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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

He cant be bothered with intimacy anymore, am I wrong for wanting more than just companionship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - Is it wrong to want more than companionship?? Hi I'm in a relationship with a guy who I've known 10 yrs. I'm in my late thirties. My relationship has been a Rocky one. He has always been the one running back and I have allowed this. The last 6 mths ...

Who can I talk to about the visions that I have? Some of them scare me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - Sometimes I have visions but the hook me up because some of them come true most of them have him come to pass yet but I get the feeling up to going to come true. Who should I tell about my visions?And why? Sometimes these visions scare me I don't ...

How do I deal with this girl and my strong dislike for her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - Hey guys. How do you deal with people you really dislike? Basically, there is a girl who is the girlfriend of a friend of mine. Not only does she always cheat on him and treat him really badly, but she also knows my boyfriend, and she is always al...

Planning to adopt a child and want to give them a name

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I'm a single woman and I'm starting the adoption process. Being a single parent doesn't bother me because I don't need a man to complete me and I was raised by a single father and I always knew I was loved unconditionally - I didn't need a mum ...

Should I follow my BFs advice and smarten up for work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - HI guys, This isnt a relationship question per sa, but I hope you can offer me some guidance. Basically I work in an office with no dress code so I go to work in jeans and tee shirt. I am allowed to do this if I wish but some of the staff cho...

Important interview tomorrow. Help! How do I create a good impression? What are the points to take into account when being interviewed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Tomorrow I have a very important career interview for Aviation, Hospitality, Travel and Tourism training college. Tomorrow is going to be my first interview and I have no idea how things go and how to make an impression. Please tell me all the dos ...

Does every man in a relationship still look at other women? Would every man cheat with a gorgeous girl if they definately knew they would get away with it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Hi, sorry this is long. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, he treats me perfect and has never cheated on me or given me any reason not to trust him. But out of nowhere I've started to drive myself (and him) insane by questioning him ...

Why the comments on my shorts this year?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I live in Michigan and it is starting to warm up out here. On Saturday I wore my shorts (they are a short athletic style) and a t-shirt. I had some errands to run and some of the looks and comments I got were very strong like Hey Baby nice ass! and ...

She thinks she's protecting me but I think she's trying to control me. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - My girlfriend, my gf's sister, my brother, and a couple friends are all mutual friends. We all know each other and hanged out sometimes. We have an event planned to take pictures at a tulip field. Due to certain circumstances, my gf, my gf's sis...

Are my insecurities playing a part in this? Or were his comments rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I’ve been seeing this guy (exclusively but not boyfriend and girlfriend yet)for just over 2 months (I have known him for 5 months but things started progressing properly 3 months in), I'm 20, he's 21, things are really good between us in general....

Why would he call me a Princess and then tell me that I like to get my own way and I sulk? Is that a compliment or is he flirting with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Why would he say that to me? Is it a compliment? I was talking to this cute guy I like. I'm very quiet and shy around him and he's quiet Around me too. He said I'm very mysterious and a princess I said why does he calls me a princess he said I...

Is it wrong that I want to feel as if my efforts are appreciated ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I'm looking for some feedback\insight to my issues! I've always been 'the one' lending a helping hand,be it a friend,be it someone less fortunate.. I work for a charity and make donations..but I think 'when you do good you should never accept ...

When to reveal a disability during online dating?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...

Is my older boyfriend just realistic or pessimistic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - HI there, I am 22 years old (female) and my boyfriend of two years is 32. I know the age gap is big but so far its not worked too badly. My BF isn't very experienced and so it sort of works. My question though is this: I am a very positive person,...

I'm 30 weeks pregnant. How do I get my husband back in bed with me? He's been looking at sexy pictures of girls instead.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years now. I am also 30 weeks pregnant. I have only gained 18 pounds so I feel a little silly moping, but I could really use some words of encouragement. My fears began when our love making sessions...

Should I even bother to hang around with my best (bi/gay) friend after he has hurt me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3924 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - I'm a straight girl who has a male "best friend" of 8 years. All those years ago he supposedly liked me, but I never went there as I didn't feel the same – but I didn’t play him. However the years have gone by and we had grown closer - everyone ...

When did the term "nice guy" start to have a negative meaning?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - Quite often, that term is usually not viewed as a compliment (at least amongst many guys). Has this always had a dual meaning?...

I want to move in with my BF but get the mortgage on the place myself. Is this right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend are moving in together soon and it might be possible for me to have a mortgage on a place. However I don't want to go into a mortgage with my boyfriend. It sounds cruel but even though i adore him I just dont fe...

I have moved on. But some of my friends from the past have not. How do people handle a situation like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hi there, I am a women in my early 30's. For the past 3 years I have made significant positive change in my life in every way......career, education, health etc. The changes have been gradual and have involved moving away from my hometown to ...

I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a gi...

We don't have any kids and I even hate to mention this, but should I run before it's too late?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My husband is a jerk and very careless with money! I don't even know where to start!!! Ok, I've taken a few deep breaths and I think I'm ready to explain. My husband is very naïve when it comes to all things money. For example, he wants to tak...

So it that it? He told me he was not looking for a relationship. I thought we had more going on than that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone I always love to read this website love all the advice now I need some. I'm 24 separated and have 2 kids.now I met this guy in the club. He's 21 and military.. He asked my number and gave it to hi. we started texting then he w...

Involved with a married woman. So why is she acting this way? Why is she treating me like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - hey guys i need advice. ive been involved with a married woman for about 7 months. i know its wrong but hear what i have to say please. we started off as friends good friends. talking everyday spending a few hours together. and i started falling ...

I'm 18 and my parents are strict. I want to get birth control but if I do my parents will judge me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Okay I'm 18, and with having strict parents i sometimes feel like they don't understand me. Ever since i started dating my boyfriend i feel like he is the only one here for me. We have been together for almost a year now and we have started ...

How does the average couple afford children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Does anyone else worry a little that they will never be able to afford a child? I am still on the younger side so I know I have a couple of years to figure it out before my clock starts ticking, but I wonder how we will ever get there. We do okay ...

How do you deal with a spouse who shuts down when something truly upsets them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - My wife has been through so much her entire life and she definitely is a rock. She is the motivated type who when faced with a problem doesn't get flustered or crazy she just finds a solution and gets it done. There are times however that when ...

Interracial dating question: is he the one with issues or is it me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

24 April 2013 (?) - I was on an interacial dating site as a black female born and bred in england and was approached by a white man stating he was interested, i asked the question, why interacial dating?, he replied "during the last 50 years english girls have lost ...

Due to be married in two weeks. But I get slightly jealous about his deceased fiance. Is the problem my jealousy or the grief he's never resolved from the past?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Okay, my fiancé and I are set to be married in two weeks. We own a home together and have two beautiful, amazing kids. We have what many consider a "perfect" relationship, as no one has ever seen us argue/fight/be upset with each other, etc. We'...

Is it ever acceptable to tell a guy that you want to have kids and not get married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - I'm 29-years old and have never been married and have no children. I've had long term relationships in the past (one for 4-years and one for 2-years) and I haven't really been serious with anyone in almost 6-years. Anyhow, I wouldn't say...

My husband wants to have a baby with another woman. He's says I'm making this out to be a big deal. Am I over-reacting like he says?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Im 20 years old and have 2 kids. My oldest is 4 and she is from a past relationship. Im now married and we just had our son in February. Recently my husband has been talking about having a baby of his own with another woman. I thought he was k...

Threesome after marriage? I've been faithful in my marriage but often get the urge to revisit my sexually adventurous past!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Hi Cupid, Am 29 and am married for 5 years...I should say that I have have an amazing love life so far and even before marriage I was very active. I happened to be touch too adventurous for an Indian woman and experinced many a things which wou...

How do I get rid of my bad thoughts and concentrate on my work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - i m a 25 year male, student. i have always find myself thinking bad things as like sex etc. and always trying myself to keep away from my actual work. i found that i m deteriorating my career and life but repeatedlly i m becoming failed to keep my ...

Need help dealing with my 14 year old!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - I need help on something...My husband passed away about 4 1/2 years ago, and I was left with 3 young children (9, 6 and 5). I ended up, out of fear of being alone, dating really fast. I got into a 3 year relationship that was not good. He was ...

Why is she treating me this way? Did she ever love me? I can't deal with this!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - Hi guys my girlfriend broke up with me 4 weeks ago a 6 month relationship. The thing is she's married and older 10 years she’s 28 I'm 18. Things were great I was moving closer to her she was making it clear it was over with her hubby. To make i...

Life Balance. May I have some tips on how to prioritize between my school life and find time to enjoy my passion of helping others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Okay. Well I have been off this site for a while, and I am coming back for a little while as I have been overloaded with work! Basically, I am 16, and I have a little bit of a problem. My GCSE's are comin...

Why didn't he tell his potential new boss that he got married since the last time they talked?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - My husband recently had lunch with a potential new boss. He met him a couple years ago, when we had just moved in together (not married yet). Now, my husband and I are expecting our first child. He's very proud to talk about it with everyone he's ...

Love versus hate? Should I stay or should I break up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Hi all. Just hoping for some sensible advice and support... It's a rather complicated story... and I really appreciate no one wants to listen to someone waffle on so I'm cutting it real simple When I got with my bf a year ago we worked together...

I want this to be more than just "One Night Stand". What should I do guys to make this work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Dear All So here it goes, I have a colleague at my work place that I truly am attracted to him and wouldn't mind being in a relationship with him. He lately been flirting with me sexually, his been touching my waist when he has the ...

Should I give up everything, and move interstate to be with my boyfriend? It would mean giving up my own home, which I purchased before I met him.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - I have been with my BF for 4 years. We are each in our late 20's/early 30s. I have my own house. He still lives at home. He was studying which is why he stayed there, but he could have moved out by now! (has it too good!). A big concern for me ...

My controlling Aunt wants us to change the date of our wedding. How can I deal with her reaction?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Recent events have upset me and dare say ruined my wedding ...Please read... My aunt (my dad’s sister) has always been a bit controlling. I remember when I was a child she'd always have tantrums and cause arguments if things didn't go her wa...

I broke her heart with the high school thing. How do I tell her that I did so bad they took me off of aid? There's no easy way to tell her and I've held off for months.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, My relationship with my mother has always been strained. We never do the traditional hug/kiss/I love you mom! thing. I just never understood it, however, I do understand that she cares for me and wants the best for me. I want to ma...

Not sure whether this will lead to more than a friend? or just a one night stand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Dear All So here it goes, I have a colleague at my work place that I truly am attracted to him and wouldn't mind being in a relationship with him. He lately been flirting with me sexually, his been touching my waist when he has the opportunit...

Shocked, worried and confused. I'm in the dark with a pregnant ex and I've done nothing wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - Ok, here goes nothing. I met my ex while attending university. Everything was going fine for the first 3 months until she found out she was pregnant. That's when I began to notice a change in the way I was treated. She blames says its bc of old ...

My girl who used to have a sex addiction, now thinks sex is dirty and won't be intimate with me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - Recently, my GF admitted she had a past sexual addiction. I was not totally unaware of this, but recently we've been having our own tension when it comes to sex. She now views sex as "dirty." She now is not capable of being intimate with me...

I feel like a dating mess. Insight welcome. How can I meet someone new?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - I was in 11 year marriage that was dying a slow death. I wasn't happy neither was wife but for some reason neither of us knew what to do. I was approached by coworker and had affair. At the same time wife was too. She chose affair over marriage...

I can't seem to meet another girl I like. Is it a confidence thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - I had a long term relationship end about 4 years ago. It ended not the best, and I was silly enough to stay in contact with the ex. Anyway I know she has changed and also I couldn't see her the same again. But I can't seem to meet another girl...

How do I stop this crush? Met him at AA meeting, but he's way older than me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Have a crush on a guy at an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting! I'm 18 and recently got out of rehab about a months ago and started going to the local AA meeting. AA meetings is the last place I thought I'd devolp a crush on someone. But for the past 3 ...

How can you tell when it's worth getting back together? How do you know whether to believe it if he says he's willing to change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I slept with my ex...and it was great... I was actually thinking maybe breaking up was wrong after all, because we get on so great. But then, he started doing some 'old stuff' and I remembered why we broke up. Where's the balance? How can...

What's atttactive? And how do you cope if you feel unattractive all the time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

19 April 2013 (?) - I know this probably gets to be an old topic on here, but I'm going to talk about it, anyhow. It's about not liking the way I look. (I know, eye roll). The thing that makes my situation unusual is, it's not that I don't have attractive features. I ...

Family issues: I am so tired of having to apologize for something I didn't do. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

19 April 2013 (?) - So I was wondering if anyone had any tips or ways to deal with a person who feels like they are always right. My mom gets super upset when she feels that we are "missing the point entirely" and that she is always the one who gets blamed when she...