm 28. I have a new fiance and the 56 yr old is married. My fiance cheated on me and I wanted to ...

I terminated my pregnancy and then lied and said the baby had Down's syndrome. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - A few months ago i was trying with my boyfriend for a baby, we have one already and i just wanted to have one more. We tried for a few months then i got pregnant. I was supposed to be happy and excited but i wasent, i felt scared and worrid about ...

We've broken up but neither has moved on. Should I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - A little over a year ago my boyfriend's father passed away in a car accident. Since then there have been a lot of family issues that have come up alongside the normal formalities of a death. Everything between us carried on as usual. About 2 m...

Moving on from a narcissistic partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I finally mustered enough courage to kick my partner out. This man has taken so much from me. He's lied, cheated, belittled me and made me feel worthless with abusive comments etc. I've suspected for a while he has narcissistic personal...