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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm torn! have to let down one party, but who will I let down ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - This isn´t a relationship question but I am in a HUGE bind and desperately need help. On Friday I was offered the absolute job of my dreams... I imagine people might judge me, but I had to decide then and I accepted. I can´t let my current employer...

I say I love him, but does he really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - So, I'm 15 and I've been with this boy (he's 16) for about 4 months now. And I know that I really care for him and I love him but I know i'm not IN LOVE with him. he tells me he loves me and I say it back. but I always wonder if he really does love ...

She's totally ignoring the fact that I sent her three messages!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - I'd like some advice please regarding a potential new relationship. A new girl started at work a few months ago. We get on really well, and have been getting to know each other. I recently suggested going out and we arranged it for the day afte...

Does "love at first sight" really exist?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Is there really such a thing as "love at first sight" or should it be "attraction at first sight" - I think the first has happened to me. ...

Defended my special needs child from attacker, who's now vilifying me. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Anyways i am a parent who went on vacation with my husband's family. Not a good idea, it turns out that I ending up reprimanding, my husband's family member for physically attacking my child. Well that wasn't a good idea as the relative, got so ...

Merry Christmas, with an off-color queston!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - This is NOT a relationship question. At least not yet :-). I'm just on a playful mood at the time, taking a break from work, and one of those weird and funny thoughts that give you the goosebumps came to my mind. I want to wish everyone a Merry ...

Is it too soon to be thinking of going with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hello:) Me and my bf have been going out for three months and we said that we love each other. We have been said that this is the best relationship that wev ever had. however. i am in my 2nd yr of uni and he is in his 4th ... after his fifth ye...

I just wanna be normal like every other teenager...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

21 December 2010 (?) - Hello, This is quite personal but i have never been fingered before but i think my boyfriend wants my first to be with him. I do finger myself sometimes because i want to get used to it. When i do i have found this small selection of lumps ri...

Tell me, is there something I'm doing wrong, and is there something I could do to get out of this position...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hi all, I've been single for so long I can't even remember for how long exactly. I haven't exactly had any actual relationships before either, just 2 hook ups and a relationship that lasted 5 months but was long-distance and the guy was abusive....

I'm clueless with girls and in over my head... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Needed to get this off my chest. Enjoy. I am a 21 year old male living in the US as a student and my name is Aiden. Girls confound me and I know virtually nothing about them and I have very limited experience around them. I have a female best frie...

Help...i can't get a woman out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - On a chance meeting I briefly chatted with a woman younger than myself. I'm 15 years her senior. She's 30 and has a young child. Amazingly I was instantly attracted to her, and now I cannot get this woman out of my mind. I cannot become involved ...

I think I'm losing him to his best friend... What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - OK my BF's BFF is now single. I didn't really mind if she was taken but I know she loves him. She told him herself after she found out about me. And now It sort of bothers me because it's long distance. And yesterday I asked my dad, who ...

Who is telling the truth here? I am stuck in the middle and don't know who to believe!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. he's rough around the edges, but he is trying, and seems to be growing up, and in my head we're not all perfect. my mother has always been on the fence about him, and my best friend says she likes him, but ...

One of my breasts is bigger than the other, will this affect my relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - dear cupids, This question has been botherin me for a long time now. I have unequal breasts. One is half the size of the other. Will it affect my relationship in any way?? Do men give too much attention only to your outer appearence? Bcoz of this ...

Will he think I am desperate? Should I wait for him to ask me instead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (?) - Hi aunts! So, I like this guy and I think he likes me. We do get along well (we work together) and I'd love to ask him out. I'm gonna see him tomorrow at work and I'd like to just casually say something like: "Would you maybe like to come over to ...

I don't want to give up on this, I want to work through it. But what now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I have lived a heterosexual life and just came out of the closet a few years ago, not knowing I was even in. My experience so far has been quite challenging. I have a question but not sure if it's just the relationship I'm in or if it's me. I've...

How can I make it in life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - i have lost all hope, joy , happiness...what can i do? i have failed to get a job, or get into another relationship..more so i have no one i can tell about my challenges...so am all alone, scared..infact terrified...so what can a simple gal like...

I'm really questioning my feelings for him but I don't want my children to loose another dad.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 2yrs and have recently moved in together since doing this he has changed, he goes out drinking all the time, spending my money as he doesnt work, and im starting to really recent him freeloading of me, he is ...

Am I right to leave him due to his impotence?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - i am married for 5 years now my husband is impotent i am really hurt that he hid this fact from me. i want to leave him now is this my right decision....

He wants to stop having sex until we get married! I don't know how to feel about this.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Ok my fiance went totally religious on me and were on not going to have Sex anymore untill we get married, let me make it clear that we are engaged with no set date at all :-( this past sunday i went to church with him for the first time and we ...

I'm feeling insecure about myself, even though I shouldn't be!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - I seem to be suffering from self-image issues since a break-up about a month ago. Since it happened I've had this overwhelming sense that I need to be "better" at everything. I've always been in great shape, but I have gone to the gym every si...

Is it normal for men to use prostitutes?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Is it normal for men to use prostitutes? Does paying for it make it any different? Basically i found out my bf had slept with a couple of prostitutes in the past before i met him. He says there is nothing wrong with it nd its just like meetin...

Is it ok that I'm not a big city person? Or should I force myself out of my comfort zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I don't know why I am the way I am.. and whether it's normal or not. I'm in my mid 20's and I have a degree in communications. The qualification is renowned for being a particularly difficult course with a high dropout rate. I topped my class,...

Why am I obsessed with a woman I don't want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Why am I insanely obsessed 24-7 with a woman I don't want?...

I want true love! Am I asking too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (?) - I'm hurting bad over an ex betrayal. I loved her so much, and I can't seem to get past it. I want to give all this love I'm holding in my heart to a good woman who deserves it. God I just want to be appreciated and respected. It's killing me to have ...

How do I go about making my next move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - I've a crush on my TA for quite some time now. Throughout the semester, I'd take advantage of her office hours constantly and is always willing to help me (though I know this is her job to do so), so we know each other by name and face. We already ...

So why would he keep the ring she bought for herself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone.. I just have a simple question but rather confusing to me. I dont know if I should call him my boyfriend or just some guy i'm with. His 12 years older but I love him to bits and have loved him now for almost 4 years. A while ago I ...