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writes:i have been in a relationship for a year and a half now, on and off and i want out of it as i feel that he is controlling me. the other week he told me that he didnt like my friends and that he would prefer that i wasn't friends with them, we argue constantly and i cant take it anymore. I have grown up listening to family members argue with one another and i dont want a relationship like this.I suffer with anxiety problems and i will worried extremely bad over small things and the arguement i have with him don't help and have caused me to turn to self-harm as a way of getting away from it all. i feel forced into it as the last time he asked me out i kept saying no but he was constantly at me asking me and he then had his friends and mine asked me so i gave in and said yes but i now feel forced into it. i've already attempted to leave but he told me if i did finish things then a lot of people will hate me, including my best friend who is practically my sister. i'm 15 years old and feel crap and depressed i shouldn't have to feel like this, what can i do to get out of this relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's oki, I'm glad to know that there is someone else like me who is in the same position, If u ever need any help, just ask. He 16 and am 15 but we are in the same year at school, our arguments are about all sort but they started because I made a mistake of leaving him for someone else who then cheated on me so I guess I got what I deserved, we are already on a break but it's not really helping, I'm scared to talk to him in case we argue and when I think about talking to him I get very nervous which isn't right. We recently had an argument and I nearly turned to self harm because I just felt crap. But anyway don't worry about your answer am glad to know I'm not on my own and there is people out there who are in the same situation
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's oki, I'm glad to know that there is someone else like me who is in the same position, If u ever need any help, just ask. He 16 and am 15 but we are in the same year at school, our arguments are about all sort but they started because I made a mistake of leaving him for someone else who then cheated on me so I guess I got what I deserved, we are already on a break but it's not really helping, I'm scared to talk to him in case we argue and when I think about talking to him I get very nervous which isn't right. We recently had an argument and I nearly turned to self harm because I just felt crap. But anyway don't worry about your answer am glad to know I'm not on my own and there is people out there who are in the same situation
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): damn it, girl. i am almost in the same position.. except, me and my bf have been together for seven months..:/ i know how you feel.. i love this guy, but we argue almost every day, and i thought of hurting myself to show him that i care.. our fights are mostly about him not trusting me.. But i never cheated on him, and i never thought of it... i too don't know what to do.. i know this isn't helpful, but i think it's good to know ur not the only one.. sorry for disturbance:/ uhm , i think you should try not going to meet him.. i really don't know what to say to you.. but, how old is he? you are very young and you should not be in an unhealthy relationship.. you should end it, tell him that you need a break..
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