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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I be worried he speak to his ex'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

4 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 30 and my be is 48 we have been together 18 months. Everything is magical. However he still speaks to ibis ex wife. They were together over 20 years have no kids but they talk on the phone text etc. He says he doesn't have feelings and she is married to another guy. I'm ... (92 words)

My landlady still hasn't given me a lease to sign but is charging me extra rent for each time my boyfriend stays over. How do I handle this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

4 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. Never been in this situation before and could really use a second opinion or two. I moved into a houseshare with a live-in landlady at the beginning of last month. I started off renting a single room, for which my landlady had stipulated no overnight guests... (257 words)

How can I tell my wife that her sister has started to appear in my fantasies?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

4 November 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I are generally very open with eachother about our fantasies. They usually just come out during intimacy. Lately, however, I've been having a fantasy that I want to be a bit more subtle when I tell her about it. My new fantasies have evolved her older sister. I ... (118 words)

My boyfriend is in contact with a girl that likes him, do I confront him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

4 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a new boyfriend but we haven't known each other for years(2 months) Everything is fantastic. Not moving too fast, we haven't had sex yet, but have done other smaller things. Basically its on a good emotional level too, we are very open with communication too. When we... (532 words)

Ex has started dating an 18 year old guy! How do I deal with this shocking news?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

4 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend (3 year relationship, broke up with me 6 weeks ago due to him feeling neglected due to my depression and OCD) told me this week that he is now in a relationship with an 18 year old boy... My ex and I are both 27....... One week after our break up my ex met him... (207 words)

I don't want to be her puppy! How do I deal with her ego?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

4 November 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex has an ego and wont talk to me. I said some hurtful things after she cornered me like a wounded animal. I shouldnt have said such targetted hurtful things but she was relentless at my weakest point (i am usually the rock for everyone) and i was working as hard as i could. ... (199 words)

Is this normal? Should I avoid any contact sexually with men if I'm not gay or bi?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

4 November 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a heterosexual male and is not sexualy attracted to men. However I do get turned on when I see a male erection. I fantasise on occasions about performing felatio and mutual masturbation with guys. I have also participated in mutual masturbation with male freinds. Last week ... (85 words)

Is this FWB thing wrong or should my friends not judge?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

4 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I'm having a sort of fling with a guy I work with who is 20 years older then me but I feel dirty and a little bit ashamed after my friends started saying he was a pervert and that it was wrong. I'm 25, he is 46. He's divorced and I've been single since the... (344 words)

Should I accept the new job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

4 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I work as a preschool teacher making 15/hr. Recently I graduated with a Bachelor's in my field of choice and began job hunting. The basic living wage (enough to afford a one bedroom) is 25/hr. But I applied for a job (working with autistic children, which ... (155 words)

Why won't he delete his profile on the dating site?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

4 November 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all, Could someone good kind people give their option please on this matter, is it an issue or it that I've got the issue, and I'm being stupid. Please tell me if I am. I'm gay, I met this wonderful guy 6 months ago, older than me, but that's my preference... Bottom ... (424 words)

My friend will not stop talking about her sex life !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

4 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Firstly, i'm an introvert, so I tend to get annoyed pretty fast with someone's presence if they're always around. Secondly I tend to bottle up how I feel for the sake of being polite and swallow my dislike in order to put the other person's comfort before mine, until what... (181 words)