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writes:So in my Art History class there is this girl I find very attractive. Before class we usually have good small talk. Now the semester is coming close to an end and our final exam is coming up. I was thinking of asking her to study so I can spend more time outside of class with her. I'm not sure how she sees me, but is there anyway to get her to see me as dating material or if she hasn't shown any interest there's no hope. Please let me know! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2016):
Hi, from reading your post I can tell that you're feeling tense about this situation. You want to spend more time with this girl, but you don't know how to approach the situation. Having feelings for someone can be tricky, especially when you're unsure if it is returned. Sometimes in life you have to let love take its own course, and see it blossom naturally. You're not alone in this situation as many of us have been in the same situation. Many people will pretend like they have love all sussed out, but most of the time they're just faking it to make it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2016): Yeah studying is kind of ambiguous but I think if you ask her to do something more fun with you then she will interpret that as asking her out and you'll get a better idea of whether she likes you back or not. Nothing too cheesy just something like dinner, ice skating etc. Don't procrastinate. Good luck!
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (29 November 2016):
 Surely you can think of something more imaginative than study. Take a night off. Take her for a pizza. What is in your area that you might do together?
I think furtive fumbling disguised as study is a bit juvenile. I can see you are trying work something out, but you can do better.
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