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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Do you give up something good for the chance of something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend Michael for almost four years. Our relationship started off on a bad note; he had been my best friend for two years, but I had been dating another man the entire time. When my ex and I broke up, Michael was ther...

My father is furious over my new bf, I am 16, how do I cool him down??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Um... I need help quickly. I got my first boyfriend about a week ago. He's really sweet, caring, etc. (not going into detail, just know he is a nice guy.) And I told my mom, who was excited, and knew i liked the guy before he asked me out. Now my ...

Married, but I had a co-worker's baby, now what??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I've been together w my husband for 81/2 years. I got pressured into having sex with a co-worker. I was too afraid to tell him no. (why , because he got mad at me if I didn't). Stupid stupid I know. I have always had zero feelings for this guy. ...

My bf is abusive, what can I do to stop this??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Im only 16 my boyfriend treats me really bad he pushes me screams and does all kinds of things. I try to breakup with him but then im afraid because when i do then he gets more mad and hits me. He then feels sorry and wants me to not to be mad. I ...

Is there any help that I can offer??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My closest friend has a lot of baggage but has been married to his second wife for 14 years from that and has 3 children with her and 2 from a previous my friend has stepped out on the his second wife twice to be exact now it gets sticky here the ...

Should I be concerned with her thinking of other men during sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - In order to spice up our sex lives, my partner and I have been imagining others occasionally. It turns her on to hear me imagine she's another girl. Likewise, she is turned on by imagining other guys. Whilst it has worked a couple of times for me ...

Would my height be a problem "if" this happened??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - This question is purely based on IF I break up with "Dana". We are very happy and I have no intentions of ending our relationship. In the event that we do, there is this girl, "Marie". She's very obviously into me, and I wouldn't mind dating her (if ...

Why no contact from him on the weekends??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have been seeing this guy who owns his own business and is always crazy busy, he is a client of mine that we hit it off from the begining. We have a connection to each other that is so overwhelming to me it makes me weak everytime i think about ...

What is he really looking for??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a month now. We've been out 7 times and there's great chemistry, we have a million things and interests in common, and we are very comfortable around each other, which is great. I've already met his girl and guy best ...

My rant for common sense

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - I have this kind of horrid aversion to certain kinds of people. Let me explain. People with horrible self destructive habits or thoughts. I haven't lived a dandy life, okay? I grew up in the slums of a rough city, the Bronx with potheads and gan...

I'm growing up and reinventing myself! Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have always been shy, somewhat depressed, reserved etc this new year is going to be a turning point for me. I am going to become more confident and figure out who I am and what I want in life. I'm going to get out there and meat new people ...

What am I involved in with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Been involved for past 6-8 years with male partner with sex as the only reason for us meeting or communicating. He is more than willing to meet with me anytime at my request. This male is NOT married (confirmed)or in any other type of commited ...

Am I crazy or is my family really screwed up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Are my morals wrong in thinking that sisters shouldnt sleep with each others exs?? I'm the middle child of 3 sisters.I found out recently that my little sister slept with my ex fiance' and my older sister is currently sleeping with a guy i was ...

Why do men cheat with women who are not as attractive / accomplished / affectionate as their partners?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Why do (guy) cheaters cheat with women who are usually not as attractive, as accomplished or usually not as affectionate? ...

Does age compromise a marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - do you feel that age compromises a marriage when you have two older kids that you rately see but you do talk to from time to time if your wife is 33 and your daughter is 25 and your son is 21 and now there is a grandchild in the picture in which ...

Lesbian love for my sixth grade math teacher! HELP!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hey there! Well, I need help. I am in love with my sixth grade math teacher. Now, I know I know you're going to say, "Oh it's just a crush it's just a crush", but I know it's not. This is serious, very serious to the point where I'm obsessed with ...

Should I tell my ex everything?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Here's my angry little story. My ex and I have been broken up for a little over three months now, and I was deeply in love with her. We were in a long distance relationship and saw each other about once or twice every two months. And we were dating ...

Does anyone else do this foolishness to themselves or have been in a similar situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - This isn't really a question since I know that no one is a mind reader and I know that the situation I'm in can be resolved by me completely ending it. But, I just want to know if anyone out there has someone on their mind that just won't leave! ...

I tell you, I feel scared and trapped. I'm not sure if I really want to stay with this man.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - I am currently in a relationship of three years, only the last 6 months of which we have been living together, we have had a long distance relationship for almost 18 months. I love the guy and up until recently I have wanted to spend the rest of my ...

Will our marriage survive or should I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My husband is 44 and I 33 he has 2 kids from a previous marriage 20 and 25 of age. I have 3 children with him 14,13 and 7. I lost the first one, my husband was unfaithful and that produced 2 more kids in which one the results are not back yet we ...

Is there really such a thing as trust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Is there such a thing as trust? I had some things happen growing up that made me cautious of everyone in life. I wouldn't necessarily say I'm a suspicious person now, but all the same, I never really fully 'trust' someone. And now, i'm wonderi...

Anyone have any advice on how to kickstart a relationship after having a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly three years and we have a four month old daughter together. Ever since our baby was born my girlfriend has stopped showing me any form of affection (including sex). When I try to talk to her abou...

I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they have the real thing right in front of them.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend looks at porn all the time when he is not with me. I know because he has google chrome and it shows the most visited web pages when you go to open a new tab. It's sickening. I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they ...