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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My mother in law keeps pressuring us to have children

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm married for a year now and i actually have a great life with my husband. we decided not to have kids the first years of our marriage and especially now that i have a chance of promotion in my work for which i worked very hard fir the past four years. the problem is that ... (239 words)

Do I wait around for him till his ex moves out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi just wondering if you could help me with this situation i have been friends with a man i like for about a year now he was married but they are separated but still living together till she moves out. He has told me he likes me and wants to be with me just not yet till his ex ... (107 words)

Boyfriend has become lazy and unappreciative.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. For the longest time, up until several months ago he was very much "into" me, and I mean by giving me a ton of his time/attention. He text me nonstop and was always sharing details about his day and made me feel like ... (438 words)

Losing interest..do most couples go through that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Hi everyone, first want to say happy new year to you all. I know people on here give really great advice so I need some help. When you first get into a relationship everything is amazing at first, you spend all of your time together, hang out and talk on the phone consta... (240 words)

I fancy my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I go to the gym a lot and I've fallen for my training partner, im 20 and he's 24 and I really like him, I've known him for a while but the problem is he has a girlfriend! We spend a lot of time together training and getting drinks afterwards and I developed feelings, and I know ... (84 words)

My grandfather is a dangerous driver, but his kids wont take the keys away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My grandfather is in his 80s, and he should not be on the road. I have been in the car with him, and he cant drive straight, frequently has to swerve to avoid hitting cars, and gets very stressed in busy areas. I have been in near accidents with him several times. I told ... (203 words)

Is it a normal thing to stay friends with an ex or do those situations usually turn out badly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - A year and a half ago, my 3 year relationship with my ex ended pretty badly. I found out she was actually cheating behind my back with a mutual friend of ours. I still loved her a lot and tried to work things out but in the end it didn't end up working out. I was desperate to ... (234 words)

S he using my feelings ? It hurts every time I see him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - When I saw him, I immediately fell for him. It wasn't love at first sight, but it came pretty close to it. We've been best friends for over two years now - which is exactly how long I have been in love with him. He is this rich casanova, who has girls falling at his feet. Re... (480 words)

I'm going for a physical and am a little embarrassed that doctor will see I am bald "down there"!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

3 January 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a 41 year old male. I have a Dr. appointment coming up in a few weeks for a full physical (haven't had one of those in quite awhile). I've been doing a full pubic hair shave for the last couple of months. I'm feeling a bit embarrassed that my doctor will see me bald down ... (88 words)

Girlfriend needs space but I need comfort! Do I end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I'm struggling to find the right thing to do. My gf recently lost a loved one and has since gone into a shell where she wants space yet is out all of the time. I recently received bad news about a family member and she barely said a word to me. When I told her I was ... (122 words)

How to tell a girl how I feel...and should I even do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I've liked this person that I have known for a good while and we have remained friends over the years. I dated her 4 years back for a couple of months but the timing was wrong and I was fresh off a break-up of a long term relationship. I couldn't commit and it was one of the ... (235 words)

I'm excited and proud to be married, he hasn't told anyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I just got married after dating for 5 years. Due to having minor kids my divorce decree said I couldn't cohabit with anyone. My new husband understood that and supported me in getting married. It was a lovely short ceremony at his (now our) home with his parents, my 4 kids ... (101 words)

We need a place ASAP but I'm not sure how to do this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, my dad put us on a two and one bedroom apartment low income. But what's happens if the one bedroom opens first, Then does that mean we have to take it? And the rules are only allowed 16 days a month to see my fiancee which is stupid but he wants us to break the rules ... (163 words)

Why didn't he mention his girlfriend ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey :) I met a guy a year ago, we "dated" briefly a month but nothing happened between us. Indeed, I want to build friendship with a guy before dating him. The consequence is that he thought I was disinterested so he faded away. Two weeks later I contacted him to ask for... (402 words)

He realises he needs help, but where do we turn for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 36, and my fiance's 29, we've been a couple since he was 21 and I was 27, and our relationship's been good. There's been no major arguments, no jealousy over male friends (if anything, he tries to be friends with them rather than be wary of them!), only silly argument... (453 words)

How do I get her back without pushing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

3 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex left me a year ago, because I broke her trust. I didn't cheat on her or anything like that. I went through her phone because I thought she might have been cheating. I told her what I did because I felt guilty for what I did, and she said that she no longer could trust me ... (387 words)

Why do girls break up with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Two weeks ago I met a widowed woman. she is so beautiful that I fell in love of her. after 3 or 4 times of meeting many sms's suddenly yesterday she asked me to separate. I don't know why? she just said we are from two different worlds. I had this problem before. I split ... (99 words)

All of my friends that are my age are married and are starting families of their own and it’s like my only consolation is to watch them live out the dreams that I had for myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I just wish I knew how to fix things, but I honestly don’t know what to do. I feel like I’m just stuck right now. Yet another birthday is on the horizon and I don’t feel like I’ve accomplished anything. I recently lost a job that I hoped would be my career. I’ve taken it as ... (271 words)

She wont say she loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (M)

age - Hello, ive been with my girl friend for years, we have broken up before, after 7 years, cause she never said she loved me, we got back together, she said it once, now a year an half later still doesn't say it, we get along real good, I say it once an while, but she doesn't say ... (96 words)

Do I go with the guy that everyone approves of or the one I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I currently have 2 b.f's both a year older than me.I think I should stop cheating and settle for the best...The problem is I love them both soooo much but I don't know which one is the one! well first guy #1 is sweet,funny and makes me feel good everyone approves him... (135 words)

I been burned being the nice guy again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

3 January 2014 (M)

age - Hi, just wondering ladies, what you think this means, been seeing some one for about two months, I thought every thing was going great, went out on her birthday, had a great time, then two days later had surgery on my leg, didn't hear from her for four days, I had to call her, ... (222 words)

Husband and I are in the middle of our first major disagreement!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in the midst of my first major disagreement with my husband, and it's such a silly one I really have no idea what to do. We've been married for 6-7 months, we really just arent confrontational people so we've never argued before since we just mutually agreed that if we ... (592 words)

Our sexual interests are completely opposite. Can I satisfy my needs elsewhere?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am happily engaged to an amazing man; we are getting married this coming October. He is my best friend, and an incredible person. I love him so much, and the thought of him being hurt is just too much for me to bear. However, when it comes to sex, we are on two different pl... (195 words)

Did my boyfriend cheat with this random facebook girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have gotten extremely close over the last 6 months or so. However, before that, we weren't so close - we only spoke every couple of days, whereas now we're inseparable. My boyfriend and I go to different universities, but in the same city. Around last April ... (290 words)

I've just had a baby and I am stressed, stressed, stressed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Where to begin! Just gave birth to my baby who I am very protective of due to losing a baby in the past. My in laws can't seem to understand why I will only leave my baby with my mum if/ when I go out. When I go their to visit with my partner his brother is there and makes me ... (307 words)

I'm trapped in a bad marriage and I have feelings for a married man who's in a similar situation like me. Have any of you been in this situation before and did anything ever come of it especially when both of you had children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Could this man be my soul mate? I have been married for almost 10 years, and I am an extremely faithful and understanding wife. Although people get married with the intention of loving in good times and in bad, I feel like I have been through a disproportionate amount of bad t... (814 words)

What are the chances I'll get a guy who masturbates over me in a relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - What are the chances I'll get a guy who masturbates over me in a relationship? Is this becoming uncommon now? I might be able to settle for them thinking of me sometimes, my ex hardly did, I found that strange and dumped him. I gathered I would be able to find someone who ... (62 words)

It seems the longer I stay, the harder I am finding it to break free.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years. We don't live together but I was planning to move in after his brother moved out (its a small apartment and wasn't enough room for me and my belongings etc). However, his brother has now found his own pl... (520 words)