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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there any way to learn to separate myself from her bad days in a healthy manner? One where I'm not abandoning her yet I'm still looking out for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't always know how to deal with my girlfriends depression. Some days, she's really happy and easy to be around, while other days, she gets in this deep depression and I don't know how to deal with it. She's on antidepressants and they seem to be working fairly well for ... (219 words)

We've been together so long at this point I don't want to give up, but I am worried the love won't come back.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We hit a rough patch when I lost my job, it lasted about 6 months. He was borderline emotionally abusive about my lack of job. He would panic and verbally attack me to deal with it. There was no reason to panic about money as he had a ... (246 words)

Is she controlling him or could it be I did something wrong to end our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi wondered if you could help me make sense of this weird situations. I have been friends with a guy for roughly 6 years, used to be very close but drifted apart after a fall out. The fallout was because after he got with his new gf he told me he doesn't want to come out ... (637 words)

I never slept with anyone or did anything more than kissing, I want to move in with my boyfriend but the past is haunting me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there I am tormented. Sorry if this is long but i want to explain everything. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. In the beginning things weren't good. We argued A LOT. He played computer games and neglected me or would leave me for his friends when i wa... (730 words)

Is anyone staying in a relationship because the economy is so bad right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age - I was just wondering if there are people in relationships that are staying in them purely because the economy in the US is in the tank right now. I know my cousin is. She can't stand her husband but she said she would be suffering financially if they split up. She is older ... (129 words)

Do I stay with my girlfriend and hope things get better, or leave her for a girl who may leave me for a girl when she decides I'm just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - im currently in a relationship with a girl and ive been with her for five years, i loved her in the beginning and i still care for her but im finding it hard to say to myself that i still love her and for the last year ive felt less intrested in her, she doesnt know i've been ... (196 words)

My mother does not approve of my girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

15 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 year old male and I have a girlfriend who is 23 and has a 2 years old boy. My mother has huge hate against her and I need you guys to help me solve the problem... I went to Japan for 3 months and I met a girl(Half Filipina, Quarter American, Quarter Japanese) I was ... (442 words)

I'd like to meet and start dating someone but my circumstances make it difficult!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 28, from the North Midlands in the United Kingdom, disabled (but not physically) and bisexual, don't mention it to many people, it doesnt define me, it's not obvious to most people. (for both things, disability and bisexual). I'm mainly attracted to women, very rarely men ... (501 words)

Am I being unreasonable with my home?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a female sharing my house with two other females. One of them is like a mouse, she is very quiet and rarely comes out of her room. She has her boyfriend practically living with us but I don't mind because they mostly stay in her room. The other girl has her boyfriend and ... (284 words)

Girlfriend wants to adopt a child, am I selfish to object?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 January 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of about three years and I have a great relationship. We both have younger children from past marriages so we have agreed we will not live together at least until the children are grown. Neither of us is interested in remarrying, at least not anytime soon. We ... (230 words)

He thinks I have anger issues but no one else I know does!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I just wondered if any women have had a situation where a man has accused them of being 'angry' as in inherently angry, when almost no one else that they know has ever said anything remotely like this? I recently had a situation in which a man who I know was/possibly sti... (270 words)

I found his ad on casual sex sites but thought he was against it!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 January 2014 (?) age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have been with my current boyfriend for about 7 months now. About a month ago, I was using his iPad to purchase Christmas presents and I found a site bookmarked called "Forgetdinner". I was curious so I entered the site and it turns out it is a casual sex site.... (407 words)

Why can't men treat a good woman right, be faithful and stop that wondering eye?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age - I am a 49 year old woman married 25 years and two children. I married my high school sweetheart, who was a flirt... He cheated on me 17 years ago, and last year... I don't know about all the other years, but I have doubts. He will never admit that he had sex with them.. But I'm ... (378 words)

Do you say goodnight to each other or do you sometimes forget?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiancé got upset that I didn't say goodnight to him. He wanted me to work on my project which I did late into the night. He was still up and in another area of the house when I decided I was really tired and I went to bed. He woke me up and said to me that I didn't e... (153 words)

I was thinking once I find work and I am happy with my life that I could perhaps try again with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi My boyfriend has just ended our 4 month relationship on the basis that we don’t click. At the beginning of the relationship, things were great. We were close, we enjoyed spending time together, we had fun and we would talk all the time. Things changed when I ... (456 words)

I've been advised to get a mortgage on my own, and I feel guilty for in essence changing my mind about putting him on the mortgage!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I could do with some advice please. I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years but we recently broke up and got back together. The reason for this break was because he has 2 kids from a previous relationship who I love to bits, we moved in together, but I was sav... (407 words)

We have a long history together and I love him but I don't know where this is all leading to...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend and I, we were childhood friends. We grew up together, my ma used to babysit him and we went to church and school together. When we were kids we'd have movie nights and we would stay up watching until 4 am. We were really close. Let's call him Aaron. When... (721 words)

She's always got excuses not to spend time with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

15 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - So I met a girl after ending a 10 year relationship. The new girl is much younger than me and she started the flirting and all that sweet stuff. So I really thought she was into me. We've been seeing each other for 8 weeks now. We live far apart but I'm planning on moving ... (346 words)

S going NC out of the blue considered childish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 January 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - A girl I was dating, and that was very into me about two months ago seems to have lost interest in me. She never said so explicitly, but it's obvious. She no longer initiates conversation, takes a lot longer to reply to my texts and is way more dry in her responses. I feel like ... (162 words)

Why can't I get the girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 January 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm a freshman in high school and I've got a wierd issue of being rejected and/or friendzoned. I've heard that guys that leak confidence get the girl, but I've tried everything. I try to ask a girl to the movies or something but I always get denied. Along with the fact that I ... (107 words)

Caught my Girlfriend answering ad on craigslist.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I know it was deceitful but I created a fake ad on craigslist to see if my girlfriend would answer and she did. I did this once before and she answered and this was the second time. I replied back and pretended to this other guy and she flirted and told her I was just wanting ... (108 words)

We have a lot of growing to do. Should I cut my ties?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I spent a few months befriending my now boyfriend. Finally after I started to get over him he came to and we started dating. Things changed in a snap. I was no longer a bro, I was his girl. He is the sweetest guy to me. The kind girls dream of. He would do anything for me (were ... (486 words)

I need tips to look my best when meeting his work colleagues!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, im just looking for some help if any of you can provide please. my new husband works away a lot, he comes home in 2 weeks and the week after that we are going to a fancy charity evening set up by his work. not I know I don't have to dress up for my husband or anyone... (244 words)