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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I didn't even ask him anything. He seems shy. What am I meant to conclude from the remark he made to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

30 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I go to a local university and a shy guy in my class is friendly with me, gets a bit nervous , stares , seems jealous when another guy talks to me. One day while casually talking to me he said " I treat you with higher standards than anyone else here ".. What does he mean and ... (77 words)

How do I get over my former friend's betrayal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

30 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, How do I get my lying, cheating friend out of my head?? I was conned and lied to by a girl I thought was a friend of mine just so she could take my ex (we were on a temporary break)! I totally trusted her but she ended up ruining my life, with her lies, pretendi... (239 words)

He broke up with me but I still have feelings for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

30 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I was seeing this guy who was very much into me since a month now. He used to tell me how much he loves me and how much he would want to work on our relationship. As I had exams, he told me that he would wait for me even if it means not talking to me for several mont... (168 words)

Giving it another chance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

30 November 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys, I'm in a bad situation at the moment and have never felt so hurt before. I've never really trusted my partner 100% and I was correct for that as I found that he had the intention of sleeping with somebody behind my back which is extremely hurtful but if I'm honest I... (317 words)

I think she might be cheating on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

30 November 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey i just like ask if im wrong in doing this. Me and my partner been together 13years. When we first met everything was great but now its so hard to just get a kiss or a cuddle from her for example. Last night she went to her pool game just like she does every tuesday ... (258 words)

How do I finally get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

30 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Agony Aunts I am a 26 year old man. I got married at 19 a large part of that was because we got pregnant. She was my first girlfriend. We were together 1 day short of 7 years, married a bit more than 5 of those. About 18 months ago she left me for a man she met at work.... (199 words)

I'm in love with my husband's cousin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

30 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for 6 months, but have been together for 9 years. Throughout our relationship my husband's cousin, we'll call him Tyler, has always been close with us. We have all always been great friends until he moved out of state. Just before our wedding ... (195 words)

My ex says she wants to be with me but won't leave her new boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

30 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - What should I do? I dated this girl for a long time , we broke up she got a new man and now has an baby she says she loved me and wants to start a family with me but I tell her when shes going to leave him and her answer is I dont know dont ask me that. What should I ... (80 words)

What can I do? I don't want to lose my relationship with my niece so soon

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

30 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I know this is advice about love but I am writing about how much I love my niece and I think it is unfair that my brother in-law's parents get to see her on Christmas and I don't get to see her during Christmas at all. I help take care of her and I play with her, when I a... (76 words)

My girlfriend made a online dating profile and when I confronted her she lied. Where to now, with this relationship??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

29 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - So I found out my girlfriend had made a online dating profile and when I confronted her she lied straight to my face about it and after a little while she finally admitted she made it. When I asked her why she made it she told me she was bored and was only on it for half hou... (173 words)

He's playing with my head! What more can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

29 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm after so advise,I'm very confused I was seeing this guy since 2010 with him moving in with me, anyway 2013 he moved to another place out of town with me saying I think he had met someone else,we carried on speaking never saw each other tho, then September 2015 he ... (304 words)

How do I deal with my controlling dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

29 November 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I feel like my dad is very controlling and it's uncomfortable for me being that I'm a 19 year old woman. He is someone who doesn't like people and has something negative to say about everything. He works from home so he is ALWAYS home and knows all of my business. ... (193 words)

Met a guy on Tinder. Was he just after a hook-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - So I matched with a man on tinder Who was visiting my city for a week... I was surprised that I even went out with him bc I want a real relationship but he seemed really interesting. he actually asked me to coffee so wasn't really a hook up sitch.. we met up and We both fel... (186 words)

I'm cheating but there's only one life

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 November 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a guy who is happily married in a long term relationship. While sex can sometimes be an issue between us- she has a very low sex drive- and it's often a discussion/argument that we have, it's not so bad that I would consider ending the marriage. But, I'm in the early sta... (425 words)

Is she in the wrong more than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 November 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with C----- for 2 years, engaged for 5 month. Pretty solid relationship, love her to pieces but our communication is off, she yells at/threatens me to get her point across and I just plain ignore her to spite her. This situation is a huge example of that. For ... (329 words)

Is my online boyfriend hiding something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - i got this online boyfriend we never seen each other yet been in a relationship nearly 2months we always video call, phone call and chat. we exchange password before in instagram. 1st he trusted me his instagram and i get jealous to the girl he talking to it and he change hes ... (135 words)

I am insecure about how my body looks, its affecting my sex life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

29 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, and thanks for reading. I am very apprehensive and insecure when I have sex with my boyfriend. I wish I had the confidence to initiate but everytime I build myself up to initiate, I clam up. I find myself to be beautiful and I love my body but I am not secure with the ... (86 words)

Should I ask her to study with me .... I really like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 November 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - So in my Art History class there is this girl I find very attractive. Before class we usually have good small talk. Now the semester is coming close to an end and our final exam is coming up. I was thinking of asking her to study so I can spend more time outside of class with ... (91 words)

I'd like to ask her out, should I text her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Looking for advice on a woman I just met recently and really like. Text her last night and she replied a few times but didn't reply since last night then. How long should I wait to text her again or should I not text her at all if she doesn't text me back?... (53 words)

I'm 16, girlfriend is 14 ... I am thinking of breaking up because we cant find anywhere private!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

29 November 2016 (M)

age 22-25 - Am a 16 year old teenager in High School. Am currently a junior dating my 14 year old freshman girlfriend. We've been together 2 months and its been working out. Me and her have kissed before a couple of times, but never making out. The reason being is that I have no where ... (159 words)

I asked him to remove my pics, he said he did, but he hasn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

28 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Good day, So I've been friends with a guy for roughly a yr plus. He is cool. We talk relationships, future jobs etc. I like our friendship but he wants more and I could tell because he does these things like always tagging me in stuff, texting me everyday and wanting to see m... (224 words)

He says he is too old for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

28 November 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, this I been talk to on okcupid he is very nice guy hes59 and I'm 47 we been talk over a month he ask me if move down here if I go out with him I say yes and now he's say he's to old for me but he still wants to move down here he ask me if their a place down here I ... (129 words)

Why was he being so open if all he wanted from me was sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

28 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, I meet this guy online February 2016. We meet up in March. We both have 9yr old girls, have stuff in common. We hit it off staright away. We meet up every weekend...days out with our children. By April it got very intease, we were in a relationship rea... (486 words)

They're saying I'm too harsh with her little brother who has autism! Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

28 November 2016 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello everyone! I need a hand with something concerning my girlfriend's autistic little brother. So this kid is great, I love him to death I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 months and love her very much, I'd do anything for her. Her younger brother has auti... (418 words)

My head is turning! how do stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

28 November 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for over 3 years. Our relationship has always been a bit turbulent. We have had issues as all relationships will suffer through from time to time, but we have always stuck it out and gotten through. We lived together for 2 years and are now livi... (281 words)

I am his great big secret!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

28 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy 16 years older than me for the last 6 months. He has been divorced twice and have 3 teenage/young adult children with his first wife and a 3 yr old daughter with the second. He divorced 18 months ago. I have 2 teenagers and divorced 7 years ago. Thus ... (474 words)

Should I feel guilty that I seen someone else while we were broken up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

28 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a loving relationship with someone who I've been with for 3 years and we are now talking about marriage. However, in that three years, we've broken up twice... once for 3 weeks the other for 3 months, both my choice because I felt he wasn't taking it seriou... (328 words)

My husband is divorcing me we have a severly disabled son

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

28 November 2016 (F)

age - Me and my husband have been married for 12 years. We have a severly disabled son, he is autistic, with learning difficulties and he cannot speak. he is very aggressive at the moment. Friday he pulled me onto the floor by my hair and head butted me. He doesnot realise what he is ... (300 words)

My boyfriend makes me feel so bad about myself

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

28 November 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know what to do, ive been with my boyfriend for about a year now and we've lived together for about 5 months, he's mostly a really nice guy, but he doesn't show me any emotional support whatsoever, i have told him i need him to emotionally support me, but when ever i ... (248 words)

We are both still married. Should I get involved with my married friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

28 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, Over the past few years, I have run into a lot of issues with my husband and have discovered that the large bulk of our problems stem from some physical and mental health issues which cannot really go away. This has taken a toll on our marriage. We hav... (367 words)

He told me that he is falling in love with me but is he just trying to get into my pants?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

27 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends and getting to know this guy for a month now. We hang out and he messages me everyday through text without fail. So two days ago we were texting because both of us were about to go to bed, before he says goodnight he says he is falling in love with me. It... (210 words)

Am I reading too much into what my boyfriend said?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

27 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I would appreciate some insight from the following...I am questioning whether or not I am reading too much into it or if it is indeed something I should be concerned about. A few evenings ago, my boyfriend of a year and I were having some cocktails at home and discussing a... (276 words)

I thought I was getting over her until I learned she was seeing someone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

27 November 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - How long does it take to get over someone if you've been seeing each other for six + years? We were never married but we were carrying on a fun and exciting relationship with affection galore! She began pulling away the last year or so and decided that she wasn't happy, so... (320 words)

How do I accept compliments with confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

27 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, This is a little embarrassing for me to admit. I head a team of three people at work and I am a bit of a shy and awkward kind of person. Whenever we mess up I know to behave like I'm sorry. I just take it on the chin, accept responsibility, say I'm sorry and wo... (146 words)

My girlfriend said I was 'mushy'

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

27 November 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with a new girl for a few months. Tonight we were drinking a little bit and I told her how much I enjoyed being with her. She asked me if I was getting mushy and I told her that I was and that she needed to cope with it. I did tell her a few "mushy" things a... (197 words)

How do I convince my girlfriend to indulge my ballbusting fetish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

27 November 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a girl, that I love, for about six months. I also love ballbusting, and the problem is that she doesn't want to do it anymore. If you don't know what it is, just Google it. One session usually lasts about 30-60 minutes, depending how hard the kicks/punches ar... (67 words)

Is it a bad idea to hook up with a single mother?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

27 November 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently I broke up with my girlfriend and now I'm single. I know it's too early to hang out with other women but there is this girl she's 09/10 rating hot brunette, younger, she used to be my coworker but she got pregnant, got married and now she's divorced, I hung out with ... (262 words)

Is she jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

27 November 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello. First of all, I have a friend and she is a lesbian. We still hang out with each other. I kind of like her but I didn't show it to her cause I don't want to break our friendship. One day, when she surprisingly visited me in my house, we hang out again like there is no to... (323 words)

Should I just be brave and go for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

27 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy. We've only met twice but we speak practically every day. Lately, he's not spoken as much and I feel we are drifting apart. He knows how I feel and he says he likes me too. I don't want to rush things but I feel I'm putting things on hold while wai... (102 words)

I just want things back to normal between us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

27 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you make a situation less awkward? About 3 months ago I got with a colleague and in short, he was an idiot about things and very misleading. He's clearly in the wrong and has never apologised or addressed the situation, but that's besides the point. I was hurt because... (203 words)

Uncertain if he's interested

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

27 November 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I became interested in my friends best friend and I didn't talk to him much because he was always hanging around my friend. We were both getting pretty drunk and told my friend I was interested in him and I think he told him that and he started holding my hand, buying me drinks ... (275 words)

Will he ever think of me more than just a hook up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

27 November 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy on tinder and we got on really well. The same night I met him on tinder we met in person and we hooked up. We have hooked up 3 times in the past 6 days. After every time we hook up we would have long and sometimes feel conversations about ourselves and family. We ... (141 words)

Why don't my parents listen to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

27 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Just had my retired parents(who live interstate) hang up a phone call in my ear as I criticised them for not listening,(which they dont!)? Im a shift worker and am only available to talk on phone certain times, they do not get this! and feel at times I dont call them, Untru... (285 words)

Is this guy straight or bi

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

26 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused and a little jealous..... there's this guy I started talking to at the gym, his in better shape but than me (so his not admiring my body prior) he used to stare at me a lot then we started talking... turns out we have loads in common.... at first we'd tal... (299 words)

Questions about dating and how women react if they don't want to date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

26 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies, this question is for you. You guys know when a guy is interested in you, right? I mean a guy whom you've know only for a short while. Do you get the feeling that he's about to ask you out before he does it? If you're not interested romantically, what would the situat... (97 words)

I'm too shy to get close to him. How do I get him to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

26 November 2016 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a crush on a guy a year older than me but I can't get his attention, so I found out a lot of info about him like his full name, birthday, classes, siblings, previous schools and his Facebook, despite the fact that we've only talked once. I just hate that I know all this ... (75 words)

Why did this very shy guy come over and touch me and talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

26 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this shy guy who flirts with me suddenly came right besides me and put his hands on my shoulder and said how are you to me. ..I was shocked because he is very shy guy and never touches any other female at all and also he gets nervous around me a lot so that's why I was ... (78 words)

Do I wait for him to come round? Or do I let go?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

26 November 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Could do with some insight here into my situation. I call it a situation because it is not nor never has been a relationship. and my female friends and male friends are offering conflicting advice. so I really am lost. I have a long-term friend who I've known for almost... (414 words)

I think I deserve a straight answer

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

26 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked this girl out recently who I actually thought liked me back, given all the flirting, but as soon as I asked if she wanted to go out, she shrugged her shoulders and said, “I don’t know, I have to think about it, can I get back to you?” What does it mean she will get... (139 words)

Can't fathom the girl

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

26 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend's brother's girlfriend often pops up on Facebook and talks to me, asking questions and generally being friendly. However, in person, she is very cold. I have only met her once for a week as she lives in the USA and after a year of chatting on Facebook every so ... (215 words)