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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Is she my friend or is she just screwing with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have a rather involved question. In high school I developed romantic feelings for my best friend who was also a female. At the time though I wasn't totally willing to admit to it, and I really tried to push those feelings away, and as such I ...

How can I get a boyfriend without being too forward? Please help I am so lonely.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

30 April 2008 (?) - I am 17 years old and i have never had a serious relationship with a boy. My friends tell me i am stunning and they don't understand why i can't get a boyfriend they think its because boys are intimidated by me wich i find hard to believe. I am ...

Oi vay or what really grinds my gears!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Oi Vay... " My bf won't love me unless i have perfect skin what foundation should i use??%$$%?^%%$" In the fatel words of a n00b.... " lolz " i'm sorry if this sounds like a Peter Griffin Rant about "What really grinds my gears" But WHY? ...

Is it weird to want children at 17?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I find myself really wanting to be a mother, but I'm seventeen. I have names picked out, even. Is it weird to want kids so badly at my age?...

True love...what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - what are some definitions of true love or just love in general because i know i love my boyfriend at least i think i do i need the opinions of the aunts and uncles because i want to compare some other definitions of true love from family members! ...

Why doesn't he call me his girlfriend? Is he ashamed of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a year and 7 months. We have the same interests (but not too many as to keep the relationship intersting), we talk for hours on the phone, he takes me to special places I've never been before, etc. I've hung out with his ...

My crushes are based on personality, not looks, is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Is it normal for me (17) to not have ANY feelings at all about guys who all my friends say are really fit? I really am not attracted to pysical appearence, If I get a crush on sombody it is because of his personality and unless he is dead ugly the...

Is it ok for a girl to ask a guy for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - What do guys think of girls who ask them for sex? I mean would they care if a girl initiated it on a second date? ...

Could there be something about me girls realize after awhile doesn't make for boyfriend material? How do I get out of the friend zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I seem to be stuck in "friend zone" with all of the girls I know. Most of the girls I've gotten to know in the last few months, though not all, I met through us being initially interested in one another, and then, after a few weeks things dry...

When a man fantasizes about doing sexual things with other women, does it mean that he loves his own woman less?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - When my husband or a man in a general fantasizes about doing sexual things with other women, does it mean that your husband loves/desires you less, or that he wishes you weren't around so he can fulfill his fantasies? Do men ever have fantasies ...

Why do people think first night sex is cheap and the girl lacks self respect?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Ok guys why do ppl think it is cheap and the girl lacks self respect if they have sex on the first night? I mean after going out on a date and lots of talking? What is the difference between waiting for the second date as some ppl think it is more ...

Would you still want her if the sex stopped completely?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Ok we are talk about how we are suppose to love the person who we are with for who they are and it is not all about sex? But now guys, if your girlfriend told you she did not want to sleep with you for a while how many months would you give h...

He is unappreciative and seems to call only when he needs me - why do I feel I can be so easily swayed by him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Ughhh ok I am so frustrated... it honestly is an emotional roller coaster with this guy.. I talked about him earlier and I honestly thought it would be over with him- what with him not calling and all- so last night I get a call from him saying he's ...

Can you just stop loving someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Is it possible to just stop loving someone??? can trust be regained for keeping a secret for a long time if the secret was not your fault??? ...

Should I risk friendship if there is the chance of a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Hi guys hope that your advices help me to take a decision. I really like my flatmate. I'm 30 and she is 29. We live together for 3 months now. We get along very well and I really enjoyed her company. I'm trying to decide if I tell her what I'm fee...

The teahcer says I will fail my medic school exam..and I'm scared he's right!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - i am in med school and today was my oral exam where i had to do some practical stuff in front of the respective teacher and then answer questions..i kinda screwed up in my oral exam and practical although i worked really really hard.i left out the ...

I like her so much that no matter how hard I try, I can't get her off my mind. Please advise me if you can.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I don't know what to do. I like this girl on a level that i have never felt before. She has a boyfriend and she knows i like her. We get along so well and she has told me that i am the only person that brings out the best in her. I once acce...

Why are my boyfriend's friends so harsh on women needing to fit a certain prototype? I don't understand.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

29 April 2008 (?) - I think I may have a problem with self-image. The thing is, of late, I've more been around more people who really take into account appearences before they get to know people. They are my boyfriend's friends and they are often discussing and deba...

I really want to get pregnant, and my boyfriend and I are moving in together for college next year...What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

29 April 2008 (?) - I just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. We don't use condoms, but we do use birth control pills...Well, I suppose that the correct wording would be that I use birth control pills for our pregnancy-free benefit. So, ...

I feel as though I have no real loyal friends, and I feel so alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I feel like, i don't have any real loyal friends. I've had one bestfriend all my life, literally, and she recently back stabbed me and really didn't care, she was the one person i could always count on. I have another i've been friends with sin...

Now he tells me that he used to like me, after all this time, so what's the deal now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I was once close to this guy I loved him even, but we were never boyfriend and girlfriend. We hooked up a couple of times, (I was younger). I just assumed it wasn't going anyhwere, so I never told him how I felt. I've always regretted making that...

Spending money on a website just for sex with a stranger...wouldn't that make me no better than a person who hires prostitutes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Do I spend money on a website just for sex with a stranger? I found a site, which is set up for people to share exactly what they're looking for (sex wise) and they can browse members who they match with. A short time after joining, I got a...

I'm just not attracted to women that are of the same race as me. I've tried, but it just doesn't work.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Hi, not sure where to start on this one. I don't know why but I'm just not attracted to women that are of the same race as me. I've tried but it just doesn't seem to work for me. Is this so wrong? I seem to be attracted to white girls. I have an A...

He's 40 years older than me, I'm 17 and I love him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Hi! I am just like this girl here too. I am attracted to a guy who is 40 years older than me, i am 17. He is attracted to me too but not for my body. We have alot in common, for example, i am into the era he grew up in which is the 1960s and alot...

Is it appropriate for a married man to be in touch with an ex from long before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - is it appropriate for a married man to still be calling an ex from 15 years ago?...

I come to this site and read everyone's problems... and I start to think pessimistically about my own situations!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Seriously, I love my gf and in my own little mental world I believe that she is faithful to me, and would love me unconditionally. I believe that we are soul mates and that her and I will forever live a happy life together. I believe that our ...

Why do guys dump a girl after a one night stand? Bad sex, lack of respect...?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Come on guys. Why do guys really dump a girl after a one night stand? Was it because the sex was bad, average? Or because you didn't respect her? If it was amazing and mind blowing and made you cum would you come back for more? Now be ...

Can casual sex end up as the real thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Has anyone had a FWB relationship which has ended up as the real thing?...

Losing her is the last thing I want to do so how do I stop pushing her away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - I have put my girlfriend through a lot with my insecurties and jealousy. She has lots of male friends which drives me crazy. They all look better than me and I know they aren't childish like me. It's like the slightest thing comes up and I get all ...

He feels so angry about his erectile dysfunction, I DO accept him the way he is but this problem has a huge psychological impact on him. How to support him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I would really appreciate some advice. I have been in a relationship for 4 months now with a great guy. He is 30. Problem is he has erectile dysfunction after an accident 8 years ago. This has had a huge psychological impact on him. I accept him the ...

Why do I always want a challenge and reject a man who shows interest in me? It's a pattern...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Why do I always want a challenge and reject a man who shows real interest in me? I seem to have a pattern of behavior in relationships. I always go after the "bad boys", the ones who for a variety of reasons, just aren't emotionally available. ...

Is it ok to put a golf ball in your girlfriend's vagina? Just throwing that out there....

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - is it ok to put a golf ball in you girlfriends vagina and the have sex with it still in there and when your done swollow it?...

My husband and my brother??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My husband recently admitted, after 24 years of marriage, that he's been having an affair with my gay brother for the past three years. They've just moved in together, leaving me with three kids (ages 16, 12 and 8) and all the bills to pay. I work...

I honestly don't want to do this course, but feel I can't let my parents down.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I don't know if this question is relevant to Dear Cupid. I'm just hoping i can get some good advice. I'm 19 in 2 weeks. Young to some, very old to me. I got my A-levels last year. Not amazing grades (through no fault of my own,i was off 3 months...

I'm really falling for this guy, but I don't know what his game is, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I have become friends with a 37yr old guy over the past ten months (i am a 33yr old single mum with a 4yr old son). We met on an internet dating site and he initiated the contact at first with a nice email. We continued converstaion for several week...

How can two people be sexually involved yet not have a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I am confused about something. Nowadays, it seems quite normal for a single man to have sex with a single woman without any need for a relationship. This is something I fundamentally cannot understand. How can someone - man or woman - actually...

I'm scared for me and my girlfriend, can you help, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Last December, I met this lady in a bar. We became friends and eventually started a relationship. A month ago, she disappeared without a trace. I figured she'd run off with someone else. Then two weeks ago, I got a letter from her saying that she ...

How to I get in contact with modelling agents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - well can someone tell me how to i get in contact with modelling agents or just something to do with glamour world......

Were the cold sores down to him and could he give me herpes??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hi, I had a relationship last year for 8 months, but i kept getting cold sores every couple of weeks around my mouth especially after lots of passionate kissing so i put it down to this and abit of beard burn! I have always been prone to getting ...

How can I get a visa for the USA?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Hello there can anyone help me?Well maybe my question is a out of this forum but i need some answers. I'm from a country that is out of Europe but i live in other coutry(in Eyrope). I want start a new life in a new country everything from ...

Will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - hi i've been going out with this girl for about 2months now and we'eve agreed to have sex together pretty soon. but will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured? is it any better having sex with a coloured...

Is there such a thing as soul mates/true love, and if so what sets it apart from other relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I'm hoping that some of the older and wiser people on here can shed some light on this for me: My last boyfriend I loved to pieces, would have done anything for. For three years I would have walked to the moon and back for that man. I find it ...

Who do you think passed on the infection? I feel so alone, trapped, scared and stupid...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 April 2008 (?) - I now have an STD. I feel soooo unlucky. Since my ex left me for the other women i tried to move on from him. I met someone at a bbq and 6 months later we slept together. The condom came off inside me (I dont think it fit him correctly). He also ...

I'm pregnant with his baby and didn't know he was married! I really need some help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I have fallen in love and had a 1 yr affair with a married 53 yr. old man that has been married for 18 years and has 2 kids (17 and 13yrs). I didn't know he was married until 6mo into the relationship. He claims that he is madly in love with me ...

My wife may be interested in sex with another man. We have talked about guidelines but suggestions are requested.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

27 April 2008 (?) - my wife like to watch porn movies as a part of our foreplay. Recently she has developed a likeing to a particular series called PLEASE BANG MY WIFE! I know she gets turned on very much while watching this . I would do anything she wanted and we are ...

What do you women see in men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - This is a thought that I as a young, single, male have had for ages. I've never been in a relationship before so forgive me if you find this ignorant. I am absolutely head over heels about the female, the way they behave, act, look etc. From m...

In medicine school and only one month until exams-how many hours a day study should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hey i am in medicine school and i have less than one month for my exams..i wanted to know how many hours per day of study is required???i tend to get distracted by phone,or just log on facebook for hours.how do i keep myself foucussed.....

Why this endless flirting that doesn't state his intentions openly? How can I make him be more direct?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Why love is so complicated?why guys act like women?Why they don't make the big step?What they are afraid? I'm in love with a man that God he is so smart,so charmy..and so mature! He started first flirting with me...he always looks at me secretly.....

My parents are constantly complaining. I'm doing everything properly, so why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - My parents stop me or complain constantly when i do things properly. I play the organ, cycle and run alot and most recently i have taken up karate. I stay active as a way to control my agression. However my parents constantly have a go saying i am c...

I became closed after my first relationship (with a manipulator) and it's affecting my current relation. How do I learn to GIVE again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I need help learning to love and give again... When I was younger (18) I was involved in a relationship with someone much older. It took 3 years to figure out that he was someone with big issues and my continous pouring of love into the relatio...