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*essica1350
writes:me and my ex boyfriend are friend because I break up with him 2 days ago because he been making me cry and making me sad even being a jerk to me. We have been txting since we break up like we did, when we was dating but I find it hard because I begin to miss him and the times we have together, he was a good boyfriend at the start then end up being a jerk to me......I thought I did not love him anymore when I break up with him and he even agree it was for the best that we break up. So I been wondering if I love him or not but I'm confused because I always say I love him when we was dating but I was never sure and I feel like I won't find someone else who will take me as I am like he did. I just thought I can be friend with him because I will miss him if I kick him out my life because he was the only thing that was important in my life because I don't really have friends in real life because I never have true friends. I have friends in school but they was not true friends but I do have 2 friends who sort of true friends but they busy with their other friends and he never did understand how I feel sometime and he stop being there for me lately but sometime I wonder if he can say how he really feel to me sometime but he never can be honest with me about how he feel even when we break up. He never like talking about how he feels even to his friends or family, he always push it aside and act like he don't act, he even fake smile to say that he is fine but idk if I really want to get back with him after all the pain to put me through....but I do miss him and idk if I will find someone else.....what should I do?
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (29 June 2011):
 It's normal to be hurting, you just broke up with your boyfriend. Just remember that you broke up for a reason, something in you decided that breaking up was the best choice. Give it time you will heal, but don't go back to him just for you not to feel the pain because this is not the solution. Deal with the pain put distance and in time you will see if it was the right decision.
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