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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Anyone know if a high erection angle, e.g. 11 o'clock, is particularly stimulating to women or is there not much benefit to having one? I have one and sex doesn't feel that great for me because of it, I think. But if it gets girls off particularly well, then that's good because there's nothing better than that (with fingers and tongue, good, but not the same). I know it can stimulate the g spot area, but what about other positions like during a rear entry position? I think that when I am behind a girl (had one gf), my penis kind of points upward so it's not stretching her length ways in the same way a lower angled penis does. I imagine that's not very good.Is it more arousing when it's high, or is it all in all just not a very good penis?Apparently only about 5% of guys have a high erection angle, but I am wondering what the majority opinion is of girls.Thanks
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reader, jls022 +, writes (21 July 2014):
I sometimes have a better time with one that's curved upwards slightly, but to be honest there's not much in it. Erections that stand straight up and touch the belly don't make any difference in my experience, as the angle changes to suit the angle of the vagina in the act.
Either way, as Honeypie says, it's much more about what you do with it. Most women don't get much out of penetration at all, and rely on fingers and tongues for pleasure. So it might be worth working on those skills if you really want to please your partner. I'd also like to point out that I would never want to be 'stretched' or 'filled' as I find it very painful if a man reaches 'the end' so that's not something you should worry about either.
I do find it strange that you say sex doesn't feel good, especially at your age. Maybe one of the male uncles could advise on this from a curved point of view, but it's likely that you will have to experiment with positions to find one you like. I guess unless you masturbate a lot, in which case it could be that you are too used to the tight grip of your hand.
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 July 2014):
Every 18 yr old boy I knew had a "belly hugger"... By 30 it won't be 11 o'clock... eventually you get less angle...
so I'd not worry about the angle at this point... as you age your technique will have to change to accommodate your body changes as well.
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female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 July 2014):
I think women don't care about the angle of the dangle. They DO care about HOW well you use what you got. (not just the penis, but hands, tongue, lips and so forth).
Like Chigirls said, you NEED to find a position that works for YOU and YOUR partner.
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female
reader, chigirl +, writes (21 July 2014):
Women are shaped differently as well, so this will acrually depend on the person and your compatibility. But for me, an angled penis is the absolute best and gives a lot of pleasure, while a straight one is boring...
I wonder why you feel you dont have as good an experience as "others"? Most penises are angled, you know, in all directions. An upward angle works best for me, personally, but a downward angle is also great. As for positions, you just have to experiment and find what works.
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