New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in December, 2010, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (24), 2 (19), 3 (11), 4 (8), 5 (8), 6 (16), 7 (12), 8 (14), 9 (12), 10 (7),
11 (11), 12 (23), 13 (16), 14 (18), 15 (16), 16 (6), 17 (20), 18 (20), 19 (17), 20 (38),
21 (27), 22 (15), 23 (17), 24 (17), 25 (11), 26 (12), 27 (19), 28 (30), 29 (22), 30 (26),
31 (17),

Archived questions from: 1 December, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

(More questions from December, 2010)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Frustrated and confused ... What's missing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hello DearCupid... I am frustrated and confused. I am in love with a coworker. I've been stuck in a status quo for quite a while now. There's something missing but I don't know what it is or why it's there. To keep it simple: 1. We're both...

How should I approach her? Is she even interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5107 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I have a relationship question. For almost a month, I shared a house with guys and ladies. I happened to notice another girl, she's very beautiful in my opinion. She came down in the living room and in front of the mirror, she started combing ...

After having a little too much to drink one of my oldest friends and I ended up having sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Ok, so I'm a little confused about how to deal with a situation I have found myself in... I am currently studying in university, away from home as are the rest of my friends from home (we are right across England) and one of my friends invited us ...

Am I overreacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Why does my boyfriend do this? am i overeating? my boyfriend and i made plans to spend the day out together.. i rang him in the afternoon he told he was at at the bank and that he would be going to see his uncle who'd had a stroke and live 2ho...

Why would a guy be staring at my lips?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I am 26, married. I don't have an affair. I have a good life. BUT! Yes there is a but. There is this guy who always charmed me by his personality (not Just Looks). He knows my family for a couple of years. I really like him and I know that ...

Am I being too paranoid? Do I have good reasons to be paranoid?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for about a year now. We meet every so often in real life, but are now working on saving money to move in together as soon as his papers are done (long story). He lives in the US and I ...

I'm married but I want a female phone friend for just a friendship. Any suggestion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - hi.. I am 34 male. I am looking for a female to share the feelings on phone. I am trying for 6 months on the net but i am not succefull. I am married and my married life is soso. I strongly feel that there should be any female friend in my life. I ...

I'm in a Belle, Edward and Jacob situation! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - August 2nd 2008, I met a 24 year old man at my church as he came to preach/sing. (my EDWARD) NOTHING HAPPENED, just began to speak as friends over myspace and such. (he lives in FL and me In MD) Then he came a second time in November 24th or ...

His mom hates me and takes it out on our daughter! How can I end this drama?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Hi! I'm a single mother of a 2 and half yr old beautiful lil girl dealing with her father who has been cheating on me for 5 yrs with his other baby mama. Not only do I have to deal with that BUT I also gotta deal with the fact that HIS family ...

Any advice for keeping calm in interviews?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm new to this and I have a problem that no one seems to take seriously. I'm a temp at work and looking for another job before my contract runs out (that and commuting 20+ miles every day is terrible) I've been looking, sending...

Is my ex gay or in love with his best friend? I need to know so I can move on!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I believe my ex is gay..only been together a month and a half before he said he can't be with me at all he's not the one for me and how I need attention..Besides looking exactly like a girl in features with a lot of hair and being a model..through ...

Should I attempt to find this person? I have a strong desire to reconcile with her for what I did

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Twenty five years ago I had a brief affair (I was married at the time) with another woman that I cared for deeply. I was in the army and left for Germany without telling her I was leaving. (doing what I thought was the 'right' thing by my wife at ...

My ex wants me back, but I don't want him to think he can play with me when he wants! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - so i have been with this guy for 3 years and i love him so much. the thing is we havent been the same, he cheasted when we first started to date and ive forgave him for that but now i cant realy trust him, and on top of that last year i left him for ...

I really want sex again after breaking up with my ex, but I know I am not totally over him yet. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Okay so, my (first) boyfriend of 18 months just left me. He was the first and only person i've had sex with. But now i havent had sex for a couple of months and i really want to :S i'm worried i'll end up having sex with someone i don't know very ...

How can I be in two places at once?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - I am taking care of my father who is in his eighties and recently came out of the hospital. I am not so worried about taking time off from work, but I worry that my boyfriend is lonely (now two states away) and though he understands, I wonder if ...

My sex drive has gone through the roof! So much so that I am even considering an affair, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - Dear forum I am coming to you for help as I there is no one else to turn to. I am 39 year old woman happily married for 13 years and a son.I love my husband dearly.My husband is the only man I have ever been with.The last couple of years my...

He had a hard time from everyone in school when they found out I like him, what should I say to him to apologise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - i am at school and am gay, i never noticed this guy really before even though i have been at school with him for over 10 years, and then one day i was sat by him in class and suddenley realised i like him. it started off me just being interested and ...

Do I act on my feelings? I'm worried I might be stuck in the friend zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hi, Heres my story. I met this girl through mutual friends about a year ago. We became very close friends very quickly. Eventually began to feel very attracted too her, and she felt the same way. The problem was that at the time she was not into...

Stuck in the middle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

1 December 2010 (F) - If one if my really good friends is a hoe and I know it, am I wrong for not wanting to be her friend anymore? I consider myself a classy woman with morals and dignity. On NO account do I think I'm better than her!!!! No that I'm realizing how "out ...

Concrete, specific, short-term advice for coping with a breakup

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - It was a wonderful fairytale relationship. She was perfect and we were perfect together. Before our fifth anniversary, she met another guy, and one week later, she dumped me. I know it sounds a lot like many other stories around here, and I've r...

What happens when 2 very controlling people date each other

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 December 2010 (?) - Does anyone know what happens when 2 very controlling people date each other? What happens in that relationship? Do they stay together for long? What's readers experiences? Thanks! Any comments would be greatly appreciated!!!...

I cannot imagine that I would be desirable in bed even though I'm only 25!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - I'm a 25 year old male. I am heterosexual but have never slept or been with a relationship (outside of 'internet' messageboard 'experiments') with any woman. I have never detected any desire from the opposite gender nor have I genuinely desired ...

I don't know about this relationship...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Well I just got done talking to my gf and she seems to not want this relationship, she always changing pictures, and then she told me her dad does not want her to stay with me for even 2 weeks. Then she wants to blame me for getting offended...

Tis the season...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

1 December 2010 (M) - Hello Everyone. Here at Dear Cupid we receive many requests for help. Some are serious relationship problems, others aren't quite so serious. One such question is "What should I get my significant other for Christmas?" I intend to give you some ...