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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I get over this, and be like we were before, or is this over completly??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I had a huge arguement yest, he told me he didnt want to be with me anymore, that we were different, that he wasn't ready for a relationship. I started crying because I honestly did not think he felt this way, and he hugged me and said he wasn't going to leave me, ... (147 words)

Feeling insecure about his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I have a question/problem What's the best way to deal with your partner talking with their ex? And how can I stop feeling so insecure and bad about it? Through out my relationship with my boyfriend, I know he stays in touch with an ex from over a year ago wh... (172 words)

Less communication lately from my LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 9 months (it's a serious relationship and we have met and everything). For the past month or so things have changed. He hasn't been so 'into' me like he used to be and I haven't been getting much attention f... (362 words)

She's 22 and I'm 16. But I panicked and said I was 21. How do I tell her the truth and not have a bad reaction from her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

5 January 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I met this 22 year old girl online. We instantly hit it off and it turns out that we both live in Aus. We exchanged mobile numbers and have been talking constantly since then, the only problem that I have is that when she asked my age... I panicked like, as my name ... (196 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend want to have sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He makes me extremely happy. He's attentive, caring, funny; one might say he's perfect. However, he doesn't have sex with me. The first six months or so we had a lot of sex. Then it sort of got hard for me to have sex with ... (262 words)

I have had sex but now find no interest in it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - im 17 and lost my virginity about 6months ago and have since at sex a few times with 3 different guys. the first times it really hurt and now although it doesnt hurt, i have no interest in sex. i dont know if this is usual but i dont really feel aroused in any way and never ... (142 words)

Women, what turns you on? Why wasn't I attracted to a really hot guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Girls, what do you think of penis'? Are you turned on by them? Do you enjoy giving blow jobs or do you do it mostly b/c you love your man and want to pleasure him? What do you enjoy most about a guy? What turns you on? Just him doing stuff to you or do you enjoy his aesthetics? ... (155 words)

What does sex feel like when you're in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it feel like to have sex with the opposite sex when you are in love? I don't think I've ever been in love but I've had a lot of hook ups (where I usually go as far as oral sex.) I also had sex with 3 guys, each that i never loved. And it wasn't that special or amazi... (216 words)

How to help my girlfriend become more comfortable with herself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok here's the thing. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years, but I have never seen her completely naked. She especially feels uncomfortable around the private area, and the stomach area. Therefore we are unable to take a shower together with the lights on, or ha... (494 words)

I feel worthless and need advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help this is lengthy so if anyone's willing to read and advise I would be so grateful I really don't like myself I have extremely few friends and am extremely harsh and negative about myself I'm 39 in 2 weeks and live at home I feel like I've achieved nothing I wa... (323 words)

Is it possible that my ex said he will always love me but doesn't want me back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (F) age 36-40 - My ex and I started contact few days ago because I found out he has a new girlfriend after we broke up. I told him I was sad and never wanted to know who the girl is and anything about them. He came back to me 3 months after dumping me, but I didn't want. He told me he's not ... (145 words)

Sex hurts too much! Is it possible to just be sexually incompatible with someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have what feels to me like a pretty awkward question. I've tried researching online but can't find anything useful. I've been with my boyfriend on and off for two years now. He took my virginity and we've always been great together. Apart from one issue: sex! Although we... (203 words)

My husband left me for my best friend. How is this all going to work out for us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, so here's my situation... it's a bit long, but still. My husband left me for my best friend the day after Boxing Day, and I found out because there was a photo of her in a bikini and him topless cuddling up to her in the snow in her garden saved on his Blackberry (it was ... (206 words)

What did she mean?? "My heels are higher than your standards"??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl said to me my heels higher then your standerd. Can anybody tell me wat does it means pplss... (20 words)

He has been sleeping with my best friend but wants another chance!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend who is18 slept with my best friend during our entire one year relationship . He says that he is sorry and doesn't know why he did it bit wants me to give him another chance... (37 words)

How do I tell them in bed ..... "dont do that"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with a few partners so far, I use birth control and condoms and all that and get tested regularly and make sure my partners do the same. Almost every guy I've been with does a few things that I do not like, things that are almost a complete turn off. How do I go ... (112 words)

I have no experience of the fliriting, dating world!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My question here is about making the first move in the dating world. I'm 19 and I still suffer with a lack of confidence. I'm very mind-oriented, and by that I mean my thoughts overtake me and prevent me from taking any action. Everything comes with a set of worries and ... (412 words)

She and me, we are a pair of cheaters!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i'll keep things simple my girlfriend went to a new years party and did shrooms n ectasy and had sex with another guy and she told me about it. i have cheated one her before but i told her and then she cheated one me after that now she did it again.but should i be mad if i'm ... (89 words)

I think he likes me but why doesn't he make a move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

5 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy doesn't make a move! I like him very much. I feel warm and comfortable around him, and every time I see him I have sex dreams and wake up in a good mood. I saw him yesterday again at friends house. He wouldn't leave my side, looks and smiles at me all the tim... (212 words)