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writes: I am 17 years old and i have never had a serious relationship with a boy. My friends tell me i am stunning and they don't understand why i can't get a boyfriend they think its because boys are intimidated by me wich i find hard to believe. I am going to be 18 soon and i am getting more and more worried about how inexperianced i am when it comes to having a sexual relationship. How can i get a boyfriend without being too forward???? Please help i am so lonely. Reply to this Question
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reader, Anonyman  +, writes (1 May 2008):
 On a personal level i wouldn't care about how much experience you have had previously, not every guy looks for that. I understand how the experience can play on the mind, i'm almost 20 and am in a similar position. So if you had someone like me, then maybe it would turn out less intimidating for them that you haven't been with lots of guys beforehand.
A good point made here was not to take the first option and rush into things becuase there are losers out there, and those guys could hurt you. Best thing to do is look at guys you know around places you go to, are they friendly? Try expanding on a friendship with them to see what type of person they turn out to be. Then if they are your type, try to move up.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (30 April 2008):
 well hun i have the same problem..they think we have a lot of attitude and we are loking for someone overly gorgeous they beleive that they wouldnt match to our standard....which isnt true cuz i beleive even we want someone to hang out with ..i beleive if they get intimidated by us then its their problem they are loosing on us..m hoping the right guy would come by though..well if u wana talk u can msg me..take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): You've got to be careful here honey, because there are men out there that aren't very good for you. They cheat, they lie, they hurt you. However, this is the minority (I hope)! So it's best not to rush into things. But if you're sure this is what you want, then spread your wings and fly. Go different places, do different things, and try not to make yourself look so intimidating if you can, when guys talk to you! Go out and have fun, meet new people.
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reader, tsurugi-ijin +, writes (30 April 2008):
 i know how this feels but if you fling your self into a relationship that is only because your worried about being inexperienced,
1.)You could end up with somewho is a big mistake for you, a guy who really is going to hurt you ect.
2.) you might regret going to far with some one you only met as offhand (if this makes sence )
The best way to go into a relationship is to know some one before hand, my best relationships were with friends where it grew to more. This always gives you the close feeling.
If you ever want to talk about this, send a message and i'll be happy to chat.
All the best, Jin
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