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Archived questions from: 28 April, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I feel as though I have no real loyal friends, and I feel so alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I feel like, i don't have any real loyal friends. I've had one bestfriend all my life, literally, and she recently back stabbed me and really didn't care, she was the one person i could always count on. I have another i've been friends with sin...

Now he tells me that he used to like me, after all this time, so what's the deal now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I was once close to this guy I loved him even, but we were never boyfriend and girlfriend. We hooked up a couple of times, (I was younger). I just assumed it wasn't going anyhwere, so I never told him how I felt. I've always regretted making that...

Spending money on a website just for sex with a stranger...wouldn't that make me no better than a person who hires prostitutes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Do I spend money on a website just for sex with a stranger? I found a site, which is set up for people to share exactly what they're looking for (sex wise) and they can browse members who they match with. A short time after joining, I got a...

I'm just not attracted to women that are of the same race as me. I've tried, but it just doesn't work.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Hi, not sure where to start on this one. I don't know why but I'm just not attracted to women that are of the same race as me. I've tried but it just doesn't seem to work for me. Is this so wrong? I seem to be attracted to white girls. I have an A...

He's 40 years older than me, I'm 17 and I love him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Hi! I am just like this girl here too. I am attracted to a guy who is 40 years older than me, i am 17. He is attracted to me too but not for my body. We have alot in common, for example, i am into the era he grew up in which is the 1960s and alot...

Is it appropriate for a married man to be in touch with an ex from long before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - is it appropriate for a married man to still be calling an ex from 15 years ago?...

I come to this site and read everyone's problems... and I start to think pessimistically about my own situations!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Seriously, I love my gf and in my own little mental world I believe that she is faithful to me, and would love me unconditionally. I believe that we are soul mates and that her and I will forever live a happy life together. I believe that our ...

Why do guys dump a girl after a one night stand? Bad sex, lack of respect...?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Come on guys. Why do guys really dump a girl after a one night stand? Was it because the sex was bad, average? Or because you didn't respect her? If it was amazing and mind blowing and made you cum would you come back for more? Now be ...

Can casual sex end up as the real thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Has anyone had a FWB relationship which has ended up as the real thing?...

Losing her is the last thing I want to do so how do I stop pushing her away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - I have put my girlfriend through a lot with my insecurties and jealousy. She has lots of male friends which drives me crazy. They all look better than me and I know they aren't childish like me. It's like the slightest thing comes up and I get all ...

He feels so angry about his erectile dysfunction, I DO accept him the way he is but this problem has a huge psychological impact on him. How to support him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I would really appreciate some advice. I have been in a relationship for 4 months now with a great guy. He is 30. Problem is he has erectile dysfunction after an accident 8 years ago. This has had a huge psychological impact on him. I accept him the ...

Why do I always want a challenge and reject a man who shows interest in me? It's a pattern...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Why do I always want a challenge and reject a man who shows real interest in me? I seem to have a pattern of behavior in relationships. I always go after the "bad boys", the ones who for a variety of reasons, just aren't emotionally available. ...

Is it ok to put a golf ball in your girlfriend's vagina? Just throwing that out there....

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - is it ok to put a golf ball in you girlfriends vagina and the have sex with it still in there and when your done swollow it?...

My husband and my brother??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My husband recently admitted, after 24 years of marriage, that he's been having an affair with my gay brother for the past three years. They've just moved in together, leaving me with three kids (ages 16, 12 and 8) and all the bills to pay. I work...

I honestly don't want to do this course, but feel I can't let my parents down.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I don't know if this question is relevant to Dear Cupid. I'm just hoping i can get some good advice. I'm 19 in 2 weeks. Young to some, very old to me. I got my A-levels last year. Not amazing grades (through no fault of my own,i was off 3 months...

I'm really falling for this guy, but I don't know what his game is, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I have become friends with a 37yr old guy over the past ten months (i am a 33yr old single mum with a 4yr old son). We met on an internet dating site and he initiated the contact at first with a nice email. We continued converstaion for several week...

How can two people be sexually involved yet not have a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I am confused about something. Nowadays, it seems quite normal for a single man to have sex with a single woman without any need for a relationship. This is something I fundamentally cannot understand. How can someone - man or woman - actually...

I'm scared for me and my girlfriend, can you help, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Last December, I met this lady in a bar. We became friends and eventually started a relationship. A month ago, she disappeared without a trace. I figured she'd run off with someone else. Then two weeks ago, I got a letter from her saying that she ...