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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is this a normal part of the grieving/healing process?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I think i may be in love/lust with my dead best friends husband. This is not the first time something like this has happened to me. When i was 18 i was engaged to "Matt" he was killed in a car wreck 3 months before we where to get married. ...

My husband just left out of the blue, and I really don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - My Husband left me 5 days ago. I came home to a note on the table stating that he was leaving. He told me he would let his next check go into the bank. He left his debit and atm card on the table with his key. Well we have a 11yr old son together ...

I want to pursue her even tho I have a girlfriend...

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22 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I live together, but I am seriously falling for someone else. I wrote before about this situation early on when I was questioning about meeting "the one" when you are involved with someone else. We have this mutual friend (who by ...

I'm in love with a girl for 3 years and I cant express it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - hallo all. there is this girl at my univercity that i make eyecontact with for the last 3 years! i once had seen her at a club but just said hi and some drunken bullshit (about 2 years ago) i really like her and i think she also does (otherwise...

Disappointed my boyfriend bought me t-shirts instead of a promise ring for Christmas!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - Its coming up to xmas and for a month my bf of 4 months has been asking me what I want for xmas. He suggested a budget of £50 and I agreed. I hinted I wanted him to get me a promise ring, he soon seemed to forget within a week and would say ahh ...

I'm no one's soul mate and it hurts that I have no personal life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - My mother passed away this year from cancer. She had been sick for 3 years and I had taken care of her. In the process, I hadn't given any consideration to my personal life or any of my own needs. Now that she's gone, I realize that I HAVE no ...

When your friend does something you think is wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - I have a problem. I have a friend who does things I feel are wrong, but when I discuss it with her she lies about it or says it is none of my business. But it bothers me so much, I have begun to ignore her. I feel guilty about it, but don't know ...

Negative wife but I love her. How can I better cope with her outlook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - Wow, where do I start? My wife and I have been married a long time, and its been challenging since the start. We both come from unhappy childhoods, and it's affected us in different ways. In her case, her father was a total prick and treated her ...

Should I get a new mentor?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5118 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I don't like an Pro NFL football player! I have always been a person who is somewhat of a joker. Have won a few stand-up comedy contests. I have met many people in my life, but have always really liked football (grew up with dad and brother...be...

Should I be flattered or offended by all the male attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 December 2010 (?) - Hello, this question is a little strange...but I appreciate any advice. I've always been awkward with men, boys and even my own father at the age of 13 . I was puffy, had pimples and was nerdy. I'm of eastern European decent... Now that I'm 19 I...

I was in love with a terminal cancer patient and she passed away...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - I need help with laying old ghosts to rest. I'm 17 years old, a senior in high school and for 4 months, I was engaged to 15 year old girl who had terminal Leukemia and CIPA (she couldn't feel any pain or sensation in her entire body 8 months ago, my ...

Is it time to let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3yrs now and the 1st 2yrs were great and problem free. By lately things have been really getting out of hand. We fight almost everyday and whenever i try calling our relationship off, he refuses, and begs me ...

If I am the one that got 'dumped', should I tell him that I still miss him and would like to try and start over?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - My ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago now. It wasn't a bad break up, and he was so wonderful to me while we dated. I still miss him terribly and find myself unable to move on. When we first started dating I knew I liked him a lot, but was a...

What did my boyfriend mean when he said he loved me "Because you need to feel like someone loves you." ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - A few days ago, my boyfriend and I were cuddling and he asked me why I love him. I answered "Because I think we are meant to be together." I asked him the same question and he said "Because you need to feel like someone loves you." I asked him what ...

How do I stop missing the relationship I once had?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - How do I stop missing the relationship I once had with a girl? And also how do I stop feeling so lonely all the time? I was truly happy with this girl over a year ago, I am over her, but not the relationship and I miss the feeling of love and the ...