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41-50,
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writes:Please Help Me!I'm trying to break off a relationship with this man. I have known him for 2 years and he seemed like a nice guy. He is 56 and I'm 28. I have a new fiance and the 56 yr old is married. My fiance cheated on me and I wanted to get him back by be-friending another man. Me and my fiance are back on track but this other man won't go away. I have black mailed him, cursed him....still nothing. He keeps calling me and leaving me text messages if I dnt respond. One day I was up to 10 text messages from him. The worst part is that we work together but in different departments. He comes to my department and speaks and touches me like everything is normal. He keeps telling me how he longs to have sex with me and we will wheather I want or not.....(I'm disturbed as I'm writing). I have lost 7 pounds, can't sleep good, and can't focus at work. He is a monster! I did what my bestfriend told me too which is to call him and have a straight forward conversation-letting him know how I felt. I called him and told him we were done...he said "we will be friends forever and stop freakin out so much. You dont have to do anything you dont want to." Ten minutes later he started texting me sex messages and calling me private. He is scaring me. I'm I over-reacting, is he playing mind games, or is he crazy. He is getting worse by the day. BTW...he said his wife won't care if I told her and he would just be-friend my fiance. I never experienced this before.
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (27 June 2011):
Show the texts to your supervisor at work and get HR involved. And call his bluff about speaking to his wife.
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