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writes:Ladies, this question is for you.You guys know when a guy is interested in you, right? I mean a guy whom you've know only for a short while. Do you get the feeling that he's about to ask you out before he does it? If you're not interested romantically, what would the situation be like around him after you've said no? Would you find it weird to be around him? What if you had to interact with him quite regularly for other reasons? How would you want the guy to behave around you? Reply to this Question
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reader, Purple love  +, writes (1 December 2016):
Yes, we do know when a guy is interested in us. Yes.
A little wired to me, because I now know he likes and I will feel quite bad if I don't like him back. If I have to interact with him, then I will try to keep it friendly and not too wired or awkward. Same refers to the guy, friendly and he shouldn't stare at me too often or continuously tell me how much he loves me, especially if I've told him I don't feel the same way.
Hope it's helps. Good Luck!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 November 2016):
 I can't say I do know when a man is interested, unless he is sending clear signals sometimes I wouldn't have a clue. If I was not interested I would simply tell him No Thanks. Afterwards probably would be awkward depending on how he took the answer. I would still be polite to him but also I would be careful not to be to friendly in case he thought I was interested. If he accepted that I was not interested and was respectful then I would not mind having to interact with him. As long as he knew where he stood.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 November 2016):
 I don't always have a feeling he will ask me out, no. That really depends on how good that guy is at sending out signals. Women aren't mind readers, we only know what we are being shown and told. If I was asked out and said no, I would like the man to behave respectfully and not get hung up on it. I have met so many men that get angry, or behave childish when they are rejected. As if I owed them a date, or more. So many that start acting nasty towards me, or say bad things to me, or about me, if I don't want to date them. Such things are so low and completely a waste. A woman saying no is not an insult. It's a matter of fact. She's not romantically interested, and she's entitled to NOT be romantically interested in every man that walks on earth. So, as long as the man is adult in his head, and respects that no means no, it's all good.
If he just stop asking, not pester her about it, but acts respectfully and NORMAL, then that would be great. Just a shame so many men get resentful when rejected.
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