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writes:i got this online boyfriend we never seen each other yet been in a relationship nearly 2months we always video call, phone call and chat. we exchange password before in instagram. 1st he trusted me his instagram and i get jealous to the girl he talking to it and he change hes password coz he think changing instagram account make our relationship ruined then again i ask his password and give it to me, and lately we fight about instagram coz he like chating other woman. And he told me he will never give me his password again coz i keep jealous and it gonna ruined our relationship. Is he hiding something or he just want to secure our relationship? If i annoy him if i keep asking if who is he talking in instagram?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2016): If you've never gotten to know this man in person then, in my view, this is not a real relationship. If you feel you're interested in someone you have been chatting with online then meet for coffee and chat in person to see if there is really a connection.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 November 2016):
 Why have you both not went on a date after two months off online chatting? May I add it is only online chatting, he is not your boyfriend if you have never physically met him. He may have twenty different online girls.
It does sound like you are the jealous type and you have never even met this man and already telling him what to do and who to talk to. I don't think this will work out. Try being with someone who is not just over a computer screen.
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reader, malvern  +, writes (29 November 2016):
 You do not know this man, he is just somebody at the other end of a telephone. IF he really wanted to meet you he would have done so by now. He's just playing a game with you and probably with a lot of other girls as well. Please do not waste your time. There is no point sending endless texts, video calls etc to anybody on a dating site. Allow about 3 of these for each person, and if they haven't agreed to meet you after that, give up. Nobody can have a 'relationship' with somebody on a screen.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 November 2016):
 I think you should just accept that this is NOT a good guy for you. He doesn't care if his actions hurt you, all he cares about is what HE wants to do.
He is an "online bf" so easy for you to end it and walk away. Find someone you can BE with, in PERSON, who you can trust and whom in return will trust and respect you.
And yes, change all your passwords and end it. This "relationship" is going nowhere.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (29 November 2016):
 You're moving too fast. You shouldn't give your password to a new partner (and he shouldn't give his to you) because you could break up within weeks, which is what's bound to happen here because there's no trust.
It's fine that you haven't met yet, but it's best to not make it official until you have.
Both change your passwords and don't tell each other. You're constantly warned not to give out your personal information or passwords and that stands in these situations too.
If you don't trust him, break up. Learn from this :)
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (29 November 2016):
You are talking online and never saw each other...He could hide the moon from you.
First of all...If he trust you enough to give you his password, why do you not trust him? Most guys would never give out their password to anyone.
You cannot be jealous and be in love at the same time. One will rule over the other. Right now your jealousy rules over love...and yes...if there is no love, only jealousy...your relationship will soon be over.
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