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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What kind of game is my friend playing? She plays hot then cold

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

17 November 2016 (F)

age - Any idea what my "friend's" game is? She blows hot and cold. One minute she is all over me, asking to go out for a drink and a catch up, coming round to my house for a drink, next minute she cuts me dead and I hear nothing from her for ages. I contact her but there is... (423 words)

Does this guy have a girlfriend? I'm so confused!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

17 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who I used to date and have sex with, and all of a sudden, I saw a bunch of things that raise the question: Does this guy have an official girlfriend? -Firstly, he posted a picture on IG with a girl on Halloween and she commented "Next year we can be blah b... (247 words)

Boyfriend's excuse made me feel belittled

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

17 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - The other night my boyfriend and I had plans for dinner. We talked about it in the morning and he seemed super excited about it. Well later on in the morning his friends asked if he could do a boys night in which he responded with “I don’t feel like getting into an argument ... (162 words)

I'm losing my mind over my finances! This is worse than rock bottom. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

17 November 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't exactly a relationship question but this is killing me. I'm in debt after helping out financially. I haven't been able to pay credit cards, haven't been able to find a second job and now, I'm in danger of losing my car. My boyfriend can't help cause his income ... (327 words)

What is wrong with me I want a relationship but I don't want sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

17 November 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey Cupids,I'm still a young woman who is truly in to sex with men but I have been single for years and now I want to get into the dating world but not ready to have sex with anymore.I'm ready to travel and just do me but I do feel lonely at times but I just don't want to pick ... (131 words)

I am infactuated with this single dad!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

17 November 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - So there is this man at my church and he is a single dad. We've started to casually talk here and there. Two weeks ago he was saying to me how he would love to have more kids. Then last week he asks he personally if I ever wanted kids. This might just be him trying to simply ... (95 words)

Everytime I turn around she needs money.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

17 November 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a LDR and it has become frustrating how financially dependent she has become. We were in this situation when we lived in the same town, however, I was living at home and didn't pay any bills while working. Now I am living on my own and it just seems like at ... (89 words)

Am I "withholding love" and therefore being manipulative??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

17 November 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - When my partner and I have a bad fight, she leaves for days, and I'm unable to display love. It feels fake if in the middle of everything I said "I love you so much" or "How are you doing, I miss you". I'm not withholding love as a punishment or to evoke a reaction- It's just ... (296 words)