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Archived questions from: 22 November, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need to feel confident again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

22 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just come out of a lesson long term relationship(8 years). My ex is older than me by 15 years and we barely ever had sex, or even kissed for that matter! We certainly never kissed with tongues! My problem is that I have lost all confidence. Before we met I felt young... (120 words)

Did he ask me out or was it just a joke?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I got asked out today, or at least I think so. So I want to ask you guys on here if you think he said it as a joke, or meant business. We work at the same building, but not the same job/office. So we typically meet and just talk for 5-10 minutes. I am on an online dating si... (289 words)

How do I get my ex to meet up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get my ex to ask to meet up, and how do I know if there is any hope of being more than friends? My ex and I broke up 2 months ago, we were together for four months, and we havnt spoken since the breakup. . So I accidentally emailed him on Sunday (he and my moms emai... (161 words)

How do I deal with my uncaring in-laws over the holidays?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 November 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Just to spare you the medical details: A few weeks ago, out of nowhere my elderly mom had to be hospitalized for a medical emergency. After 5 days she was released to a nursing home, but on Hospice. She Can no longer walk nor hold a conversation, though she does recognize me ... (395 words)

I'm not sure of the meaning behind what my girlfriend's cousin is writing to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I am English, and my girlfriend is originally Polish. We went over to Poland in July to meet her family. She introduced me to her second cousin who is our age, who was pretty good at English. At first she said she was shy talking English and would talk to me more after having ... (225 words)

The professor and the student...are we bad for having sexy fun?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not going to lie and say I regret this or that this is anything serious. He works at my university as a professor, and yes i am a student there. However, he is in a completely different department to me. He is 38 I am 22 and our university doesn't have any issu... (299 words)

My boyfriend gets bullied and walked over by his family, and I don't know what I can do to help him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

22 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend (27) and I have been together for 3 months, and only recently I'm starting to see how he gets treated by his family. He is the kind of guy who is too nice, the one who will do whatever he can to not upset or offend anybody, and because of his good nature, people ... (443 words)

How can I help myself? I am so confused. Our relationship has problems, but I do love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

22 November 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I think my relationship is over.... I found out that my man is registered with a site called ^^^chat. I confronted him 6 months later, he swore on his mum's life and his children from previous marriage that it was not him. few months later in an argument he said so what if ... (515 words)

Why would he? Potential date seems too much in a hurry to meet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

22 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all . Ive started online dating a month ago and been talking to a guy at the beginning he took his time getting to know me but suddenly he seems to want to meet fast like the world is going to end and he has to cram it in . Im careful and take some things with a pinch of... (188 words)

Do I confront her about her ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 November 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I've been seeing this girl for about a month. We were set up through a mutual friend. I've grown to really like this girl. But when we first got together she told me she had went about with a guy who was a bit of a bad boy. They had just split ... (311 words)

Did I give this much older man the wrong signals by giving him my phone number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I made a bad mistake. I have been in the US for few years but don't know much about dating as I moved here with my ex husband.I got divorce 2 years ago and I have never dated here and no interest to do so even I get lots of attention. Here is the problem I has been seeing t... (357 words)

If you haven't kissed in a long time is it sort of weird to kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

22 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP! Please. I 'm going on a second date with a guy, and I'm 22 and although I've kissed people in the past it's been a while since I've kissed someone - more than a year- ( let alone sex haha I think I'm a virgin again, no seriously, anything bigger than a finger is a ... (321 words)

Why does my g/f want to go to planned parenthood to get checked out if she's a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) age 22-25 - My girlfriend and me are both 15. She said she got her girl thing at 12 but she wants to go to planned parenthood to get looked at. Even her East Orthodox mama said no since she's a virgin and doesn't have to. I'm Pentecostal and I agree with her mama. Even though I don't ... (106 words)