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Archived questions from: 20 April, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What determines if a guy replies to an email or not? (several questions inside)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - What determines whether a great guy friend replies back to a woman's email the same day. Whether he sees her email and then replies to her after 2 days. What is it when a guy sees 2 emails from a woman in 10 days and decides to reply to both of ...

How can he turn from the person I love into the cruelest, coldest man I've ever met over a fight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - how can a man tell you he wants to be with no one but you, through good times and bad times, the only person he wants to be is with you, and have all his friends react genuinely because this is the firs time they see him truly in love. and then have ...

My mate is withdrawing from me. Where does he stand with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - hiya, neeeeed some advice? ok, bin wid my boyf for 4-5 yrs, when i met him, i became friends with his childhood friend, me n my boyf hav ups and downs, but hes jus lovley! ok, back to his mate, his mate, over the years, has bcum my best mate...

He broke his promise but is acting like I've done something wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - hi all sorry this is kind of long but i have a question. my boyfriend got back from up north today and ever since hes been back its been 21 questions shouldnt it be the other way around because i didnt hear from him the whole time he was gone he c...

Why do I feel this need to have a baby?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - I want a baby. I don't even feel I need a husband or boyfriend. Also I don't need to hear about how hard they are to take care of, I have babysat twin boys since they were born for 3 years now, everyday all day since their parents have very ...

If they don't realise my depression, am I hiding it too well or are they rather self-centred?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - I'm so depressed, I don't think anyone around me i.e friends family actually realise how bad I am, the last few months. I dont want to tell them, coz I dont want to seem a burden but if they dont realise it, then am I hiding it well or are they too ...

Health problems and I don't want to see my doctor. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - hello to all, ok. im 36 at 16 had a mis-carriage(didnt know i was pregnant).hospital did urine said i was still pregnent. well i seen my fetus in the toilet so being 16 i thought it was twins and i only lost 1. well almost a year later no baby i a...

Due to her mixed signals, I'm not sure where I stand..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

20 April 2008 (M) - I have begun to grow very close to a female coworker of mine over these past several weeks. We talk a lot, spend time with each other outside of the office and genuinely seem to click. We have both been guilty of flirting with each other on a ...

Am I in the wrong for not letting my daughter see her father?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship. He is getting ready to leave in June with his other two kids elsewhere to where he can hold a decent job without getting let go because of his attitude. To make a long story short...

Fake tan gone wrong - how do I get it off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - heya i put this fake tan on yeah. its not a wash off tho, its one that wers off...it looked great last night bt thismorning it has gone to dead blothchy on knees, ankles, wrists and stuff.. how do i get it off before waiting for it to wear off..bec...

All these signs - does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - I asked him out 9 months ago. He’s shy and is in the popular group but is really focused on his studies.He said 2 days later that it was too close to exams but maybe after them thanx for asking. After summer he was showing loads of signs that he was ...

How can I help show my friend that relationships aren't all about sex?... (she's 14)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - I recently found out that one of my good friends is having sex and I think she is endangering herself. It turns out she had her first time when she was eleven and is still only fourteen. She always has a boyfriend, and has even broken up with some ...

What amount of time should we be spending with each other after a 3-year relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - i've been dating a man for going on 3 years. can u please tell me what you think after a 3 year relationship what amount of time a b/f and g/f should be spending with each other. also do men as they get older (50) have slumps with their sexual ...

What can I do to help myself in the short-term? I have lost all self-respect and feel emotionally violated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - This question may take a long time so please do not read it if you have a short attention span! I am not too sure where to start but here goes ... My mum had me when she was 16, my dad was 18 and he didn't want anything to do with me, she then had...

I thought he was out my league, how can I get himto ask me out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - I was at the gym and met this very handsome gentleman. We were very flirtatious everytime we saw each other but I knew nothing would come out of it because he is definately out of my league and I didn't think a guy like him would ask out a girl ...

How do I get over my hang-ups about being an active participant in sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm just looking for some advice and insight about some sticky bits in my relationship (our sticky bits? haha). We've been dating for half a year and only started sleeping together in the last two months. He's in his late 20s and older than m...

I'm married to great man, but I think I'm in love with a female co-worker.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - I'm a 41 yr old female, married with two children = 17 and 20. My daughter is a lesbian and my son is straight. Im not married with their father anymore but have re-married a great man, but I have a new job and I think I have fallen in love with ...

He treats me so good, but I don't know if we really belong together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - I'm twenty years old and have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now. We met while working with eachother and still do to this day. I have never been with a guy that treats me so good. He gives me everything i want and more the thing is im not ...

I'm 15 and filled with hate and regret because of my immaturity. How can I sort this all out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

20 April 2008 (M) - Hey again, I'm 15, and I am immature for my age. I hate myself for it. It fills me to the brim with regret and hate. It is making me a loner, I can't help it. I try to act my age but it seems impossible. Is there anything I can do to 'sort' this?...

Tweezing leaves sores but I get a shadow from shaving! Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - Hey Agony Aunts. I have a question about shaving. I shave my legs of course, and under my arms, but I also shave most of my pubic hair off. With my underarm and pubic hair, I can never seem to get the "shadow" of the hair to go away. It always ...

Will staying home on Saturday night leave me a spinster?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6064 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - I dated a guy (we'll call him P) for 2.5yrs, and he was/is the love of my life. P's everything I'm looking for, but things weren't right with us, I think, perhaps, b/c he just never loved me as much as I needed him to love me. We broke up six ...

He shakes uncontrollably....how should I respond?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - Hoping someone can help me with info here. I work with a guy I like very much. At break time at work when we are sitting around the table he will shake uncontrollably sometimes and I do not know how to respond. I would consider it rude to ask what ...

My friend was raped yesterday and I need some advice.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - My friend is 16 and she got raped yesterday. we were at a party with friends only and she drank quite a lot, and fell asleep. I then left the party because I had other responsiblity, and so I left her with my other friends, who i trusted. Today ...

I didn't pass the audition but my best friend still has a chance which makes me jealous! Should I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - Righty more problems for little old me =[ My best friend and i auditioned for the part of Maria in our school production of West Side Story, and i just got kicked out of the runnings for the part, and she is still in... I feel really quite jelous...