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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will he ever take things to the next level and ask me to hang out outside of work? Or is he just being flirty/nice to me and I'm reading his signals wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

1 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - So there's a guy I work with who over the past 3 months has increased his talking to me. I do like him and think he's cute but since it's an office setting I'm confused. He will only try to have a conversation with me when no ones really around and is always asking me ... (309 words)

Should I tell him I'm thinking of changing jobs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

1 November 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts/Unclesr Cutting a long story short. I met a guy at work. He started flirting. It was a while before I noticed him. I started flirting back then he went cold. I think because I was coming on to him too quickly as I was starting to fancy him. He is keeping every... (119 words)

Does my mom really love me or am I just a pawn for her? And why is she so materialistic when it comes to the question of my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

1 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to put this. Some background: I left my bf on my parents advise because he's not a good guy. I realised that I'm in a bad relationship and broke up. Now, my parents talk about arranged marriage on and off. I'm okay with meeting guys my parents like to ... (596 words)

Should I take the medication my doctor prescribed? I lost my parents and am depressed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

1 November 2016 (F)

- It's a long time since I came on here, but in the past I have always been given good advice so here goes. 6 years ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer. A couple of operations and some treatment, and I got the all clear late last year. Dad had skin cancer quite bad, but he w... (185 words)

She says she commitment problems but I either need her to commit or move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

1 November 2016 (M)

age - This is a difficult one – at least for me. I ask you to please give my question due consideration before giving an answer. My girlfriend and I have been together nearly six years. I am 68 and she is 50. I am younger than my years. We have both suffered from depressi... (337 words)

How do I force myself to want to care?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

1 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I wanna know more about how to be more sociable. I am tired of being the quiet, minding his own business guy. I was a very quiet kid and am a quiet adult today. The problem is not fear or lack of confidence. Infact, in my head, I'm the smartest, coolest guy there is... (97 words)

Will I ever be more than just a back up girl for him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

1 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy who I've known for almost 7 years now and he lives 4 hours away.The thing is ,we have been on and off all this time.He is the one who leaves because the distance is too hard for him ..only to return months later when he misses me then once he has me,he leaves again ... (236 words)

Did his remark mean if I gain weight he won't be interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

1 November 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Last year September my mother's sister who was very kind to everyone passed away. Her death left most of us stressed out because of that I gained a lot of weight and stopped looking after myself. I was also going through a terrible breakup with my then boyfriend who was abusive ... (279 words)

Is he holding back because I hurt him? Or punishing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

1 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I met an Irish guy doing the regional work in Aus and became close. While he went on a road trip for a few weeks,I met someone else,which only ended up as a fling, and had to tell him when he returned before Christmas. He was very hurt and bitter. But eventually got over it and ... (398 words)

How do I stop being obsessive about my boyfriend's ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

1 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I hope I don't get judged too harshly for this question because it's extremely shallow and I have been through a lot worse before. But I'm struggling with extreme jealousy that I can't stop feeling. I currently work in a weird kind of job where I'm by myself in a building al... (319 words)

How do I keep my feelings for him from distracting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

1 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this guy who studies in another university in the same country. I met him on a casual occation when i went to visit my friend in that city. We did not talk a lot. I do not even have his phone number. He never showed any flirty moves on me and neither did i. We have been ... (151 words)

Do these behavioral patterns show red flags?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

1 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I pay attention to men's patterns? I'm 31 year old woman that has not had any luck in love; I don't usually date a lot so when men approach me and ask me out 9 out of 10 times I say yes( I don't go on dating site because I don't feel comfortable using them) so I rely on ... (329 words)

Am I overly anxious or is this a bad sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2971 days ago

1 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am visiting the guy I'm dating very soon, but I am really starting to question if all this effort is worth it. I really care for him, but the feeling of me being more into him is something that won't go away. I would hardly go a day w/out texting someone I care about, ... (353 words)