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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: If I'm with my bf and he has told me he is more of a leg man and prefer smaller breasts and I'm short with larger breasts should I even bother with trying to involve them in foreplay and sex for his benefit . To me my breast are not extremely sensitive but my partners have always gotten so much enjoyment out if them and been real boob men but knowing that my current bf is not really into big ones kind of makes me turn off a little at the thought of even trying to turn him on with them. He never really touches them when we are making out or pays them attention.For some reason it makes me feel like is be making a fool if myself because he clearly prefers small pert ones and not large daggiest ones like mine so why bother. Should I just keep them covered . What's wrong with me? Do I have some deep rooted issues? We haven't had sex yet and I seem to be worrying endlessly about what to do with them
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reader, hilary +, writes (30 July 2014):
I would be more concerned with this obsession with looks. Why is it about looks? Does your personality, background, education, attitude and intelligence not play a part in whether or not he likes you a lot? And if a certain type of breasts is so important to him would he not have chosen a partner who had the ideal breasts rather than you with yours? Your boyfriend is fussy, fine, then it is a compliment to you that he chose you.
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reader, -Army_Cowboy- +, writes (21 July 2014):
Honestly, communication will be your best friend. I say that a lot. He likes small breasts, but yours are large. Obviously that's not an issue with him, because he's still yours. There's a connection there and he might just end up liking your larger breasts. I'm a "leg man" myself, but my fiance has a busty chest. Best of both worlds. Just experiment and see what the two of you can connect on. You won't know if you don't talk/try.
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