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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm worried my boyfriend is losing interest!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past few weeks my boyfriend has been acting very different with me and I don't know what's going on anymore. Basically I have a few questions such as What are the signs that a guy is losing interest in you or becoming bored with the relationship? Why is my b... (262 words)

Things are great but I am bored, how can I spice things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been with my boyfriend for two years and things are great I'm just bored. I don't know what to do about this, we go out alot and it just doesnt satisfy me (to put that in the most grateful way, we go and do things together alot, sex is dull and boring and i try to ... (157 words)

Why do girls lose interest?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

2 January 2014 (M) age 30-35 - This isn't a question about a specific scenario but rather a general question in regards to romantic relationships. Because I have seen this happening to me and to some male friends often (and it is a recurrent topic here in DearCupid.com). A guy starts dating a girl an... (271 words)

I never thought I would be the girl that couldn't let go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice.. I can't let go of my ex bf. He ended it after a few years and we have this constant on and off thing going on. And I let him back in my life every time. He has slept with other people during our "breaks" and it makes me sick, yet I can't let go. The time... (121 words)

I cheated on him with my ex, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 17 years old about 7 moths ago I slept with a guy for the first time I left him . And now there is a new guy I slept with him, Because he said it was the right thing to do we have been together for 1moth and 2 days ago I cheated when he left me at a party. And now a don't ... (81 words)

What happened in Vegas didn't stay in Vegas!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

2 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - my wife and i have been together for almost 3 years and have been married almost 1 year. we have had our fair share of bumps and bruises. 2 months ago, i broke a promise to her by going to a strip club with my friends on my birthday. i have been forgiven for breaking that ... (735 words)

Does he think I make a bad partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Advice? I feel bad. My fiance smashed his finger in the door of a friends house on our way out and I failed to get him ice simply because I didnt think if my friend had any ice. Instead I said lets hurry home I know theres an ice pack there which we did, but his finger has been ... (145 words)

Am I oversensitive or was he just horrible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What he said was nasty right? Or am I being too sensitive? So I was on the phone to my bf last night and we were talking about something he feels really strongly about and I made a rude comment about the place but it was a joke. He took it so serious and said he wi... (199 words)

I love a woman who is 8 years older than me but I don't know if I want to marry her and she's pushing for it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

2 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am a 39 year old man from Ireland. 4 years ago I started seeing a single mum who has three kids. The lady is 8 years older than me and had just come out of a bad relationship. Things were fine in the beginning and we managed to open up to eachother quite a bit. I... (338 words)

Is this affair just a phase in my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a married woman who's been having an affair with my coworker for 8 months now. My husband and I have a fake relationship, we pretend to be happy and try to do things together for the kids sake. But as soon as we disagree on something we blow up and it turns into a h... (309 words)

Possesive and controlling or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm in need of some advice about my boyfriend of only 3 months who I think may be possessive or controlling however I can't fully tell. I'm very aware of the fact he could be and I'm trying not to let my feelings deepen until I can understand him to the best possible ex... (387 words)

I asked her out and she said "we'll see".what do I do now?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

2 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I like this girl that works at my local convenience store. The Monday before last (23rd) I asked her if she wanted to go and see the local pantomime, expecting her to say no, but instead she said yes, but she's have to see about her shifts. She was off work for a few days... (162 words)

What problems could happen if we did become older parents

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband both want children; we're young professionals, aged 29 and 32, and we've been married for 2 years now. We're middle-class, own a Citroen and a Lexus, and our own house, and are fairly wealthy by local standards. I'm Italian-English and my husband is British. H... (221 words)

Can a scorned ex wait years to get you back just to use and dump you

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex have been communicating with me in getting back with me for over 6yrs. After 6yrs I began to notice the type of changes in him that I wanted back then. Now I traveled to go see him. We got tipsy first night and had sex. Well now I'm back home and really don't feel goo... (152 words)

I really like this guy but sometimes he's nice and sometimes he's not! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I really like this guy and I think he likes me to. I catch him staring at me and he flirted with me a lot at the school dance. But sometimes he can be mean to me which my friends say it's because he likes me. And sometimes he flirts soooo much with one of my friends. He can... (94 words)

how should you take things to next level with this girl ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid What does it mean when you tell a girl that you find her attractive and really like her but she doesn't say anything back! (She just mentions its hard for her to express to people and she does not say much usually) ! And you give a big hint further that you... (132 words)

Is she doing this because she is proud of me or is she just too talkative?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I only been together two months. I've met her whole immediate family. We go out often. And she knows I'm a quiet reserved person. It just put me outside my comfort zone when she does that thing. The thing is she quickly tell strangers what I do for a ... (193 words)

She told me how somebody 'could get her panties to drop!"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Alrighty then, a little backstory on me. I'm 19 and I've never even had my first kiss, let alone a date. It's not lack of opportunity, just no one I've been interested in that the opportunity came up with. So, anyways I've known a girl for about 6 years now. I've crushed ... (252 words)

Was he just trying to get laid, or did he like me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a huge party at a hotel in the city last night and this guy comes up to me and my friend and asks me what my name is and if i wanna dance. I say sure and he takes my hand and says "come here". So we dance and I'm a terrible dancer and I tell him I'm not used to this, ... (634 words)

I went to the movies with a male friend. Was that cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy for 2 years and 2 weeks ago he told me he's never had a gf before and that I was the first girl that got close to him and he developed feelings for me, I reminded him I have a boyfriend that I love, he said he was aware nothing would happen ... (198 words)

He broke up with me a month before he moved away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - He's twelve years older than me, I'm 18. When we started dating we were both concerned about other peoples reactions due to the age and so because he was moving away at the end of last month we decided to try stay secret given nothing long term could really happen. It was a ... (279 words)

It bothers me that my boyfriend is not more consciencious about his appearance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 24 years old and in a relationship with a man for 9 months,he keeps me very happy and he's head over heels in love with me,I like him too but as superficial as this sounds I always wanted my man to dress smart wear nice watches,belts..my boyfriend lacks this.. I care a... (102 words)

Is she done or just needing time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - After a magical 4 yr relationship my ex dumped me just before Christmas. We had a rough year of fighting bc her ex took the kids away and there was a lot of stress and court appts. I was stressed bc I started a new job. She talked about marrying me for three yrs. she broke up ... (250 words)

I've fallen for my brother's ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i have developed feelings for my brother's ex they split over a year ago and were together for bout 2 months my brother left her because she was already pregnant with someone else`s baby wen they got together now having stayed friends n now i have developed feelings for her its ... (177 words)

Husband said he was just looking for friends, but I'm suspicious

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - A little background of my situation. I have been married for almost 6 years. After about a year of happy marriage I found my husband talking with and exchanging nude pictures online. I confronted him and he apologized and promised it would never happen again. About 6 months ago ... (313 words)

His communication is really inconsistent

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid...How much time do couples usually spend together talking or hanging out? I'm asking this because I notice my boyfriend's communication with me is inconsistent. Like some days he will be very talkative and really wanting to spend a lot of time with me, and then oth... (108 words)

What should I do when my boyfriend is depressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts and Uncles! I have been with a man for the past 8 months. It has been a rollercoaster wave of emotions since after the 6 month mark. His marriage has been over for the last two years and I can see that he suffers from depression and has told me he has been depressed ... (537 words)

My boyfriend secretly recorded one of our arguments

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My (ex)boyfriend just admitted that he secretly recorded an audio file of an argument that occured three weeks ago and was resolved. Today, he was angry with me and told me that he found my reaction on that audio file unbelievably ridiculous. I fe... (310 words)

I shouldn't have asked to see pictures of my boyfriend's ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

2 January 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why am I so angry at him? Is not his fault is it? So I asked my boyfriend about his ex and he told me everything about her and he asked if I wanted to see a picture of her and I said yeah sure but I bet she's not prettier than me and he said no she's not. He didn... (209 words)