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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm ready for this relationship but he can be unreliable. How can I fix this relationship so he's ready too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I recently got back with my exboyfriend, he asked me out again. I feel as if he's not ready for a relationship yet. I really love him. Im ready for him, but i don't feel he's ready for me. I don't know how to make him know how i feel. I've been ...

He feels like a 'keeper' but I'm finding it really hard to trust his sweet talking words

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, almost 10. I love him, I think I'm in love with him. But I don't know, how can I be sure? How can I be sure he's in love with me? He tell me he's madly in love with me, and I'm the only girl he EVER ...

He may be confused, but now he's confusing me, and is he emotionally blackmailing me as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hey. I am 17. I met a guy on a gaming website 6 months ago. We played games and there was a chat box there too.. So we chatted and played for a month. He is 22. I told him where I lived after a month and found out that he lived in the same area as...

My BF has rejected me because he has a 'mental bock' about my previous relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Currently my ex-boyfriend broke off with me as he says he has a mental block re my past relationship which lasted for 5 years. I was with a guy who was married and when the previous relationship started 5 years ago we were friends and then we had a ...

I don't want to lose my boyfriend by telling him I'm pregnant with his twins, but I don't want to give them up or have an abortion either!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I found out I'm pregnant at 17 and to make it even bigger its twins! I am so scared to tell my boyfriend. We both noticed I was gaining weight but I stopped working out the past few weeks because it was too time consuming. I don't want to ...

How do I earn my boyfriend's trust back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - How can I earn my boyfriend's trust back? I didn't physically cheat on him. I'm going through a VERY hard time right now. I recently lost my family. We were separated with foster families. The reasons don't matter, the point is that I went to a town ...

Should I violate the no-contact rule and text back or just totally ignore her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I broke up with my girlfriend 2 weeks ago because I caught her in a lie that she totally denied. Her lie hurt me and I lost all trust in her although I still have feelings for her. I told her that I was through and that I have given her many ...

I'm in my mid 40s, but my overbearing mother won't back off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - I'm trying to figure out how to deal with my mother. Quite a bit of the following is venting, so you may want to skip to the question at the end. I'm in my mid 40s, but she still tries to tell me what to do constantly. There are many thing...

I don't know how this works...do couples tend to buy more expensive gifts for their partner through the years and discuss the price range??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I just received the Christmas gift box my bf who I'm in an open relationship with sent from the US, I'm in the UK and he moved from the UK to Asia for a job. I'm from a culture in which we don't celebrate Christmas so this is the first Christmas ...

I'm obsessed with my ex and he's happy in a new relationship and going to get married! HELP!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I feel worse every day. my boyfriend dump me five months ago for another girl. We worked at the same place and i cant avoid bumping in to him daily. he looks happy in his new relationship and am going crazy getting jealous any time i see him talking ...

I'm 20 and look 10!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 December 2010 (?) - How do I make myself look older? I am 20 and I look like I am 10. I don't think I could find a guy looking like a kid. ...

Guys,what makes you decide to have a relationship / a hook up (sex only), or just to be friends with a girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Guys,what makes you decide to have a relationship,a hook up (sex only),to befriend with a girl? 1. If a girl is beautiful or sexy,but she has a poor personality or she's a b**ch,would you like to have a relationship with her?or just a hook up?o...

Boyfriend of six months forgot my birthday. Dump him or forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - My birthday was a couple days ago and he still hasn't noticed. There are only two scenarios: He really did forget, or he's getting revenge on an argument we recently had. But either way... Should I reevaluate our relationship? We've been together ...

Can u sleep with someone and have no feelings for them and still be in love with your wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Im lost...I've been married to my husband for over 8 years ( and we have 2 kids tog) and i found out 2 weeks ago from a womans husband that my husband had been sleeping with his wife for the pass 5 months while he was in kuwait..hes home now and ...

What does love feel like to you? How do you know when you are in love? Is love at first sight possible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - What does love feel like to you? How do you know when you are in love? Is love at first sight possible? I'm not talkin about lust, but seeing someone and conversing with them, and just knowing they are someone special....

My son is a crack addict, with criminal charges, on probation for the last 7 years. What can I do in this horrible situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My 27 years old drug-addict son ,causing me and my family lots of pain. He moved back several times in our home, and we tried to help him over and over again. But it failed every time. He is here again. On house arrest, so he can avoid jail. I...

Do you think it's possible that we're actually in love at such a young age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hi(: Okay, as you all know adults and even other teens say when your in high school you think you're in love but you don't know what love is. Well, I've been with mmy boyfriend for almost 15 months now and honestly I can say I love him. I...

Alone again on the New Year...how do I get through this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I've been sngle for the last 3 years around new years and all that and the last couple of years i completly had melt downs cause i was so sick of being alone. all my friends are going out of town and i will be alone yet again. i was wondering how i ...

I need some dating advice please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Alright i need some advice on how to ask out a girl because every time i ask out a girl i manage always screw it up ...

Why look at me, when you could look at someone prettier?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. He and I are honest about everything and are open about many things. I have asked him over and over if he looks and other women. But he says he doesn't look at other girls. I don't think I ...

My BF broke my trust, now he says he's worrying about my feelings. What's that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My bf broke my trust this time last year by lying to me. And he told me his Christmas this year was sad because he missed me and was worrying about my feelings. What does the latter bit mean? ...

She likes me / She likes me not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - There's this girl that i like who is in my university. We live on the same floor of our halls of residence and i have a massive crush on her. I told her about it as i just had to get it out and she said that we were just friends. We were in a club ...

My husband is having an affair. How do I handle things now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My husband is having an affair. I should just tell him to go but it all seems so ridiculous, we live in Berkshire and she's in Norwich! He texts her all the time - I first discovered it by finding a second mobile phone that he obviously didn't ...

Guys:Have you ever liked a girl in the beginning but changed your mind when you got to know her better...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Guys,have you ever liked/interested in a girl a bit in the beginning (when you first met her),but when you got to know her a little bit better,you started to lose interest and you didn't want to go out with her,but you wanted to be her friend?If ...

Do you think he has a tendency for homosexual games?? Or am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Dear friends, Your opinion is valuable and always taken into consideration. many thanks in advance!! I dont know how to write this in plain English. I have been dating this guy for three weeks. Even though i like him, i'm a bit skeptical about hi...

Should I lose my virginity to my sisters boyfriend with her blessing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So I have a complicated situation where my sister and her boyfriend are completely open to open relationships where they'll see other people/have sex with them, but will be dating each other as each other's main partners. I'm a virgin and hadn't h...

What it takes to be a wonderful man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Hi all girls there. I often hear girls saying I have a wonderful man/ boyfriend etc. i wonder what it take to be a wonderful man from the ladies point of view. well what it takes to be a wonderful man? is it wealth, look, traits,education or ...

My ex is in an online rebound relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hey there. I really need someones help. I'm 19 years old. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up. We been together for almost 2 yrs. Before we ever started dating, I had gotten out of a relationship a few months before we stared dating. I was in high ...

How do I go out into the whole wide world beginning the new adventure of life, my life, without being to scared and messing things up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - good morning from a sunny south africa. happy festive season to everyone. ok firstly i dont know if i have a real question or if its rather a fear. wait let me begin and see where this ends. ok im 17 years old and wrote my matric exam this year c...

Why he acts like we're dating if he doesn't want it??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5068 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - so i have a friend who i've only known for a week and a half. well the first time we hung out he was blowing up my facebook to hang out, so he came and picked me up and took me to the club he works at (also a favorite club of mine) well that night ...

Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my st...

Why do I keep dreaming about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - i was best friends with a girl sometime back, it was like we both were very close and the chemistry made me fall for her, i couldnt help it. Even she was close to me and used to hug me when going on bike rides, i even used to let her sleep in my ...

I said I missed him and he blocked me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have or had a friend who I use to get in touch very often. We had this for 4 years and far most this year that is now ending when he was sent to Afghanistan so I guess he took the chance to talk with me and not feel lonely. I really liked tal...

Is my ex-teacher crossing a line with our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So.., this is a little longer than I intended, haha, sorry. I left Junior High just this summer and am now in grade ten (Grade ten...eep!). Anyway, there's this teacher at my old school who is, in every way possible, perfect. Now, I know that soun...

What are some good country love songs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Does anyone know any good country love songs? Not Willie Nelson old country but Brad Paisley, Keith Urban kind. I already know the love songs by those two. Thanks all!...

Help! I feel like I'm being cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me a month back and then we got back together. Since we work together he gave me his password yesterday to do some of his work. I know i am not supposed to check his IM conv history but out of curiosty i di...

Is he drinking behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have a pretty big problem. My boyfriend is a former alcoholic. I have trust issues with him. The past few times we have seen each other he has smelt very strange. I thought maybe it was bad body odor. Then he came to my house and the next day my ...

Help! My girlfriend is too insecure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - hey. my girlfriend is so insecure because of what i have done in the past or so she tells me. i Am going to be compeltely honest and i need you people to tell me if its me or if its her issues. We have been dating for 11 months and we both do l...

How do I avoid temptation for him?

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30 December 2010 (F) - im in college at the moment and my boyfriend goes to uni a few hundred miles away so he's never home. when he is here its great because we are a perfect couple, theres no flaw to us, but when he's not here....its not the same. he's a popular boy, ...

I'm scared the sunbeds will kill him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My bf always used to use sun beds before we went out. I then kindly asked him not to whilst he was with me cos I know loads of people who have died from cancer or have at least suffered from it. I cried the first time I saw him after a sunbed and he ...

Can fake glasses make you need real glasses?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - hii ^_^ thought i would ask a silly question, heh.. lots of people wear fake glasses, dont ask why, apparently its fashion... weird.. i know that if you wear real glasses when you dont need them, u end up needing them because u are alteri...

I'm a virgin and I need sex tips! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I need help. im a virgin and im ready to have sex with my boyfriend but im just scared that im going to be rubbish because ive never done it before. he's had sex a few times, what if im awful at giving a BJ? please give me any advice as to what to ...

Help! I'm only attracted to Latinos!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My profile flag is the Mexican flag, but I´m from another country originally. I`m teaching EFL here. I love it, but I am really in a bind and need advice! I don`t think I`m EVER going to be happy! I would like to have a boyfriend, and s...

Am I just another "Mr. Nice guy, unfit for girls".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Dear everyone, Wishing you all a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! This is going to be a bit long, I apologize. Please forgive me if it tests your patience. At the end of typing this I realized I was simply venting out, so probably you ...

I'm having an affair and he ignored me at the bar!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a co-worker for 3 years. I'm separated and he's married and we enjoy each other's company. Recently we met other co-workers at a bar for the holiday. I was there before he was and when he came in he basically ignored me. He walked ...

I need to break up with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i have been in a relationship for a year and a half now, on and off and i want out of it as i feel that he is controlling me. the other week he told me that he didnt like my friends and that he would prefer that i wasn't friends with them, we argue ...

He wants to marry me... but won't leave the wife!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - He is married, says the wife and him are having problems but he cannot leave his wife and he says he wants to marry me. he knows my family but he is too possessive. why?...

What can I do to re-gain her trust and change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Okay so here is the background: I was with this girl for about a year when we broke up in October 2009, I ended it because I didn't feel the same way about her- I didn't love her anymore. She was absolutely devastated and plummeted into a...

How to talk to a grieving friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, My friend's dad died a couple of months ago and I am seeing her for the first time in a few days. I'm lucky in that I've never had to deal with a death of a loved one so close so I'm not sure what are the best things to say are? I...

Is there any real way to "break through" to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I realized this year that I have probably had a relationship with a sociopath. Although we never got romantically involved, we became "close"--at least from my end. (I have written about her before here, but in short, the reason I say she...