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writes:ok, i'm trying to think less about boys and i'm getting out more because i know it's good for me, but the guy i really like is next door and we're kinda like best friends (we knew about each other since we were little but rarely got to see each other because our homes were long distance, about 2 years ago we saw each other again... by that time i knew i had something for him and yes i know i was i little too young but hey it's love, later he and his mom moved next door to us). the feeling just got stronger and stronger and it's really hard to hide it because i don't know what my parents or his parents will say. i knew that time that he only liked me as a friend, but a few days ago i noticed that he stared at me and lately that he's more "affectionate" towards me(in a boyish manner),(we did have some eye contact a few days before). this might sound silly and selfish but i took some tests and stuff and most of them said he likes me, he might like me and the feeling might be there... i want to follow my heart but i also want someone else's "advice" that might be going through the same thing(or did). i don't want me and/or him to get hurt or embarrassed. should i just leave it and see what happens? :( ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2014): hi there! it's "he love me not... he loves me", thanks for the replies... i'll try to mix the advice... in other words "ask him out without him knowing it",take it easy but still sending out "signals" and "go out" in other words. what do you think?
thank you again, oh and i see you're both male readers so i think that was the best advice. (no offence to the women out there, remember i'm also one and if you also want to reply on my question do feel free).
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reader, -Army_Cowboy-  +, writes (21 July 2014):
I'd say take the first move and ask him out on a date. Might be untraditional, but guys like knowing they're wanted just as much as women. If he tries to sleep with you on/after that first date... I'd say move on because that's ALL he wants. If there's a connection there and its something that you two could build on however...ya might have something.
Try bowling or shooting pool. Something fun, cheap, and enjoyable that's in a public place. I would avoid clubs/bars so you can actually talk to one another. Smaller places (pool hall/bowling alley) will keep his attention on you, with the added bonus of fun.
Hope this helps. :D
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 July 2014):
 I didn't realize there were tests for this sort of thing but admittadly I am way behind times on these issues.Soooo,my advice is when the "do nothing option" is available take it!
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