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Archived questions from: 13 November, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I read my sister's old life planning journals and I am shocked at what I found!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - My sister graduated university last june and as a result had a whole box of old stationary/notepads in her room at home which my mum said I could borrow since she left them behind when she moved out (she's currently renting a flat for a year as thats how long her job is before ... (296 words)

Can we save things? Or do I just need to give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) age 30-35 - I have a confession. I ruined my family. I talked to other guys, maybe 3 at the most. Things weren't sexual but sometimes they were flirty. One man in particular was very committed to me. I know what I've done wrong. I'm know I'm a despicable human. While I talked to other ... (438 words)

I'm trying to act like his actions didn't bother me but I just can't get over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - At the moment, I have feelings for someone who has basically led me on a bit and messed me about and obviously doesn't reciprocate. I have to see him every day at work and I am trying to simultaneously stay away from him and act civilly if I have to. I know he's an idiot so I ... (163 words)

I feel anxious all the time about my boyfriend and our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I kinda love and hate my boyfriend. We have been together for years and he is ready to marry me. I am sure he wouldnt left me. He is kind of man who will sacrifice physically to save me from any danger. He wont left me behind for sure. He is a hardworker. He has a strong dri... (644 words)

What do I do about this crush on my neighbor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I moved into my new house in March on a new-build park. On the day of moving in a guy walked past with his dog and stopped to chat to my Dad who was stood outside at the time. My dad called me from the house to come and say hello. I said Hi and asked if he lived next door. He ... (351 words)

Should men in committed relationships be following bikini models on Instagram?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I wanted to know if it's right for a man in a relationship to have Instagram followers ( him following women that are models on Instagram) lately I noticed that a lot of my male friends who are married or in relationships are always folling these unknown modes on Instagram - ... (223 words)

Can I ever get my thoughts under control?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanted to write this to see if anyone has had any success in dealing with this or if there is no hope for me to resolve my issues. I have been in therapy and with medication since I was young I'm 31 now. I was diagnosed with OCD at 12. The last two years my OCD and paranoia ... (246 words)

Six years and no proposal; we've lived together for two. Is he stringing me along?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my partner of 6 years. A few years into the relationship he suggested we bought a house together (at the time he had just finished his service in the military, and I was finishing University - he had saved up a house deposit during his time in the military). Well in ... (628 words)

I am worried about my family's reaction when they see my test results.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there... So a little about me.. I recently moved to a different school and in a different country and Im turning 18 very soon.. So recently, I flew home to visit my parents even though I had tests coming up. And my holiday was just a week, the problem is I did study and ... (337 words)

I always find the wrong guy! I'm sick of being single.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I seem to have no luck with finding the right guy... Recently met a new guy on a dating site. We spoke for a few days then he asked me on a date. I accepted and we arranged a day. However, as the day got nearer, he said he had to work so we couldn't meet. On the Sunday o... (225 words)

Stuck in a cycle and unable to initiate the conversation ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 55, my partner is 64. We have been together 11 years. We got together immediately after I left my previous relationship, we were friends before I left my relationship, which went wrong for many reasons. She initiated the relationship, and at the time I remember feeling it ... (617 words)

My friend thought I was in pornographic pictures.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: I believe the asker has a male friend who is close like a brother. They are both married. Her friend ignored her for two weeks, and when she insisted he say why he sent by text pornographic images which he believes to be her. He is asking to be forgiven. Im cla... (185 words)

How do I make my husband notice me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for just over a year and together for 4 and I need help trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. My husband spends all his spare time with his friends. He hangs out with them every single day. I hang out with my friends maybe once a week the ... (115 words)

My boyfriend is gaslighting me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone give me some advice on "gaslighting" please?its a technique used by narcissists etc to make people doubt their sanity!I'm having a lot of problems with my boyfriend of 2 years...the main problem is that hes not had sex with me for 6 months now+its eroding my self ... (137 words)

I really want this girl. How can I get her interested in me? What do I need to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (M)

age 22-25 - Alright there's the same girl from my last question and I've been chasing her for the past two months now. I asked her if she liked me the same way I liked her or not because I couldn't tell and not even her friends at school knew if she liked me or not. When I asked her she ... (779 words)